Cosmopolitan articles from October 2008

Cosmopolitan archives from October 2008

Bitchy, bitchy.(FROM THE EDITOR)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Our article on page 214 reveals the secret to being just fierce enough. Here, readers fess up to the outrageous times they went way overboard. "My ex broke up with me via Facebook. I was so furious, I logged on to his account and changed...

Cosmo's dude-decoder special.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... We've all heard the saying "Actions speak louder than words." Well, it must have been coined with men in mind. It's no secret that guys often hide their feelings (understatement alert!), but luckily, their body language provides plenty of...

The truth about hooking up.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Every so often, I talk with our interns about what's on their minds. One of their most buzzed-about topics these days? Hooking up. Many say it seems like casual relationships are the only options for romance. They're...

Oct.: why don't you ...(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] [check]... switch it up in bed. October is all about dressing up and pretending to be someone else, so it's a natural time to try role-playing with your guy. Slip into something that goes against type: If you're...

How to look your hottest.(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Cosmo knows what qualities make a woman alluring: healthy, glowing skin; lush, shiny hair; smoldering eyes; and lusty lips--for starters. In our hot new how-to book, you'll find hundreds of easy beauty tips that'll kick your sexiness up a...

Hot sheet: 5 things being buzzed about right now.(COSMO NEWS)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] (1) What's Sexy Now Hot pants. Resurrect your micro-shorts for cooler temps by pairing them with tights. (2) LOVING FROM AFAR [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Cash-strapped couples who live far apart are...

Charismatic Kate: Kate Hudson's smile communicates more than most people's daily allotment of words. These days, that girlish grin is wider than ever, thanks, no doubt, to her sizzling career and sexy new views on relationships.(COSMO NEWS: Interview)(Interview)(Cover story)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Everything about Kate Hudson's downtown New York City brownstone exudes a Zenlike cool, which is accentuated by a giant statue of the Hindu god Ganesha that looms behind a muted beige couch. If not for the...

When guys bail without warning: some men show no signs of unhappiness before a breakup--you just wake up one day stunned and solo. Cosmo unmasks this confusing breed of boyfriend.(COSMO NEWS: Relationships)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] George Clooney and cocktail-waitress-turned-B-model Sarah Larson seemed to have a picture-perfect relationship: They went on romantic trips, were attached at the hip on motorcycles as well as the red carpet, and had...

Big grin vs. subtle smile.(COSMO NEWS: Beauty Stakeout)(Brief article)(Statistical data)
October 1, 2008... We asked 100 people on the street: Do you prefer these hot celebrity chicks flashing their pearly whites or concealing them? BIG GRIN SUBTLE SMILE [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ANGELINA JOLIE 37% 63% ...

Hollywood's make-out map.(COSMO NEWS: Informer)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... In Tinseltown, all hookup roads allegedly lead back to a few kissable key players. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Mariah Carey [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Nick Cannon [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Derek Jeter [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]...

Check out that man cleavage!(COSMO NEWS: Guy Beauty Stakeout)(Brief article)(Statistical data)
October 1, 2008... Cosmo asked 100 women on the street whether they like these famous babes showing a little chest or covered up. CLEAVAGE COVERED [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] JONATHAN RHYS MEYERS 58% 42% ...

Sexy vs. skanky.(COSMO NEWS)(Table)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] SEXY SKANKY LICKING AN ICE-CREAM CONE LICKING YOUR ARM Wearing your kid on Wearing a rat's nest your head on your head ...

Confessions: Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.
October 1, 2008... Sex Tutorial "My boyfriend was having trouble studying for a test, so in order to motivate him, I made up a seductive studying technique: For every three questions he answered correctly, I stripped off an article of clothing....

Guy confessions: men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever.
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] For a Good Time, Call... "My boss came into my office with an important client who had questions about a project. We had an inquiry for a coworker at another office, so he asked me to turn on the speakerphone...

The man report.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Guys' heads are hard to crack. So Cosmo editor Ky Henderson offers up some insight into his baffling gender. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Why He... Texts Instead of Calls 1. If it's late at night, he doesn't want to chat--he wants to...

