Cosmopolitan articles from May 2005

Cosmopolitan archives from May 2005

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What's Cosmo this minute ... don't flip past this page without finding out the scoop on the sexiest new things out there.
May 1, 2005... MATCHING YOUR MAKEUP TO YOUR JEWELRY Celebs did it all through awards season: Try pairing coral earrings with flaming eyes (like Kate and Mya) or emerald baubles with green shadow a la Eva. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] SMELLING LIKE A ROSE...

What's on your mind?(FROM THE EDITOR)
May 1, 2005... Our story on page 134 offers great tips on how to caress your man in the most sensual way. Below, readers tell us what their favorite part of a guy's body is. "I love legs for some reason. My man has the sexiest muscular legs I have ever...

Cosmo's hottest awards show ever.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Our first Fun Fearless Males awards luncheon--held at the stunning Cipriani 42nd Street in New York City--was beyond fabulous. Planned by designer and master event producer Colin Cowie, red paisley tablecloths and gorgeous red flowers adorned...

The sexy book everyone's talking about.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)
May 1, 2005... We had a hunch The Cosmo Kama Sutra would be a success, but we weren't prepared for just how much you'd like it! When the book debuted in January, it shot to number four on www.barnesandnoble.eom. Since then, it's been flying off shelves at...

Bachelor quest 2005: once again, Cosmo is on the hunt for single hotties.
May 1, 2005... We're kicking off our search for the 50 sexiest single guys in America to be featured in our Cosmo Men issue, on television, and in newspapers, and we need your help! If you know a hot dude who's still looking for a girlfriend, send us a letter...

Scandalous star.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "I just loved reading about the devious guy in 'The Biggest Bad Boy in Hollywood.' My friends and I spent one fun night drinking margaritas and trying to figure out who he is. Please print more tales like this--they are such a guilty...

Dangerous directions.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "My boyfriend finally dumped me because of the same behavior described in 'How Your Anger Can Get You Killed.' One time after I had stomped away from him, a man followed me in his car. Luckily, I went to a friend's house nearby, but I see that...

Nooky by numbers.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "I just finished reading '65 Crazy, Wild Sex Moves No Guy Can Resist (or Forget),' and I even came up with number 66: I sent the article to my boyfriend with a note asking him to circle his favorite moves. Then I told him I'd grant his requests...

Awesome Alba.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "I loved your article on Jessica Alba. She was so point-blank honest that it was really refreshing to read her interview. She's confident and unapologetic about her sexuality and life choices, and I admire that. She is right about women...

Gyno mistakes.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "Thank you so much for creating awareness of premature ovarian failure with 'I Went Through Menopause at 23.' Gynecologists tend to dismiss irregular cycles as normal, but a larger problem could be lurking. Like Emily, I was diagnosed by a...

Split decision.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... RANT "'Make Your Man a Perfect Fit for You' should have been titled 'How Selfish Women Can Manipulate Men to Do What They Want.' Trying to control the way a guy spends his money is a bad idea. Relationships should be about equal...

Toxic dumping.(You Tell Us)(Letter to the Editor)
May 1, 2005... "5 Toxic Love Thoughts to Unload Now' was just what I needed! Though I'm dating a really great guy, I'm still plagued by my last relationship wreck. Even when things are good, my negative thoughts take over, and I'm convinced this relationship...

Guy test-drive: one man mouths off about the March issue of Cosmo.(YOU TELL US)
May 1, 2005... "'Confessions of a Bachelor Party Stripper' was really on-target. But I've never been at one where the bachelor wanted to get it on. 'The Girlie Dramas He Doesn't Get' was also true, especially the fat-days thing. There's nothing a guy can...

10 things you must never do in front of your guy.(may cosmo commandments)
May 1, 2005... 1 Wistfully mention your ex's huge feet. 2 Come to bed wearing that homemade avocado, honey, and granola face mask you read about. 3 Say "It's only a game" when his team loses in the playoffs. 4 Cast a spell on Julie--a colleague...

Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.(CONFESSIONS)
May 1, 2005... Wedding Dance Disaster "I had been dating Steve for a few months when he invited me to his sister's wedding. I had never met his family before, and I was really nervous. At the wedding, Steve and I spent the entire time at the bar with his...

Men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scam ever.(GUY CONFESSIONS)
May 1, 2005... Skanky-Breath Blunder "While I was eating ice cream with this girl on a date, I noticed she got some on her face. After I pointed it out, she coyly stared at me and said Why don't you lick it off?' I leaned over and ran my tongue against...

Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru, Jonathan Small.
May 1, 2005... [Q] I know that my boyfriend loves me, but he's fixated on my friends. He's always checking them out and asking about their sex lives. I never catch him eyeing random girls on the street though. So why is lie so obsessed with my friends? ...

Jennifer gets it right: J.Lo is in what she calls phase two of her life: new album, flick, clothing line, and husband. To learn what else this sexy triple threat has in store, you're going to have to read this riveting interview.(Interview)
May 1, 2005... There are some actresses who in real life barely resemble their glamorous red-carpet images. Jennifer Lopez is not one of them. She is even more beautiful in person than she is on the big screen and in her va-va-voom music videos. And this...

Dating in Hollywood.(HOT TOPIC)
May 1, 2005... Q If stars don't meet on-set, where do they meet? A "Publicists often set up their clients because they know how much people love a celebrity couple; it can do wonders for both people's careers (Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston got together...

Who will Jen and Brad date next? Cosmo predicts. Here's who we think would be a good fit for them--if they don't reunite.(informer)
May 1, 2005... "After Brad, she'll WHO A SHRINK "Guys that good-looking likely pick a man with SEES THEM WITH often end up with a girl another key quality -next-door type," says instead of looks," says ...

Talking tees: when it comes to clothing slogans, a little creative interpretation is called for.(informer)
May 1, 2005... Fergie "This is my idea of talking trash." [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Jon Bon Jovi "I have socks older than some of my fans." [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Tara Reid "Hey, boys--want to play in my toy chest?" ...

Yellow fever: see who shined in this hard-to-pull-off hue.(informer)
May 1, 2005... SWEET ELIZABETH HURLEY [thumbs up] Liz is positively juicy in a citrus-colored dress. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] SCARLETT JOHANSSON [thumbs up] Her name's Scarlett, but her color is yellow. [ILLUSTRATION...

Diane Neal.(FUN FEARLESS FEMALE)
May 1, 2005... * BABE BIO Current gig: Assistant DA Casey Novak on Law and Order: SVU Age: 29 Romantic MO: Engaged to model Marcus FitzGerald MODEL STUDENT "I graduated from high school at 16, and my parents sent me to college in Hawaii...

Ian Somerhalder.(CAN'T TAKE YOUR EYES OFF ...)(Brief Article)(Interview)
May 1, 2005... Getting stranded on a tropical island after surviving a plane crash wouldn't be so bad if it meant sharing your coconuts with a guy as hot as Ian Somerhalder. The former model with the killer blue eyes put the "prime" in prime time when he...

The secret behind his smile: during the first few dates, a guy's grin bares all. Here, how figure out his level of interest based on his facial expression.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... SMILE STYLE: His top lip is stretched wide, and his front teeth are just barely peeking through. LOVE LESSON: "This tight-lipped look is a polite signal that while he enjoys your company, the romantic spark may not be there," explains...

Is he still hooked on his ex? If you have a feeling your new guy could be jonesin' for his former flame, find out for sure with these giveaways.(guy spy)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... * He bithes about her. Ironically, while putting his ex down and talking you through all of her flaws may seem like a sign he's over her, it actually indicates that your new dude is probably still riding the rebound roller coaster. Where...

Most single guys want a girlfriend.(the secret he wants to spill)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Despite all the conventional wisdom dictating that guys believe bachelor life to be the best days of their lives, there's something you should know: That's actually crap. We're insanely jealous of our friends who have girlfriends, and it's not...

Cosmo web poll.(guy spy)
May 1, 2005... 58% OF MEN ADMIT THAT THEY WOULD SLEEP WITH A BUDDY'S EX. --COSMO WEB POLL

Read between his lines.(guy spy)
May 1, 2005... HE SAYS: "How many relationships have you had?" HE MEANS: "How experienced are you in bed?" SOURCE: JIM SNIECHOWSKI, PHD, COAUTHOR OF BE LOVED FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE

What not to say between the sheets for his sake--and yours--never utter any of these libido-sapping lines in bed.(his point of view)
May 1, 2005... As much as you want to let your mouth run hog wild after a rowdy roll in the hay, rest assured, it's in your best interest to censor some of that dialogue. Because, frankly, almost anything other than "Wow! You rocked my world, you stud!" is...

