Cosmopolitan articles from November 2007

Cosmopolitan archives from November 2007

Get more Cosmo: from the all-new Website to our cool satellite-radio station, here's the latest scoop on everything juicy going on in Cosmoworld.(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... WHAT'S HOT ON cosmopolitan.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] (1) Celeb Hairstyle Virtual Salon If you've ever wondered how you'd look with Beyonce's ringlets, Reese's bangs, or Scarlett's updo, visit our new virtual salon at...

Blurred boundaries.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "I just read the article 'A New Kind of Date Rape' and was almost in tears. It took me back to four years ago, when I was a victim of date rape but felt I was to blame. I did not take action against the man, because I didn't think it would be...

Good vibes.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "I recently experienced unrequited love, and it seriously bruised my ego. But your article '6 Instant Confidence Boosters' motivated me to stay positive. I know I'm not going to get much from life if rm afraid to put myself out there again."...

Big kiss.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "It was refreshing to see a biracial couple in 'Decode His Kiss.' Cosmo is doing an amazing job of showing relationships between many different ethnicities. Kudos to you, because love has no color!" --Jennifer Richards, Potosi, Mo. ...

Awesome Alba.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "Before the September issue, I thought Jessica Alba was just another hot actress. I was surprised when she talked about not getting naked in a movie. I love that she has morals and took a chance on making it big without having to take off all...

Foul disclosure.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "'Waaay Too Much Information' was pretty funny, but I think we should stop freaking out every time we hear a woman say something about her bodily functions. Men talk about their farts, boogers, etc., all the time. My boyfriend knows I'm human...

Perfect pout.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "I have never been able to wear lipstick without smearing it, but I followed the tips in 'Bold, Lusty Lips' and tada! It's a secret I'm not sharing." --Darby Blake, Port Dover, Ont.

The shame of fame.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
November 1, 2007... "The Bitchiest Stars in Hollywood' was right on. It disappoints me that some celebs act like babies just because they're famous." --Jewell Horror, Ventura, Calif.

Guys sound off: peek inside the male mind with this month's Web poll.(YOU TELL US)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... At what point in a relationship do you give your girlfriend her first major gift? 1 to 6 months 32.4% 1 year 19.9% 5 years 20.8% Never 27% "I think you should give your girlfriend a major...

Behind the scenes at Cosmopolitan.(FROM THE EDITOR)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... SHOCKING SINGLE-MEN FACTS We love dudes to death, but we all have to agree that when it comes to dating, the behavior of single men can be frustratingly puzzling. That's why Cosmo works so hard at cracking the bachelor code. For this...

Secrets your boss won't tell you.(FROM THE EDITOR)(Excerpt)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] If you want to knock 'em dead at work, it's key to know how to be a success. But even the best boss won't give step-by-step lessons. Luckily, you can learn their tricks by flipping to page 146 and reading an excerpt...

The jerks!(FROM THE EDITOR)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Our article on page 164 tells how one woman nabs cheaters. Here, readers share the awful ways they learned a guy was getting busy on the side. "I made plans to celebrate a friend's birthday. I called the guy I was dating to invite him, but...

Things I didn't know till this issue.(FROM THE EDITOR)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... There are 120 single men in their 20s for every 100 girls in that age bracket (page 36, Cosmo Men). [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] When you feel a connection with a guy, your pupils dilate, which signals for him to come closer (page 184). ...

Hot sheet: what's new and buzz-worthy.(COSMO NEWS)
November 1, 2007... BE THE BEST ONLINE-DATE BAIT [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] When it comes to finding love on the World Wide Web, not all dating profiles are created equal. Here, what kind of information snares guys' attention... and what sends them running....

Curve-hugging corset dresses.(COSMO NEWS: Style Stakeout)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Good-bye, flowy; hello, fierce! Celebs are sporting styles that fit like a glove. JESSICA ALBA This dress is a cinch to pull off--at least for her! PETRA NEMCOVA Petra to herself: "Okay, suck it in, big smile, hold." ...