This is what it means ... when guys cry: you can tell a lot about a dude--from his relationship MO to his sex skills--by his tear-shedding style.(MAN MANUAL)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] He Cries, but Not in Front of You Closet sobbers have been taught that boys shouldn't cry. "This often leads to the suppression of other emotions--even happy ones, such as love--in your presence too," says...

How to wow a new man.(MAN MANUAL: guy spy)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] There are certain phrases that guys just can't resist. Bust out the following lines in the early days of dating. * "That's hilarious!" When a dude is trying to impress you, he'll crack jokes to ease tension and...

"Why do they fall off the map?".(the secret he won't reveal)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] When a guy goes MIA, it could be for a variety of reasons (FYI: It's rarely because he's swamped at work). The most common explanation: "He's dating other women to see who's out there," says Jeff Bernstein, PhD,...

Read between his lines.(MAN MANUAL: guy spy)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] HE SAYS: "I can't talk about that right now." HE MEANS: "I really don't want to discuss this topic-ever." SOURCE: MIAMI DATING COACH PATRICK WANIS, PHD

4 times he wants to be in charge: you're an independent chick, but your man needs to shine at these moments.(MAN MANUAL: his point of view)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Your boy is well aware of the fact that you're perfectly capable of doing anything he can--except, perhaps, recite every line from Old School. But there are certain situations in which he wants to be the man. So when...

'When she should take the reins".(guys speak out)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "I like women who take charge in social settings and present themselves as my equal. It's a turn-on... and the difference between a partner and a sidekick."--Bijan Gharavi [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "It's great...

We've got a thing for older men.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... These guys have always been cute, but their hotness is increasing with age. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 1998 BLAIR UNDERWOOD He stars on Dirty, Sexy, Money, but we've decided to rename his show Flirty Sexy Hottie. ...

Her favorite sex compliments.(SHOW THIS TO YOUR MAN)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Part of being a great boyfriend is making your girl feel like nothing else compares to her... not even bacon-wrapped hot dogs. So tell her bow hot she is at critical bedroom moments. It reassures her during a...

She hates going out with your buddies.(Myth of the Month)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "Sometimes, having a low-key night of burgers and beer with the boys is a lot more fun than putting in a ton of effort to get dolled up and go out dancing all night with the girls." --Jill, 24 "I have a...

How I got him to ... pop the question.(START TAKING NOTES!)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "After going out with my man for almost seven years without receiving a proposal, I started to wonder if it wasn't in his plans, So I resolved to show him I was marriage material. His family is important to him, and...

How I got him to ... admit that he liked me.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "I had the hots for a guy at college. I knew he was into me too because he'd do sweet things, like walk me home after a party, yet he never told me so. I wanted him to step up to the plate. We had history class together, and one dude always...

How I got him to ... treat me to Cosmo.(STROKE OF GENIUS!)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "While grocery shopping with my boyfriend, I spotted the latest issue of Cosmo. I really wanted it but was low on cash. As we were in line to pay, I got an idea. I casually picked up the magazine, started flipping through it, and pointed out a...

How I got him to ... quit smoking.(SHE GOT TOUGH)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "Both of my man's parents smoke, and he picked up the habit in high school. I'm crazy about him, but he always smelled like cigarettes--which I found gross--and sometimes I dreaded kissing him because he tasted like tobacco. Plus, I was worried...

How I got him to ... give me a kiss at the end of our first date.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "I was ecstatic when the guy I had a crush on finally asked me out. We decided to go to a popular billiards hall in our neighborhood, and I felt chemistry between us from the moment he picked me up. He's supershy though, and I knew that he...

Must-haves at your mall.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Like best friends, some chains never let you down. Here, the coolest items at your go-to shopping spots. Bebe Top, Tara Subkoff for Bebe, $89, bebe.com [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] A/X Cardigan, $98, armaniexchange.com ...