'She can say that again!".(guys speak out)
May 1, 2005... "I love it when we're hanging out with a group of people and my girlfriend whispers in my ear, 'If I don't have you soon, I think Ill explode.'" --Andrew Broekehmann "Hands down, one of the sexiest things that can come out of a...

"The Bachelor".(buzz worthy: the promos, products and hot happenings that have people talking)(Brief Article)(Advertisement)
May 1, 2005... Follow the romantic journey of "The Bachelor" Charlie O'Connell as he meets 25 beautiful women in search of the woman of his dreams. Find the love Monday nights on ABC. "The Bachelor" is produced by Next Entertainment in association with...

Trust your Intuition[R] ...(buzz worthy: the promos, products and hot happenings that have people talking)
May 1, 2005... Now through August, follow a fabulous female heroine as she deals with intrigue and romance in A Woman's Intuition, a short story brought to you by Schick[R] Intuition[R]. Log on to www.schickintuition.com each month as a new chapter is...

DSW Chic Shoe Party.(buzz worthy: the promos, products and hot happenings that have people talking)
May 1, 2005... You're invited to join Cosmopolitan Promotion at the Chic Shoe Party at DSW's Union Square location. Ask our Merchandising Editor about the spring's hottest shoe trends, get your "style in the stars" forecast from our on-site astrologer, and...

Guy without his shirt: check out this month's half-naked hunk.(MAN MANUAL)
May 1, 2005... Name: Jon Jonsson Age: 22 Height: 5 feet 11 inches Weight: 165 pounds Sign: Cancer Hometown: Carmel, California Favorite thing: "I love eyes. They're the most revealing part of a woman. If you can read the eyes, you...

Make sex more amazing.(SHOW THIS TO YOUR MAN)
May 1, 2005... * When you're having sex with your girlfriend, you want to push her to the ultimate peak of pleasure. But there are a ton of things you can also do--before and after--to ensure file experience is as special as possible. Here, the little extras...

If you buy a girl a gift, it better be pricey.(Myth of the Month)
May 1, 2005... "It's the little things that matter. I'd prefer a sweet card over an expensive piece of jewelry any day. I care more about his feelings for me than I do how much money he has." --Sally, 30 "Honestly, when a guy buys me a really...

10 buys that'll kick-start summer.(COSMO SHOPPING)
May 1, 2005... Pair flowing skirts with slim-fitting tops. 1 A Batik Skirt Chaudry, $118 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 2 A Bucket Hat Le Tigre, $32 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 3 A Flirty Halter Top Nu, $114 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]...

Blue crush: there's nothing moody about these blues. Cool, crisp Mediterranean hues are making a splash on the fashion front, so jump right in--the water's great.(COSMO SHOPPING: TREND TIP SHEET)
May 1, 2005... Halter, To the Max, $78 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ring, JLO by Jennifer Lopez Jewelry, $35 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Bag, Mossimo at Target, $13. www.target.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Dress, ECI, $148 [ILLUSTRATION...

Preppy chic: country-club style is back with a bang, but it's far from prim and proper. The updated seersucker and plaid aren't uptight at all--and neither are their price tags.(COSMO SHOPPING: STYLE STEALS)
May 1, 2005... $30 Watch, Bongo [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $74 Shorts, Robin Naylor [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $86 Halter Tailor New York [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $55 Shoes, BC Footwear, www.shop intuition.com ...

The season's sexiest suits.(BEACHWEAR BONUS)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... This summer's most sizzling swimwear comes in hot shades and has racy ruffles and come-hither cutouts. Pick up one (or several) of these pieces and you've got the formula for beach bliss. Bright Bikini, XOXO, $84, 800-463-7946 ...

Paradise found: palm trees? Check. Exotic flowers? Check. Pineapples? Check. Give your sand style some tropical punch with knockout suits and accessories.(MORE TROPICAL)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Floral-Print bikini, So Low, $66, www .solowstyle.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Island-print bikini, Skechers, $62, 800-463-7946 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] One-piece bathing suit, Nautica, $130, www.nautica.com [ILLUSTRATION...

All dolled up: the last time you wore a tiny two-piece with ruffles, you were still building sand castles. But the newest girlie numbers have a much more grown-up allure.(MORE RUFFLED)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Peasant-top and skirted-bottom bikini, Hot Kiss, $100 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Printed bikini. Choice Calvin Kleir, $88 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Reversible banded-halter bikini, Guess? Swimwear, $132, www.guess.com ...