When guys get the blues: much as they'd like you to believe otherwise, men are not immune to depression. Experts tell you how to deal.(COSMO NEWS)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] When Owen Wilson was hospitalized for apparently attempting suicide, the public seemed to let out a collective "WTF?!" Though he had recently split from Kate Hudson, a much more serious trigger seemed to send him to...

Swept back or hanging loose?(COSMO NEWS: Beauty Stakeout)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Stars alternate between up and down looks. One hundred people pick their favorite styles. JENNIFER HUDSON 20% 80% KATE WALSH 56% 44% CLAIRE DANES 35% 65% BRITTANY SNOW 68% 32% [ILLUSTRATIONS OMITTED]

Sexy vs. skanky.(COSMO NEWS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... SEXY SKANKY A black dress with strappy heels A black dress with too-strappy sandals Couple's boxing Naked yoga Focusing on your life list ...

Playback payback.(CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I had been seeing this guy for a while when we decided to make our relationship exclusive. I thought it was going well until I found out that he was seeing someone else on the side. Soon after, a mutual friend told me he wasn't having an...

(Not) home alone.(CONFESSIONS)(sex)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "My guy and I live with our parents, and until recently, both our morns didn't work, which meant we rarely got alone time. When his mom got a job, I figured we had to take advantage of the situation. I went over there one day after everyone had...

Risque rubbernecking.(CONFESSIONS)(wear panties)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I don't have a car, so whenever I want to go somewhere but can't get a ride, I'm forced to walk. One afternoon, I was headed to a friend's, and I had to walk along this busy road to get there. It was rush hour, and there was bumper-to-bumper...

Compromising positions.(CONFESSIONS)(sex)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I wanted to spice things up in the bedroom, so I learned a few new sex positions. One night, when my guy and I were in the missionary pose, I decided to surprise him by moving to doggie-style. I sort of pushed him away, then swung one of my...

Squeal and steal.(CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "When my friend Jill started dating a guy I liked, I was jealous. But they seemed to make a good couple, so I tried to be happy for her. Then I found out Jill was being unfaithful. Each time she told me about one of her flings, I'd think that...

Art exhibitionism.(CONFESSIONS)(sex)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I went to a museum with my boyfriend. One of the exhibits was on senses, and there was a room devoted to hearing. A group of people went in, the lights were turned off, and noises were played to test one's hearing. Since you couldn't see a...

Damage control.(CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "She should act surprised, jokingly slap her guy's hand away, and say "What the hell are you doing?' A girl who can defuse an embarrassing situation by making a joke would definitely get my attention, not to mention make me laugh." ...

Poolside peep show.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "My group of friends and I went to a beach resort for a week to celebrate our graduation. I bought a khaki-colored bathing suit for the trip, thinking that the light color would make me look nice and bronzed. After checking in at the hotel, we...

Blurt-out boo-boo.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(male-female relations)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I had gone out with Caitlin a couple times, and I could tell she was really into me. But I wasn't looking to get into a serious relationship. One evening, she came over to my place, and she started to go down on me. I was totally caught up in...

Corporate canoodling.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "My boss would often take long lunches with this woman and claim that they were business related, but I never believed him. One afternoon, he told me to make dinner reservations at a romantic hotel restaurant and to call his wife and tell her...

Not-so-straight shooter.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(urinating)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I was hanging out at a girl's place, and we were fooling around. One thing led to an. other, and we started having sex. I really needed to pee though, so I told her I'd be right back and headed to the bathroom. As I lifted the seat, I realized...

Dirty deal breaker.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(sexual behavior)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I met this girl at a party and brought her home with me. We ended up in my bed totally naked, and assuming we were going to have sex, I reached into my bedside table for a condom. When she saw me grab the package, she told me that since she...

Recipe for disaster.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "I used to work as a server in the restaurant of this fancy country club. It was a tough gig, but the pay was good and the female bartender was smokin'. We would always complain to each other about the guests, and before long, we were talking...

