Girls' Life articles from October 2008

Girls' Life archives from October 2008

Find your perfect pen pal!(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Ever wish you had faraway friends? Girls who could let you know what's up in Wisconsin? A bud who knows the coolest trends in Tuscaloosa? Or maybe just someone you can tell your innermost secrets--without the chance of your entire school...

So true.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] I was so impressed by your article "Be the True You!" [A/S '08]. When I first started junior high, I desperately wanted to be a part of the "in-crowd" but found myself very unhappy once I got there. I later summoned...

Sister, sister.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... When I received your August/September '08 issue, I jumped for joy. I love The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants and it's so great to see Amber, Blake, Alexis and America on the cover. Awesome job, and thank you for being such a fun magazine!--A...

Make-better mania.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... As a teenage GL subscriber of many years, I have been disappointed with your magazine lately, feeling that it appeals more to younger readers. With your latest issue, however, my concerns were put to rest. You did a marvelous job. I was...

Curlg Qs.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... I love GL, but I've noticed that all of the models have straight hair. I have curly hair, and it's disappointing to see no how-tos for girls with locks like mine. And please don't just advise flat-ironing your curls.--A reader We hear ya!...

Not so shy girl.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... I really liked "Kiss Shy Goodbye" [GL Life, A/S '08] and "Your Biggest Back to School Probs--Solved!" [A/S '08]. I'm a little shy, and those articles gave me some great advice.--A reader Your articles have helped give me confidence. I used...

Taking sides.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... Thank you for "Taking Chances" [GL Special Report, A/S '08]. It really opened my eyes to what can happen if you're not careful. I'll now be very cautious if I get into a relationship with a guy. You may have just saved me from making a very big...

GL letter of the month.(You Said It!)(Letter to the editor)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] I read your article about The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, and I have a story. In eighth grade, my friend Amanda left her sneakers at my house after a sleepover, so I wore them to school. Our friend, Katy, kept...

What's hot on girlslife.com for October and November.
October 1, 2008... SNAG A DATE--IN FIVE DAYS OR LESS! [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] We have TONS of exciting new content! You asked for it! Get everything you need to knew about boys, babysitting, friends, periods, tough stuff and your body--all in one...

Crush confused.(Dear Carol)(best friend- crush dilemma)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... My best friend and I like the same guy. I think he might want to go out with me, but I don't want to hurt my best friend. Dear Crush Confused, I'm glad your crush might like you back and that you're sensitive to your BFF's feelings. Make...

Fighter.(Dear Carol)(fight with boys)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... I had a huge fight with this boy I know. Now this other boy is in a fight with me. My friends told the principal, and now we have to work things out. I've been there a couple times because of other fights. Dear Fighter, Some things are...

Overexposed.(Dear Carol)(showing some revealing pictures)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... I had a BF, and I knew him for only five days. I showed him some revealing pictures that I am not proud of. I don't know what possessed me, and now I regret it and want to forget it ever happened. Dear Overexposed, Agreed, that wasn't your...

Looking for my missing piece.(Dear Carol)(best friends drifting apart)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... My absolute greatest friend and I are drifting apart. We used to spend every moment together, but not any more. Today before school, we were at a table (just us), and after a really long silence, I asked, "When did it get all weird?" She...

Major mom mess.(Dear Carol)(mother daughter relations)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... My room has never encouraged me or said she is proud of me. Last year, we had a fight and I moved in with my dad. The other day she caught me wearing eyeliner and called me a slut and a disappointment. How do I keep a good relationship with my...

To cut or not to cut.(Dear Carol)(self mutilation)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... I have been through a lot of stress and considered cutting myself. Please help. Dear To Out or Not to Out, No, no, no, don't cut yourself! That will not help anything. I'm sorry you've been stressing, but there are healthy ways to relieve...

Surrounded by boys.(Dear Carol)(family time with brothers and father)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Every other weekend, I go to my dad's apartment with my brother. Sometimes my two other older brothers come over, too. Recently, we were all watching TV when a commercial with this woman came on. My dad and my brothers were hooting and saying...

Dumped like garbage.(Dear Carol)(break ups)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... I just started high school, and I had amazing friends, the best boyfriend, great classes. Then last Friday, my boyfriend dumped me over the phone. That night, he told me on AIM that he was asking one of my friends to Homecoming. Every time I...

Bugged by BFF.(Dear Carol)(friction between best friends)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... I've known my best friend for five gears. She can be fun, but then she'll be rude and mean. She's smart and likes to brag about it. Sometimes I want to yell at her. Dear Bugged by BFF, Even best friends get on each other's nerves...