Rainbow brights: these happy-hued suits feature the entire spectrum of eye-catching colors. The second you slip into one, you'll instantly become a standout sex goddess.(MORE RAINBOW)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Sequined bikini, Salinas Swimwear, $110 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Vertical-stripe bikini, Jeans Swimwear, $64, www.glojeans.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Bandeau bikini, Rosa Cha by Amir Slama, $170 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ...

Wild things: the sultry stunners on this page are anything but tame. Follow your instincts and choose your favorite ferocious pieces--just be prepared for catcalls.(MORE TRIBAL)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Graphic-print bikini, H & M, $16 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Keyhole-front bathing suit, Anne Klein Swimwear, $118 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Shell-embellished bikini, Moonsplash, $96, www.moon splashswim.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]...

The best two-piece for your body: bikinis seem to look alike, but some do a better job of highlighting your foxiness and fixing any flaws.(BODY SHAPE SPECIAL)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Suits to Suit You Tummy Pooch Tankini, Choice Calvin Klein , $86 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] TIP: A tankini provides sexy coverage, hiding your belly but baring legs and cleavage. Boyish Figure Bikini, Victoria's Secret,...

Beach-bag basics: you've got your teeny bikini, but don't head for the shore just yet. The recipe for seaside seventh heaven requires just a few more ingredients.(EXTRA EXTRAS)
May 1, 2005... Slip on a straw hat cover limp, wet locks. Hat, Alloy, $12 www.alloy.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Necklace, By Boe, $55 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Flip-flops, Rocket Dog, $45 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] This arm candy is...

Red carpet gleam secret.(COSMO LOOK: beauty gossip)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Ever wonder how celebs always seem to have that luminescent, almost otherworldly glow? One secret: shimmer-infused spray-tan treatments, says Jamie Ahn, owner of the superhip Acqua Beauty Bar in NYC, which is frequented by Molly Sims. You can...

How much did she spend on her hair?(beauty gossip)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Lots of magazines have made a big deal out of the astronomical prices some celebrity stylists charge for a haircut. But the sneaky truth is that when most stars and beauty insiders get coiffed by one of these mane masters, it's almost always...

Spa dates.(STAR TREND)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Some hot Tinseltown duos have found a posh new way to bond: going for beauty treatments together. For instance, Demi Moore and beau Ashton Kutcher get their nails done regularly at the Jessica Nail Clinic in Beverly Hills. Matt Damon and his...

Beauty slang: "chiclets".(beauty gossip)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... n. The result of overzealous teeth bleaching, causing chompers to become so blindingly white that they resemble pieces of Chiclets chewing gum. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]

Look glowy (not greasy).(beauty lessons)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... We loved how radiant some celebs looked at the recent awards shows, but a few stars crossed the luminous line and appeared almost sweaty. "Certain parts of the face are prone to oil slicks and therefore should never have sheen," says Troy...

3 fresh ways to go glossy.(beauty lessons)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Shiny eyes and lips are great in warm weather, when you don't want to wear anything too heavy or dark. Here's how to do the dew: Lids Go for a colored eye gloss--the non-goopy texture won't crease as quickly as a cream shadow. We like...

A clever touch-up trick.(QUICK TIP)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... If your evening purse is so tiny that you can't fit your tube or pot of concealer, try this tip: Before you head out for a cotton swab in your cover-up, stick it in a small plastic bag, and stash it in your purse. "If your eye makeup or...

Spring's sexy new hue.(beauty lessons)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Like the word stirrups, orange makeup has always instilled fear in most women. But some things do change: Citrus tones are no longer scary. "This season's coral shades are transparent and have a shimmery bronze undertone that makes them easy to...

Appetite control is in your reach.(COOL TiPS HOT Buys)(Advertisement)
May 1, 2005... Years of scientific research from Kemin Industries have lead to Satise, a natural weight management supplement that can help you feel full sooner when you eat and stay full longer. The active ingredient in Satise is a protein extracted from...

The latest must-have beauty secret.(COOL TiPS HOT Buys)(Brief Article)(Advertisement)
May 1, 2005... In the last two years, more than 12 million women have purchased a little hair remover called Finishing Touch. Why? Because it's painless, and it eliminates unwanted facial hair instantly! Now with pivoting head. Just $9.99. Visit...

The pimple healer.(COOL TiPS HOT Buys)(Brief Article)(Advertisement)
May 1, 2005... Mario Badescu's famous Pink Drying Lotion dries out pimples overnight and helps prevent breakouts. Order. 1-800-BADESCU (223-3728). In NY, 212-223-3728. Or send ck/mo $17.00 + $4.95 s/h: Mario Badescu, Dept. CO0505, 320 East 52nd St., NY, NY...