Hot guy blooper of the month.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "In college, I lived in a frat house, and sorority girls were always stopping by. Once while I was showering, I heard the door open and turned to see a crowd of girls staring at me, jaws dropped. My buddy had been giving them a tour and wanted...

Two-timing trouble.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "When I studied in London, I lived in a coed dorm. After moving in, I introduced myself to the women on the top floor, and I hit it off with one of them. She gave me a massage and I could tell where it was leading, but she had a roommate. So we...

Feeling vile down the aisle.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "When my buddy got married, he asked me to be one of the ushers. I happily agreed, and the day before the wedding, I flew to Cancun, where it was being held. The ceremony wasn't till the afternoon, so I figured I could take advantage of the...

Milkin' it.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(guy tricks his lactose intolerant roomate )(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "One of the guys I lived with was a player, and he always got women into bed before I even had the courage to ask them out. We hosted a party, and I invited the girl l liked. As soon as my roommate saw her, he asked her out, then joked that it...

Under(handed)grad.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(dating)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... "In college, I was kind of a jerk when it came to dating. But my senior year, I did something low... even for me. I was at a keg party with this chick, and we started making out. I excused myself to go to the bathroom, and while in line, I ran...

Informer celebrity spotlight: access Hollywood's Nancy O'Dell is known for getting sizzling star scoop. Here, the top interviewer gives Cosmo some juicy exclusives.(Bryan Greenberg)(Interview)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] HOT GUY Q & A: BRYAN GREENBERG, OCTOBER ROAD [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Q: Boxers or briefs? A: Boxer briefs Q: I love women who: A: Don't take themselves too seriously. Q: The sexiest part of...

Paging the Love Doctor: answers to your most probing questions about celeb relationship from Beverly Hills psychotherapist Bella Dishell.(informer)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Q: Nicole Richie dramatically altered her lifestyle to be with Joel Madden. Are big sudden changes likely to stick? LOVE DOCTOR: They can, but it's hard to transform your routine in a short period of time. It's...

Star style evolution.(informer)(celebrities)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Despite a platoon of primpers, celebs take years to hone their paparazzi-worthy hair and makeup looks. Check out these miraculous metamorphoses. ANGELINA JOLIE 1998 Why are clowns so scary? Oh, now we remember. [ILLUSTRATION...

If he weren't famous, would you date him?(informer)(male celebrities)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... We asked 100 women whether they'd go out with A-list guys who aren't traditional "lookers." WILL FERRELL YES 5% NO 95% [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] SETH ROGEN YES 35% NO 65% [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] JOHN KRASINSKI ...

The perfect match.(informer Beauty)(celebrities' eye makeups)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Want a new way to play up your eyes? Try coordinating them with your dress. ASHANTI Ashanti is Pretty--and, uh, perky--in pink. JULIA STILES She pairs smoky eyes with a smokin' dress. KERRY WASHINGTON Kerry's on a...

What Hollywood is wearing: fashion consultant to the stars Rachel Zoe gives her up-to-the-second style tips, tricks, and observations.(informer stylist)
November 1, 2007... SHAPELY JEWELRY "Interesting cuts and figures, like the ones in the new Marc Jacobs line, are chic ways to modernize accessories." Necklace, Marc Jacobs, $1,914, marcjacobs.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] A SNOW-WHITE COAT ...

Fun fearless female: Kate Walsh.(informer)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ON A ROLL "I was only supposed to be on Grey's for five episodes. Getting my own show was like winning the lottery. I never could have dreamed this up." FINDING THE ONE "I used to want to sock people...

Party pix.(informer)(pictures)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Is it just us or is Christian Bale checking out Russell Crowe? Hayden Panettiere's cake is almost ginormous enough to have a real-life stripper inside. Looks like Fergie had to turn away from the glare off Lance Bass's teeth. ...

7 things to crave right now.(Fun Fearless Fashion)(clothes, bags and shoes)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... This just in: the list of the latest happening styles you'll lust for. 1 Stella McCartney's Sporty Jacket $1,095, stellamccartney.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 2 The Coach Status Bag $658, 866-262-2440 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ...