Mixed feelings.(Dear Carol)(father-daughter relations)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... My dad's a truck driver and is gone a lot. We talk over the phone. When he's gone, I miss him. When he's home, I want my space and want him gone. Dear Mixed Feelings, Parents! Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em. It's normal...

Midteen crisis.(Dear Carol)(teenage frustration)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Ever since high school started, it suddenly hit me. I have only four more years until I'm an adult! I still have so much to do, and there's no time. It just doesn't feel like I've done enough or accomplished anything big. Dear Midteen...

Absent present.(Dear Carol)(grandmother-granddaughter relations)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... My birthday is in October, but my grandmother stopped sending me birthday presents because she says I never thank her for them. My mom told me this, and it's true but it still makes me upset. I am going to see my grandma over Thanksgiving and...

Change.(Dear Carol)(boyfriend behavior change)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Do you believe people can change? My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months, and he's controlling and has a temper. He sags he doesn't want to lose me, and he's going to change. We're 15. I don't want to hurt his feelings. ...

Confused about drugs.(Dear Carol)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... One of my best friends started smoking pot at parties. I want to try it, out of curiosity. I'm not being pressured or anything, but I feel that I can't judge anybody who does drugs if I haven't even tried it myself. I'm so confused. Dear...

Coming up roses.(GL FASHION: BEST NEW TREND)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Vintage-inspired floral accessories get fabulouslu modern once sprinkled with plenty of sparkle. A few bitty bouquets feel fresh clipped into an updo, while bigger buds bloom on their own. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] BROOCH THE SUBJECT ...

Purple reign.(GL FASHION: CUTE AND CHEAP)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Bright purple is this season's must-have. Here's how to add major punch for pennies. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] TANK IS TOPS Extra detailing makes this violet tank versatile. Layer on a gray cardi, then belt it. Just add jeans and...

Step out in your best-ever boots!(GL FASHION: LOVE YOUR BOD)(Buyers guide)
October 1, 2008... Short. Tall. Chunky. Slim. This fall, boots come in tonsa totally different shapes. We've got plenty of pointers to help ya score the perfect pair to flatter your shape. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Deanna, 16 SCOPED OUT Long and lean...

Jet-set style.(GL FASHION: REAL LIFE STYLE)(Interview)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] If ya bumped into Arianna, 17, a few gears ago, it'd be hard to distinguish her from her pack of preppy galpals. Today, she stands out with a highly personal, global-girl vibe. So, what's the story behind all the...

We love lashes! Ultra-long lashes define chic this fall. But ya don't have to go to extreme lengths to get eyes that amaze. We got easy, wave-of-the-wand tricks for glamour-girl lashes from pro makeup artist Petra Strand.(GL: BEAUTY: BEST NEW TREND)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] HOT, HOT, HOT Warm up to a heated curler. "They really open up eyes." Just curl first, mascara Sally Hansen La Cross Heated Eyelash Curler, $12, drugstores [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] BAT THOSE BABY BLUES...

Make your pout perfection! Rose or mauve? Peach or coral? Finally, the guessing games are gonna stop. We've got super-easy tips on how to snag the best color for your kisser. Sorry, gloss, you gotta go-at least for this second!(GL BEAUTY: YOUR PERFECT SHADE)(Buyers guide)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] STAY TRUE TO YOUR HUE You want your lips to pop, but that doesn't mean you've gotta pick a way-wild hue. "Stay away from lipstick shades that are either very light or very dark in pigment," celeb makeup artist...

Twisted tresses: put down that flat iron! Curls are shining this fall. Whether you're wild and wavy or cute and curly, we've got the tips for making easy, gorgeous hair a reality.(GL BEAUTY: HAIR)
October 1, 2008... Wavy Hair THE CUT "Got waves or medium cuds? Long lagers frame the face and let you wear your hair up or down," says Michelle Brewer of naturallycurly.com. All-the-same-length outs weigh waves down. THE TRICK Work mousse into wet hair...

Too close for comfort? Are you and your BFF connected 24/7? Believe it or not, a little 'me time' can take your friendship from too tight to just right.(GL BFF)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] It sounds impossible, we know, but, gasp!, every awesome twosome can benefit from each girl branching out a bit. Before Built sets in, know this: You can set some breathing room without breaking your beet-bud bond....