Boy meets girl.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... What do you get when you mix a menswear-influenced outfit with a girlie one? A slew of sexy masculine-feminine looks. MASCULINE [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Boyish Charm A classic tuxedo with satin trim, beaded detailing, and a...

Under $75.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Beautiful clothes and accessories that don't cost a pretty penny $44 American Eagle Outfitters, ae.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $49 Newport News, newport-news.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $48 Rampage, rampage.com ...

Build a basic work wardrobe.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... College is over, baby. You're a professional now, and it's time to dress the part. Designer Isaac Mizrahi, creative director of Liz Claiborne, shares tips inspired his terrific new book, How to Have Style, on creating perfect work ensembles....

Slim your thighs.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... The right outfit can make upper-leg weight disappear into thin air. [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] EMBRACE A-LINES The purple dress blouses over midthigh, visually adding inches. The jumper's A-line hem makes her legs look narrow in...

Style Q & A: cosmo answers your trickiest fashion questions.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Q How can I prevent showing my butt crack when I sit down? ANSWER: Wear a long cami under cropped tops. Or try JAKs from Miss Oopso You hike them up over your pants until they sit on your lower back, covering your crack. Then pull your...

How to make lips fuller. (Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month.(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "We're not all blessed with plump lips, but that doesn't mean you can't enhance what you have," says MAC senior makeup artist Romero Jennings. Try this trick to get a lush effect. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 1....

Instant dark-circle fix. (Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month.(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Lay two thin slices of potato underneath your eyes for 10 minutes. Potatoes contain a skin-lightening enzyme that helps temporarily reduce sallowness. SOURCE: SHALINI VADHERA, AUTHOR OF PASSPORT TO BEAUTY

Zap zits and flakes. (Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month.(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Who knew? Your dandruff shampoo can also clear up body blemishes, thanks to its oil-absorbing zinc content. Put a quarter-size drop on your loofah, and use it on pimple-prone spots. Try Head and Shoulders Smooth and...

Killer combo.(CELEB LOOK)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Playing up two assets at once (like your eyes and lips) can look hot--as long as you create some contrast, says NYC makeup artist Laura Geller. Do like Carmen does and pair black-rimmed eyes with glossy nude lips or...

Cool color trick!(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Even though summer's over, you can still score sexy highlights. This technique mimics the way your locks lighten up after a week at the beach, says Paul Romano, colorist at Oscar Blandi. (1) Do a loose French braid. (2) Paint on...

Soft waves.(STAR STYLE)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Eva's curls might look super-fancy, but the styling trick is so laid-back. "Just coil hair from root to tip around your fingers after you blow-dry to enhance your natural texture," explains celeb stylist Fritz Clay....

Pump up your pony.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Spray a root booster on damp strands. Dry, then make a ponytail--pull up small pieces at the base and sides to form a little pouf at the crown. The extra height accentuates your cheekbones. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] John Frieda Luxurious...

How to cut down your blow-dry time.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Blow-drying is not only a bore, but lots of heat also damages your hair. To speed up the process, try to get as much moisture out of your hair as possible before you even start drying, explains Lourdes, stylist at...

Every month, we answer a bunch of your burning beauty questions.(Beauty Q&A)
October 1, 2008... Q When I get my lip waxed, I break out. Is there a gentler way to get rid of the fuzz? A The fragrance or preservatives in some waxes may be too harsh for your skin, says New York derm Marina Peredo. "Switch to a sugar-based wax, which is...

Get more bang for your beauty bucks: don't waste your energy or money on frivolous stuff. You can score a ton of new looks out of these seven makeup essentials.(Beauty Loot)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Striking Effects The genius of this palette is that you can layer on the neutral shadows to create any kind of eye look, from subtle to smoky. YSL 5 Colour Harmony for Eyes in Sahara. $56. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Lush Flush ...

Amazing hair in a hurry: snag the hair you want (shinier, thicker, brighter) when you want it (now!) with this flesh crop of primpers.(Beauty Loot)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] One-Second Swap Don't have the extra 10 minutes for a hair mask? No worries. A conditioner with micro-oils sinks right into strands to give you baby-soft hair immediately. Gamier Fructis Moisture Works Instant...