Life-of-the-party looks.(Fun Fearless Fashion: STYLE STEALS)(women's clothing)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... These faux-rich picks have high enough hemlines and plenty of sparkle and shine to score you the limelight. $150 or Less $140 Donna Morgan, 866-610-6740 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $148 Banana Republic, bananarepublic.com ...

Designers who blow us away.(Fun Fearless Fashion: Awards)(fashion designers)
November 1, 2007... Their creations are fresh, inventive, stylish, and damn sexy--all the qualities Cosmo prizes most. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Most Fashion-Forward Diffusion Line [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] DKNY Donna Karan makes hip designs that...

Supermodel secret.(Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month)(Gisele's Dolce & Gabbana The One perfume)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] In a recent Cosmo poll, 29 percent of respondents said their favorite scent spot is their cleavage. Gisele recently told us about another must-spritz zone: the small of your lower back. "You never know who might end...

Zap that zit--fast!(Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month)(how to treat acne)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Dealing with honking pimple? to banish that pesky trouble spot (1) Press a chilled chamomile tea bag against the zit to reduce redness. (2) Crush an aspirin and blend with water for a paste that can help declog...

Sexy snow white.(CELEB LOOK)(makeup)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the sultriest of them all? With this dreamy makeup combo, it's you! "Rich lips and sparkly lashes give you a fairy-tale look," says Maybelline makeup pro Troy Surratt. Line lower...

Tame your brows.(Beauty News: The hot trends, tips, and stuff you've gotta try this month)(eyebrows)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] It's true that bold brows are in, but that doesn't mean you should let them grow wild. Star brow guru Ramy reveals how to keep 'era controlled. * Maintain your full, natural shape by only tweezing hairs...

Bang it out.(Cosmo Hair)(hairstyles )(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... A new set of bangs can make you look instantly hotter--as long as you consider your face shape. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * IF YOUR FACE IS ROUND, TRY: Deep, side-swept bangs that create an arc, elongating your face. [ILLUSTRATION...

Smooth move.(Cosmo Hair)(using a hair brush)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Give your hair a break from that iron and use a clamped vent brush to get a glossy curtain of hair--with a lot less damage. The experts say to whip it through your hair when it's already 90 percent dry. Conair...

Trend alert: precious metals.(Color Tips)(hair coloring products)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Count on bold metallics to brighten up your hair color. Redken All Soft Gold Glimmer, $14.95, adds a metallic finish to all shades (without any dye). [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] For Blonds: Golden tones (like those in L'Oreal Paris...

Star style: two-trick bun.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Indulge both sides of your personality with a style that's polished in front, flat-out sexy in back. Blow-dry hair until it's almost dry, then comb in a little gel. Make a low bun, pulling out a few strands, the key...

Sleeping beauty.(Beauty Loot)(personal care products)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Hit the sack with products that work overnight for sweeter dreams and sexier mornings. PRESLEEP SOAK Drop it in the tub to unleash a sage scent that softens your skin and relaxes any tight muscles. H20+ Go To Sleep Bath Cube, $6.50....

Smile, gorgeous! Make your lips and teeth gleam with this stellar lineup.(Beauty Loot)(Buyers guide)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Wonder Wash Its cocktail mix of white tea and licorice refreshes breath without harsh alcohols that dry out lips. Nature's Gate Peppermint Mouthwash, $6.99. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Pearly Whitener Crest Nature's Expressions...

Every month, we answer a bunch of your burning beauty questions.(Beauty Q&A)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Q Can I get a Brazillian wax the day before a big date? A If you do a hard wax--the kind that sticks to your hair only, not your skin--you can, since the redness will be nil, says Carmen Arias, from NYC's Blow...

Look good, feel good: with these ecofriendly options, you're guaranteed to be superhot and get a rush from protecting the planet.(COSMO BEAUTY BOOK)(Buyers guide)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] You're probably already making serious moves to go green in your life. Now it's time to take those efforts to your beauty routine. Did you realize that your hair dryer can suck up about 1,500 watts of energy in an...