GL Body Q&A.
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] I have been noticing in the shower and at school that some of my hair has been falling out. It's really scaring me. Am I going bald? Before ya jump to conclusions about this hairy situation, it's important to...

What's up down there? Are you normal? Vanquish those vajayjay worries right here.(GL BODY)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] From strange smells to totally weird stuff in your underwear, every one of us has wondered (and worried!) about what's going on "down there." That's why we asked Dr. Susan Goodale of Central Pediatrics in St. Paul,...

GL guys Q&A.
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] DAVE Relationships fail because of mismatches, a situation which can take various forms. Perhaps you don't have enough common interests or dislike each other s favorite pastime. Some couples don't work because the...

Unplug your flirt strategy: turn your high-tech crush into a real-world romance!
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] You've been posting playful messages on your crush's wall for weeks. But now that it's time for a little in-person flirting? Ah... you're not feeling so bold. Who could blame you? Online, you can't get flustered by...

Be the girl who has it all: we've got the six secrets to making all your dreams a reality. And guess what? It's not as hard as you think.(GL LIFE)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Every grade's got one: The Totally Together Girl (or TTG for short). She's straight-A smart, class prez and even volunteers at an animal shelter. You wanna hate her (only truth is, you kinda wanna be her). Lucky for...

Dustin Milligan: New guy in town.(GL WHAT'S HOT)(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] WELCOME TO 90210 Dustin's been acting for a few gears, but we're really taking note now that he's arrived in the most stylin' zip code on TV. He plays athlete Ethan and is one-half of the school's hottest couple....

Gl's must list.
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] All Star Cheer Squad Who needs pompoms when there's a Wii remote? From learning new cheers to creating your own, you'll be practicing, competing and leading your squad to victory in All Star Cheer Squad, out the...

Must read.(GL WHAT'S HOT)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Torn to Pieces by Margot McDonnell, Delacorte Press, $16 Anne is used to her journalist mother's frequent business trips, but she doesn't like them. Right before Anne's birthday, Mum takes an unexpected...

Celebs! They're just like you!(GL WHAT'S HOT)
October 1, 2008... "Before I moved to L.A., I went to a regular middle school, and that's probably where cliques are the worst. Some of my friends were getting very territorial and wanted me to only hang out with them and only sit at their table. The best advice...

GL's crushin' on ... Ryne Sanborn.(GL WHAT'S HOT)(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Forget Zac. And Corbin who? We wanna see Ryne Sanborn aka Jason in High School Musical 3. He spilled some secrets from his life outside the crazy world that is HSM. THE RIGHT MOVES Rune may have some dance skills, but guess what? Before...

15 minutes with ... Saoirse Ronan.(GL WHAT'S HOT)(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Irish actress Saoirse (pronounced Ser-sha) is only 14, but she's already an Academy Award nominee (for Atonement) and is scoring amazing roles, like Susie in The Lovely Bones (out 2009). This month, she plays Lina in...

Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist.(MuST sEe)(Kat Dennings )(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] In Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist, out October 3, Nick asks Norah to be his girlfriend for five minutes to prove to his ex he is sooo over her. And so begins a night of music, conversation and just maybe a bit of...

Miranda: iCarly's Miranda Cosgrove may be one of Nickelodeon's brightest stars, but this down-to-earth girl has her feet planted firmly on the ground.(Interview)
October 1, 2008... It's photoshoot day for Miranda Cosgrove, but when the star of Nickelodeons iCarly arrives--right on time--there's huge diva drama goin' on at the Hollywood studio. Another session is running late, stress is peaking and an army of...

My simple rules for life....(Karen the Editor's Page)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] By the time you read this, I will have celebrated a very significant birthday. The kind that, when I was a kid and my best friend Jen's parents had a party to celebrate that birthday, I just remember thinking "that...

Get cozy.(Buyers guide)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Hyper-saturated hues and chunky knits are fall's perfect pair. Trot out timeless pieces that are part country-girl cool and part urban-girl glam. We're not on the fence: You're gonna look gorgeous! [ILLUSTRATION...

Oh, the horror! Trick or treat? With boys, you can get a li'l bit of both. Here's how to keep your dream date from turning into a total nightmare.
October 1, 2008... You've finally scored a date with that super-gorge guy. You just know that everything is going to be perfect---until something horrifyingly humiliating or down-right Wolfman-weird happens. Sound familiar? You're not alone. We've all had dates...