How to get the perfect sunless tan.(COOL TiPS HOT Buys)(Brief Article)(Advertisement)
May 1, 2005... Tired of sunless tanning products that streak and turn skin orange? Try airbrush tanning from Salon Bronze. It ensures an even tan every time and sprays at any angle--even upside-down! You get the airbrush and three cartridges for just $19.99....

Score ravage-me ringlets.(HOT HAIR ALERT)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... We love this polished yet unprissy style from the spring Monique L'Huillier runway (at right). To get the look, spritz your strands with a heat-protecting styler, dab on a curl-enhancing mousse, and dry hair completely. A good combo: Aveda Air...

Ask Rachel.(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Q Is it bad to breathe in hair spray? A The American Lung Association has never studied this and has no reported cases of hair spray-related lung conditions. You should be more worried about inhaling cigarette smoke if you're a puffer or if...

Shampoo your hair type: washing normal to thick hair is a no-brainer--lather, rinse, and repeat if desired. But some other kinds of hair need smarter suds strategies.(HOW TO ...)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Hair Type Curly Lathering Lesson Use a curl-enhancing shampoo with frizz-fighting silicone. Massage only your scalp--roughing up the length of your waves can cause fly-aways. Try Frederic Fekkai Luscious Curls Shampoo, $20...

Easy at-home color.(hair how-to)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Guest color expert: Giselle, head colorist at NYC's Pierre Michel Haute Coiffure and consultant to Clairol Who she primps: Sarah Michelle Gellar; Renee Zellweger The scoop: To pull off at-home color, first part your hair in the middle,...

How to de-stress your tresses: mane master Ted Gibson shares his know-how for luscious locks.(COSMO LOOK)
May 1, 2005... Unlike the usual buzzing, bustling--and sometimes frenzied--Manhattan chop shops, the Ted Gibson Salon exudes a Zenlike calm. Gibson, whose clients include Angelina Jolie, Keira Knightley, and Ashanti, believes that stress takes a serious toll...

The best spring freebies: grab these ample samples at your local beauty counter before they run out!(editor' picks)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Heavenly Hands Chapped paws will love Bliss's High Intensity Hand Cream, a macadamia oil-based moisturizer that comes with a grease-free guarantee. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Fresh Fragrance Vera Wang Sheer Veil is a burst of...

Get steamy with him in the shower.(BLOW-HIS-MIND TIP)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Tonight, why not enter the wet zone and treat him to a rubdown. Start with a soapy sponge and stand behind him while you work down his back, butt, and legs, scrubbing him in a circular motion. Then move to face him and work over his torso and...

Snag more compliments: sadly, guys often need a little prodding when it comes to serving up the ear candy you deserve.(HOW TO ...)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Dish It First "Boost your man's ego and he's more likely to verbalize what he likes about you," says Terrence Real, PhD, author of How Can I Get Through to You? Something like "Your butt looks hot" should loosen his lips. Ask for His...

"Even though we're exclusive, he flirts.".(SPAT OF THE MONTH)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... "If your guy is just naturally social, he may not view his behavior as flirting," says NYC psychologist Janice Bennett, PhD. Especially if it's with women you know. But innocent or not, next time he misbehaves, tell him his actions made you...

The right way to touch a naked man: to really fire his desire, you need to treat your guy to the specific strokes, caresses, and pressures his body craves. Just follow our erotic instructions.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... If really want to make his knees e with bliss, you need to know some details about male anatomy. We're talking specifics on how a guy's skin reacts to certain stroke styles, the level of pressure men prefer, and the exact chain of events that...

28 love rituals to do with him: real couples reveal the relationship habits that keep their connection tighter than Usher's abs. Crib a few of theirs and get inspired to create your own.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... Sure, you're used to running around like a crazed lunatic, but stop for a second and take a breather. Your relationship could depend on it. You see, carving out regular just-you-and-him moments to connect is crucial to your love union....

5 guy-repellent rituals: here's how not to bond with your boyfriend.(LUST AND LOVE)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... * SHAVE. EACH OTHER'S ARMPITS. Pubic hair, sure; leg hair, maybe. Underarm hair: Now, that's the pits! * TAG ALONG ON BOYS' NIGHT OUT. We're all for togetherness, but give the poor guy some breathing room. * SET OUT HIS WORK CLOTHES...

