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In-the-closet concern. (Agony).(woman who believes she is attracted to gay men)(Brief Article)
I've had four boyfriends in my life, and two of them later turned out to be gay. It freaks me out, and I'm afraid that either I did something to turn them gay or I have a quality that attracts closeted men. Is this Just a strange coincidence, or is there something behind it?
First of all, it is impossible that you turned these men gay. Their sexuality was imprinted upon them long before they ever met you, so put that idea out of your mind right now. In terms of there being something about you that attracts them, it is possible. As a rule, young closeted men are unhappy and hiding their true selves. Perhaps they were drawn to your kindness, patience, and willingness to help others. If that rings true, don't feel bad about the role ...
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