What's your secret learning style? Are you a show-me student or more of a listen-and-learn kind of gal? Knowing how your brain works best is the new, easy wag to an A!
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Your locker's crammed with books and your planner's packed with assignments--and it's not even midterms. So what's the smartest wag to fill your noggin without going into brain overload? Hint: Everyone absorbs info...

Strict-ly business: got super-strict folks? Here's how to reason with your 'rents so that their rules don't rule out your fun.
October 1, 2008... From taking away your text time to banishing boy, it may seem like your parents are on a mission to mess up your life--but chances are, they're just lookin' out for you. So while you have to respect their rules, that's not to say you can't bend...

Straight-up? Are you and your buds always up-front with each other? Or do you stay tight-lipped about the truth? Take this quiz to find out!(IS YOUR SISTERHOOD)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] You and your girls are crazy close: You take trig as a team, help each other through traumas and always have each others' backs. So you should never, ever lie to each other, right?. Well... honesty is usually the...

The Gov's girl.
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Come January, no matter which candidate wins, there will be a first daughter in the White House. Tara O'Malley, daughter of Maryland Governor Martin O'Malley, gives us a sneak peek at her life--and the inside scoop...

Fierce competition: so much for fun and games. With injuries on the rise and competition more intense than ever, GL looks at the more serious side of girls playing sports.(GL SPECIAL REPORT)
October 1, 2008... Jenn W. will never forget the moment she crashed to the ground during a soccer game two years ago. One second, she was sprinting down the field charging toward the ball. In the next, she lay crumpled on the turf, kneecap dislocated and a...

Five fresh looks for your Fall Dance!(GL BEAUTY NOTEBOOK)
October 1, 2008... Your school gym may not transform into a Hollywood hotspot for Homecoming, but ya still wanna look paparazzi-ready! Our beauty insiders give us celeb styling secrets (way easier to land than ya think). All you need now is a dress. Hint: Visit...

Yes! Look amazing by the holidays! Crisp air and still-long days are a perfect pairing for amazing workouts. Follow our plan and by the time the holidays roll around, you'll be givin' thanks that you feel oh-so fabulous.(G-LIFE: Healthy Mind Healthy Body Healthy You)
October 1, 2008... WEEK 38 STOP STRESSED SNACKING Find yourself reaching for chips or chocolate when you're cramming or freaking about your choral competition? Lotsa girls deal with stress by snacking. Instead, come up with a list of healthy things you can...

Yummy treat cheat sheet! Between Halloween and your crazy after-school scene, fall feels stuffed with snacks. We found healthier ways to get the treat without the trick.(G-LIFE: Healthy Mind Healthy Body Healthy You)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] NUTS OVER CHOCOLATE A king size pack of Reese's Peanut Butter Cups has over 400 cals, which is more than some fast-food burgers. A better nutty combo? A few almonds and a dark chocolate Hershey's Kiss--healthy...

Powerful foods to pack on your plate.(G-LIFE: Healthy Mind Healthy Body Healthy You)
October 1, 2008... We chatted up Heidi Skolnik MS, CDN, FACSM to find out a few good-for-you foods teen girls may not be gobblin'. She might work with the built 'n' buff New York Giants, but her tips are touchdown-worthy whether you're a major athlete or kicking...

Get motivated.(G-LIFE: Healthy Mind Healthy Body Healthy You)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... GL readers share what makes them get up and go on days they'd rather do anything but exercise! MY BFFs "My friends keep me up and out of the house. It gets really boring sitting around, even if we're all together. We get out and run...

Hips and thighs.(BODY BLAST)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... These exercises use your bod's natural resistance and lotsa reps to keep your seat sleek. Trainer Andrea Partland recommends these six moves every other day, in addition to cardio. Too sore after a week? Skip the squat and lunge series, and...

Your top 3 sports bra Qs answered!(BODY BLAST)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... We have bounce-proof tips for the most-asked bra probs from the G-Life biog. Find your best bra, whether you're flat as a basketball backboard or you're overflowing outta your C-cup. Finally! Your probs are, err, busted. UM, WHEN DO I NEED...

GL star signs.
October 1, 2008... LIBRA 9/23-10/23 OCTOBER The stars are sprinklin' lots a love on your social scene for a b-day blowout. Feeling the pressure of playing hostess? Ask your crew for creative input on invites, decorations, favors... whew! What are best...

Boo hoo!(AND HOW WAS YOUR DAY?)
October 1, 2008... My friend had a Halloween party, including a spooky walk. We went into a shed with fake body parts and knives lying around and scary music. A hand touched my shoulder, and I freaked and started to cry. While everyone else finished the walk, I...