The beauty 100! Cosmo got 100 of the sexiest stars in film, TV, fashion, sports, and more to reveal their single favorite beauty product. Consider this your greatest-hit list for getting gorgeous.(COSMO BEAUTY BOOK)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] * Stars might have a team of people helping them look hot on the job, but when they're off duty, they rely on regular products like the rest of us. So Cosmo put the challenge to 100 celebs who consistently look...

Make a date with Cosmo radio: we've got the hottest info on relationships, sex, style, celeb news, and everything else a Cosmo girl needs to know. Keep it locked on Sirius Channel 111 all day, every day.(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Wake Up With Taylor! Weekdays 7-1 1 am ET Taylor starts off the day discussing the juiciest Cosmo topics. There's also news and horoscopes from co-host Victoria, plus male insight from Kenny, the show's...

Solange Knowles:.(CELEB SPOTLIGHT: FUN FEARLESS FEMALE)(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... * Solange Knowles' second studio album makes one thing clear: Creating good music runs in the family. But while her voice sounds similar to sister Beyonce's, her musical style is markedly different. In Solange's words, her CD is "a collection...

Fall deeper in love.(ROMANCE BOOSTER)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Upping your intimacy doesn't mean planning grand gestures. These ideas are less work and just as effective. Eat Breakfast Side-by-Side Instead of downing bagels across from each other, share the meal while...

Describe a sexy dream.(BLOW-HIS-MIND TIP)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... When you wake up, tell your guy that you had a dream about him--even if you didn't. He'll ask what it was about, so say it's still hazy but you think you were having crazy sex in the kitchen. Drop dirty details like "I was propped on the...

"He's not into PDA--at all.".(SPAT OF THE MONTH)(public display of affection)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "He'll be more receptive to your touches if you associate them with your feelings for him, notes Bonnie Eaker Well, PhD, author of Make Up, Don't Break Up. "At happy hour, try 'You took cute. I have to kiss you.' Or while walking in public,...

Nice guys talk dirty: we convinced a slew of men to divulge the outrageous seduction moves and mattress tricks their best bedmates treated them to. Behold, every dude's secret sexual wish list.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * Guys have this reputation for being totally up-front and straightforward. The funny thing is, those character traits don't necessarily apply when it comes to his lust life. Some dudes are too bashful to tell a...

His body reveals, what he'd never tell you: when your man is going through a turbulent time, he's unlikely to open up about it. That's why learning to interpret his nonverbal signals is so crucial to tapping in to his mind-set ... and knowing how to react.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] * Here's something that you've heard a billion times but is so hugely important, it bears repeating: Guys aren't socialized to talk about their feelings, especially when navigating something unpleasant. "'When men...

If he stops wanting sex, something is wrong: everyone has off nights, but not every night. We help you get to the bottom of his lost libido.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED] * Early on in a relationship, you and your guy spend so much time in bed, there's little point in even making it. Then as the mouths and years go by, the sex tends to fall off some--a perfectly normal side effect of...

The secret happy couples know: been together, like, forever? Reclaim that falling-in-love rush with fun date ideas he'll be into.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... When you first fall in love, everything you share produces an adrenaline rush because it's .all brand-new. But, as you've no doubt figured out, that mind-blowing novelty factor does inevitably start to dissipate, and you settle into more of a...

Surprise: guys do like it slow: Everything happens fast and furiously nowadays. But there's one area of life where men want the good times to last longer than you might guess: in bed.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... Somewhere along the line, guys earned a rep for wanting sex to be a "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am" experience. But a recent Cosmo poll (tens of thousands of males responded) found that the majority of men crave quickies only a few times a...

Why beta males are great boyfriends: Cosmo makes the case for dating a guy who is not just cool with your gutsiness but champions it. The question is, are you evolved enough to embrace that type?(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] The football quarterback, The high-stakes attorney. The hedge-fund entrepreneur. What do they all possess? Alpha-male traits that women are conditioned to desire: uberconfidence, aggressiveness, and status. But, says...