4 truths about guys and dating: burn these love laws into your brain and you won't get stuck in "what's he thinking?" mode again.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... It's no secret that men are a mystery. Come on, they play air guitar and love fart jokes. But what's most mind-boggling is their romantic intentions. "Men don't talk about feelings the way women do, so it's difficult to determine what's going...

The danger of emotional adultery: turns out, an intimate friendship with another guy can cause just as much damage to your relationship as sex on the side.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... Were you aware that it's possible to cheat on your boyfriend without even touching another guy? You can have what's called an emotional affair, and it can be as damaging to a twosome as a physical liaison. Brad Pitt's supertight emotional...

We puts 5 sex myths to bed: think you've got your man's passion preferences pegged? Cosmo separates frisky fad from fiction.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... Who knows how ran@ rumors get started. The point is, there is a lot of misinformation going around about what gets guys off between the sheets that could possibly be keeping you and your guy from reaching ultimate pleasure. "When you operate...

Cosmo's sexy card game: we put a naughty spin on the ancient art of tarot card reading. Tear them out to get a glimpse of his sexual past, tap into his present desires, and foretell his erotic future.(LOVE AND LUST)
May 1, 2005... Here's how to play: Rip out the 12 tarot cards on the following page and shuffle them, picture side up. Place the deck in front of your man and ask him to cut it twice, so you're left with three piles. Flip over the first card and read...

"The sexy stud who came to my rescue": when these readers ran into trouble, a yummy knight saved the day.(HEART COPY)
May 1, 2005... "I was meeting my friend Emily for dinner, but as usual, she was running late, so I decided to have a drink at the bar. As I sat there, sipping a martini, this creepy older man started hitting on me. I was silently cursing Emily when he asked...

The place most rapes happen: more women are attacked in and around their own homes than anywhere else. Learn about this startling statistic ... and how to keep yourself safe.(Special Report)
May 1, 2005... Around midnight on February 3, 2005, a 20something woman in Wollaston, Massachusetts, was getting ready for bed when she noticed that one of the lights in her home had gone out. She went to investigate, and a man wearing a ski mask grabbed her...

"Our love survived the tsunami": Joy and Brendan Fehily were honeymooning in Thailand when one of the world's worst natural disasters occurred. Here, they share how it altered their relationship.(REAL-LIFE READS)
May 1, 2005... On December 15, 2004--twelve months after they kissed for the first time--newlyweds Joy Fehily, a publicist, and Brendan Fehily, a field director for TVs The Insider, flew to Thailand for their honeymoon. Their destination: the romantic resort...

Celeb marriages: why some thrive and other tank: you read about the cheating, fights, and quickie divorces, but what you rarely hear about are the true love stories in Tinseltown. Behold the secrets of--gasp!--happy celebrity hubbies and wives.(WHAT YOU'RE DYING TO KNOW ABOUT)
May 1, 2005... It's no surprise that it's tough to stay hitched in Hollywood. And statistics prove that celebrity marriages are indeed even more fragile than ones outside La-La Laud. According to celebrity divorce attorney Raoul Felder: "On national average,...

When fights get physical: a push, a pinch, or a slap may not hurt that badly, but lashing out during a spat can bruise your bond.(WHAT YOU'RE DYING TO KNOW ABOUT)
May 1, 2005... No doubt you read about the recent Diane Lane--Josh Brolin altercation. The newlyweds were out partying one night and got into an argument after making their way home. Lane went to sleep with the fight unresolved. Brolin reportedly then shoved...

Blissful blooms.(QUICK LIFT)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... Scientific research shows that plants have a beneficial effect on your mood, but did you know that the color combos of flowers can also give you a boost? "Using certain hues in floral arrangements can stimulate or relax you," explains...

Easy ways to pamper yourself: get into a sensual, springlike state of mind with these quick feel-good tricks. (They're a cinch to pull off.).(PLEASURES)(Illustration)
May 1, 2005... Get into a sensual, springlike state of mind with these quick feel-good tricks. (They're a cinch to pull off.) ENJOY Now that it's staying lighter longer (finally!), take DUSK'S MOOD advantage of those precious twilight hours...

Refresh your face fast.(PLEASURES)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2005... To instantly feel revitalized, try this face rub from Grace Shehade, assistant director for the Avanyu Spa at the Equinox resort in Vermont: Apply gentle pressure to the sides of your nose with your fingertips. Slowly drag your fingers down the...