See his side during a fight: handled correctly, a blowout with your guy can result in the two of you understanding each other better.(Romance booster)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Break the Tension Don't undermine your point or poke fun at him, but do crack a joke if the timing is right. "This shows that the relationship means more to you than winning the argument does," says Scott Kudia,...

Offer him an irresistible dare.(BLOW-HIS-MIND TIP)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Men love being your first. Combine that with the male desire to break the rules and you have the recipe for a very randy seduction. Make a statement like "You know, I've never had sex in a car/on the beach/during work hours. It seems like it...

"His friends act weird to me.".(SPAT OF THE MONTH)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... Yep, guys can get territorial. Instead of criticizing his crew, "explain why you're feeling vulnerable so your guy will want to help." says David B. Hawkins, PhD, author of Dealing With the Crazy Makers in Your Life. Offer specific ways lie...

What not to do in bed: most guys aren't going to tell you to your face that one of your mattress moves isn't hitting the mark ... but they'll tell us! Read carefully as dudes confess the techniques that left them less than enthralled.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... As a Cosmo reader, no one could ever accuse you of lacking in the sexual-dynamo department. But despite your vast array of nooky know-how, you may occasionally pull a move that, although good in theory, flops in reality taking the wind right...

7 love rules you need to break: these relationship secrets go against conventional wisdom, but at Cosmo, we believe in shaking things up. You're about to see why.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... * Just because you've 'always done something one way doesn't mean it's the right way. Remember how much your life improved when you finally gave up super low-rise jeans, dating only bad boil, and dial-up modems? Relationship experts say that...

Sync up your sex styles.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ever feel like your libidos are stuck in separate lanes? That's because "they're as varied as our personalities are," says Sandra Pertot, PhD, author Of When your Sex Drives Don't Match. To help you mesh with your...

Three reasons relationships fail: the first step toward finding a love match that lasts? Figuring out your past mistakes. Let us help.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Dating guy after guy without any success in building a lasting relationship can be frustrating. But rather than groaning about how all men are jerks or that you must be fated to be single forever, you have to look at...

Hands-on sex tricks he'll love: these blazing-hot touches will give any guy head-to-toe pleasure like he's never experienced. You vixen.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Yes, oral is a great go-to, but many women overlook the tantalizing capabilities of their hands. "Different pints enable you to give your guy various kinds of pleasure," says certified sex therapist Roz Van Meter,...

Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru, Jonathan Small.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Q I met this great guy on vacation, but he lives far from me. Well, I just lost my job so now seems like a good time to try a new city. When I told him though, he said I shouldn't move there for him. Does that mean...

Bedroom blog: one woman dishes about her sexy (sometimes dramatic) dating adventures.(LOVE AND LUST)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * The story so far: Last month, our fictional blogger, K., started her new field-reporting gig, which is how she met a cute chef. Meanwhile, her best friend, Sarah, scored a regular part on a new show and is moving...

"How our friendship turned to love": ever look at a guy bud and think, I'm actually kinda into him? Well, you're so not alone.(LOVE AND LUST: LOVE STORIES)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] "I went on a camping trip with a bunch of friends, including Jerry, a guy I'd known from when I was little. Although he was cute, I'd never seen him in a sexual way--he was always 'just Jerry' to me. We were all...

How she outsmarted a rapist: twenty-year-old Shaina Drouillard eluded her would-be attacker by thinking fast. Then she helped put him behind bars.(REAL-LIFE READS: THE Cosmo Post)
November 1, 2007... Each weekday morning, Shaina used to leave her home in Queens, New York, at 6:30 to commute to her job as a health aide in Hempstead, Long Island. At that early hour, the streets of her normally bustling neighborhood were nearly empty, and...

TV's newest buzz makers.(Q&A)(Interview)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] The biggest surprise about Reaper, the CW's new dude-friendly show about a slacker who learns that his parents sold his soul to the devil? It was created by chicks. Tara Butters, 35, and Michele Fazekas, 36, dish...