The Cosmo couple quiz: solid twosomes have strong bonds. Fill out this staple questionnaire to determine how synced up you are with your man.(LOVE AND LUST: NEW COLUMN)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Write down your answers to each question in the left-hand column, ask your guy how he thinks you responded, and see how many he gets correct. Then, have him fill out the right-hand column and ask you to guess how he answered. If you both get at...

Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru, Jonathan Small.(LOVE AND LUST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] [Q] I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and our sex life has always been bland. I fantasize about other men and situations, and when I'm alone, I look at porn and wish he'd do certain things to me. How can I...

"I had a stroke at 21": two years ago, Savannah Hollis was hit with a medical emergency that usually affects people three times her age. This is how she survived.(THE COSMO POST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] My life seemed perfect. I planned to go to medical school after I graduated from college, and my boyfriend, Tres, and I were discussing marriage. Then one night, I was sitting at my computer when my right foot went...

How does she know so much?(Q&A)(Larissa Kelly )(Interview)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Earlier this year, graduate student Larissa Kelly became the winningest woman in Jeopardy history... and the show's third-biggest money winner ever. She's donating some of the $222, 597 she won to charities and saving the rest for when she's...

She nailed her identity thief.(THE COSMO POST)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] One evening this past May, Janelle * walked into her suburban Detroit home, greeted her dog, and received a phone call that upended her life. Citibank was checking on a suspicious charge account that had been...

"I talk to sex offenders for a living": as a psychologist who treats convicted predators, Shoshanna Must, 29, hears stories of abuse every day. Listen in as she tells Cosmo why she thinks therapy can prevent these men from striking again.(REAL-LIFE READS)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ray *, a client of mine, is a 30-year-old man who loves the movie Shrek, is a ]rage fan of Miley Cyrus, and writes stories--two of which he brought in one day to show me during our therapy session. As he sat in nay...

The truth about hooking up: never been on an actual date? You're not alone. For many women today, no-strings relationships (and sex) are de rigueur--but they have pitfalls.(REAL-LIFE READS)
October 1, 2008... We live in a casual culture today. Many people wear jeans to work, texting is "almost as common as calling, and hooking up has made traditional dating an endangered activity. In fact, many women, especially those in college, now feel that...

Ways to dazzle people at a party.(YOU YOU YOU: CONNECTING)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] To a new person: "What do you do for fun?" Asking about someone's hobbies shows you really want to get to know her. Plus, discussing her passions will put her in a happy mood. To the host: "I'm having a great...

Self-discovery tip.(THE INNER YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Savor positive experiences, from having amazing sex to seeing a spectacular sunset. This helps you identify and appreciate what really brings you joy SOURCE: FRED B. BRYANT, PHD, PROFESSOR OF PSYCHOLOGY AT LOYOLA UNIVERSITY CHICAGO

Happiness secret.(THE INNER YOU)
October 1, 2008... Try something different--it activates your brain's reward center, which can trigger a rush of pleasure. Idea: Mist on a perfume that's unlike your usual scent. SOURCE: NATHANIEL DAW, PHD, PROFESSOR OF NEURAL SCIENCE AND PSYCHOLOGY AT NEW...

Bond with him.(YOU YOU YOU: CONNECTING)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] If possible, walk instead of driving. You'll have uninterrupted time to talk and just enjoy each other's company. It's easier for guys to open up when you're doing all activity together. SOURCE: BARTON...

Friend date.(YOU YOU YOU: CONNECTING)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Pick up some pizza dough, along with unique ingredients (prosciutto and figs, perhaps?), and invite a group of pals over to make pies. Cooking together--and then sharing your meal--is a fun way to unwind. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] FACT...

Be the smartest, sexiest girl in town: Candace Bushnell didn't just invent Sex and the City--she's living it to the hilt. As her new book hits stores, the author shares her ballsy playbook for fabulousness.(YOU YOU YOU)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ever since she penned her landmark "Sex and the City columns--which led to a best-selling book, one of TV's biggest hits, and a blockbuster movie--Candace Bushnell has deftly navigated the glittery surface and gritty...

Red-hot career tips: success is rarely instantaneous, but it entirely gettable if you work your charm.(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... Make Details Count "Just do the job in front of you beyond expectations. One of my first jobs was literally sharpening pencils, and my boss said I was by far the best, so I was noticed." [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Knock Off the...

"What I wish I'd known at 25".(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Live Within Your Means "You're on the edge of your seat financially in your 20s, but you don't want to end up owing $80,000 when you're 30 years old. It's better to go without." Make Friends With Rejection...

Fast-track tip.(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... "Anticipate big things happening and maybe they will. There was a lime I always had my passport in my purse--just in case i had to go to Europe on the spur of the moment. I ended up raveling there; even though I came back broke and needing a...

Essential things she's learned about-men.(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... * Soul-quaking sex does not equal soul-mate status. "Great sex with someone may or may not really mean something. But it's a hell of a lot better than bad sex! What it comes down to is that sex is just another form of communication." *...

5 risks every gutsy girl must take.(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... (1) "Fall in love; really seize it. The guy probably won't be The One. But that's how you learn who you are." (2) "Be yourself--especially in a relationship. We still live in a sexist world where women often twist themselves into what they...

Why you may be feeling frantic these days: there's so much pressure on young women right now, plus they've got an endless to-do list. Free yourself from a crazy-busy cycle with our advice.(YOU YOU YOU)
October 1, 2008... Drop everything and take this pop quiz. Are you (a) surgically attached to your to-do list, (b) unable to turn off your cell phone or BlackBerry for fear of missing something crucial, (c) tempted to just skim this article, or (d) all of the...

Are your social skills sucking? Gadgets are vital for keeping in touch, but they can also erode your closest relationships.(YOU YOU YOU)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Chances are, you'd give up oxygen before severing your electronic lifelines. But more women are reporting that the less face time they have, even with friends, the more anxious they feel when an in-the-flesh chat is...

Bitch it out! When rude, obnoxious, or just plain ludicrous situations work your last nerve, there's only one thing to do: vent here!(YOU YOU YOU)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Booze Snooze "When people pass out at clubs, I want to scream, 'Its time to go home, buddy!"--Allison, 20 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] In the Dog House "My roommate plays the world's worst club music. So...

Shameless money, saving trick.(YOU YOU YOU: YOUR FABULOUS LIFE)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Try this budget-friendly tactic to get luxe stuff for your pad: Model-home designers offer, have to fill houses with great furniture, but once the house sells, they're stuck it. Google the name of the town you live...

10 things he never wants hear you say.(TOTALLY COSMO: Cosmo commandments)(Brief article)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 1 "You're having another burger?" 2 "Care to explain this picture of you and your ex that I found in an envelope in a box that was under your bed?" 3 "Would I look better as a chocolate or a chestnut...

How to be just bitchy enough: getting your way often requires striking a balance between coming on strong and tiptoeing around. Our strategies will help you cultivate the perfect pitch.(TOTALLY COSMO)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Sometimes, to ensure things go your way, you need to summon your fiercer side. But being a bitch-on-wheels is actually counterproductive--it turns people off and makes them want to slam the door in your face. Susan...

A strip-joint bouncer spills: after hearing this insider's account of what goes down, you may never let your gut leave the the house again!(TOTALLY COSMO)
October 1, 2008... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] I'm the guy who decides if your boyfriend gains entrance to a strip joint. But don't call me a bouncer--I prefer the term host--and I consider where I work to be a gentlemen's club. I usually hang out just inside the...

A brilliant way to save bucks: you can be cheap and chic. Cosmo shows you how to work the dollar store.(TOTALLY COSMO)
October 1, 2008... Since you're a Cosmo reader, it practically goes without saying that you prefer to live large. But with the economy a mess, it's trickier to swing the lab treats you crave--the beach vacation, the occasional designer bag. Here's one strategy:...