"I was hooked on painkillers": "harmless" partying quickly turned into a full-blown addiction. Tara Tovey, 18, talks about hitting rock bottom and struggling to get her life back.(REAL-LIFE READS: THE Cosmo Post)
November 1, 2007... When I started high school, I was a cheerleader, took dance classes, and had lots of great friends. Then, at 16, a friend turned me on to OxyContin--a drug doctors prescribe to patients in pain that's sold on the streets illegally because the...

Tales of an NFL cheerleader: those sparkle-covered rah-rahs on the sidelines may seem relentlessly sunny, but one spills.(REAL-LIFE READS)(National Football League)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * You may have seen me on Monday Night Football last fall, cheering and waving pom-poms. The camera only caught me for a few seconds at a time, but grabbing even that sliver of the spotlight took a hell of a lot of...

How partying too much can hurt you: we don't want to be a buzz kill, but raging on the weekends--even if you chill during the week--is a lot more dangerous than you think. Just hear us out on this one.(Special Report)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * From Monday through Thursday, 27-year-old Uyen Nguyen rarely drinks. But come Friday night, she's ready to kick back and party. While her nights on the town are usually a blast, the aftermath sometimes isn't....

Get a conversation rolling.(CONNECTING)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Before a social event, peruse the news and check out the daily Conversation Starter at cosmopolitan.com so you'll have fascinating things to talk about (just skip heavy issues). While chatting with someone, ask...

10 success secrets bosses never tell you but should.(YOU YOU YOU)
November 1, 2007... No one knows better about making it big than Cathie Black, president of Hearst Magazines--Cosmo's publisher. In her new book, Basic Black: The Essential Guide for Getting Ahead at Work (and in Life), she shares her awesome tips for a kick-ass...

How to "date" new pal: your man-bonding skills may be stiletto sharp, but it takes savvy to form female friendships too.(YOU YOU YOU)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * Ever wonder why some new friendships blossom and others go bust? "There's a courtship period like in romantic unions, and you have to be careful not to blow it," says Annette Annechild, PhD, author of I Can Tell...

Shameless money-saving trick.(YOUR FABULOUS LIFE)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] The cold dries out your hair. Yeah, you could get a pro conditioning treatment, but cha-ching! Buy a hair mask and get salon-like results by hitting it with a blow-dryer--the hot air helps the mask soak in and work...

Why don't you ...(YOU YOU YOU)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] [check]... give your guy a reverse strip. Taking it off has been done, but putting it on? Now that's a sexy show. While he's lounging in bed, slip into your bra with your back to him, turning just as you're...

10 signs you're being too good.(TOTALLY COSMO: cosmo commandments)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 1 Anytime your morn criticizes something about your life, you realize she's right. 2 To you, a long night of drinking means catching up on the 8 to 10 glasses of water you missed during the day. 3 You never...

How do you sleep when he's not there? The way you drift off when you're snoozing solo can reveal a lot about your twosome. Cosmo reads your bedroom body language.(TOTALLY COSMO)(Brief article)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Cuddling a Pillow You're missing your man, so you're snuggling the pillow in his place--pretty straight-forward. But you're curled up in the fetal pose, a sign you're feeling vulnerable, according to Samuel...

"I catch cheaters for a living": hanging at bars and flirting with taken men is all in a day's work for Cheryl Cosenza.(TOTALLY COSMO)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] * This might sound odd, but I spend a lot of time in bars, sitting 'alone. I don't have a drinking problem, and I'm not looking for a random hookup. I'm actually there to do a job. Technically, I'm a New York and...

The bold and the beautiful: this season, you have all you need to create head-turning outfits: saturated colors, hypnotic patterns, and glowing metallics. There's zero chance you'll fade into the scenery--no matter how breathtaking it is.(FASHION AND BEAUTY NOW)(Buyers guide)
November 1, 2007... [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Slim Shady A peek of decolletage and a daring hemline matte this LBD devastatingly sexy. Dress Lanvin, shoes, Cesare Paciotti; earrings, Alexis Bittar, $325; only and topaz cuff, Lia Sophia, $475 green...