Cosmopolitan articles from May 2002

Cosmopolitan archives from May 2002

The J.Lo-Down. (The Cosmo Cover Look).(Jennifer Lopez shares beauty secrets)(Brief Article)(Interview)
May 1, 2002... COVER-STAR STATS Name: Jennifer Lopez Age: 31 Number of Cosmo covers: Two Hair-care must: "Once my hair gets used to a product, it doesn't have the same effect. Every few months, I switch it. I like to experiment." ...

Fun fearless female report.(two women describe hanging out with friends)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... We scoured the country to find the most Fun Fearless Females, and each month two of them dish on what's going down in their towns. Karin Elliott, 32 Human services policy planner, Boston Now that the weather's getting nice, my friends...

Bargaining with the boys. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "I have no problem with most of the things the editors of Maxim suggested in `A Peace Treaty Between the Sexes' (March). But if those pigheaded perverts think for one second that I will allow my boyfriend to ogle other women (T&A, as they so...

Dating diary devotee. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "Reading Dating Diary, I'm comforted by the fact that I'm not the only person in the world who meets idiots. I was really intrigued with Maggie's most recent dilemma, and I can't believe you're leaving us hanging. But it will be extremely...

Web poll. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... In March's "Did She Really Poison Her Husband?" Cosmo took a close look at the case against Kristin Rossum. We asked you to play the jury, and here's what you said: say she's guilty 68% "There's so much evidence that points...

In kristin's defense. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "I was shocked to see the article about Kristin Rossum (`Did She Really Poison Her Husband?' March). I went to high school with her. She was the nicest girl you could ever meet, very kind and caring. I don't know all the facts of the case, and...

Putting the drive in sex. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "March's `4 Sex Emergencies' really helped me out. My boy, end and I talked about my low sex drive, an we are going to take some of the advice in the, article. I really think this is going to help. Thanks, Cosmo." --name withheld

Comic relief. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "I just had to write! I read a lot of magazines while I am on the StairMaster, and I have never laughed so hard as I did while reading March's Dating Disasters (`His Wacko Dump-Worthy Behavior'). I had to stop stepping just to catch my breath!...

Guy Test-drive: one man mouths off about March's issue of Cosmo. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "`His Secret After-Sex Wish List' was right on. But I like a girl to lie in my arms while I watch SportsCenter--it's the best of both worlds. `A Peace Treaty Between the Sexes' was pretty funny, but certain things about guys will never change,...

Orgasm equality. (You Tell Us).
May 1, 2002... "Before reading `How to Break the Last Sex Taboo' (March), I had no clue how many women go unsatisfied in bed. The fact that communicating about what they need is seen as forbidden by some women is sad. Just be blunt! If your man doesn't care...

Cosmo confessions: Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.
May 1, 2002... interoffice male "When I began my new job, my coworker Mike started hitting on me. I totally fell for him, but I was afraid of making waves at the office so we kept our romance a secret. A couple of months into our relationship, my boss...

Guy confessions: men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever.
May 1, 2002... name flopper "Even though I was in love with my girlfriend, I had been dipping my wick elsewhere, if you know what I mean. One night, we went out drinking with a bunch of my girl's friends and I got pretty wasted, so she ended up taking me...

Are Gwyneth and Luke still linked? (Cosmo informer).(Gwyneth Paltrow and Luke Wilson still dating)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Hollywood's latest "are they or aren't they?" couple, Gwyneth Paltrow and Luke Wilson, are definitely still on. Even though both have been spotted--and photographed--solo on separate coasts, an inside source from Wilson's camp insists that the...

Tom's special delivery. (Cosmo informer).(Tom Cruise's request to hotel)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Tom Cruise will preserve his privacy at any cost. The actor was recently staying in the largest suite at the Four Seasons Hotel in Singapore while on an international publicity tour and wanted to use the gym. But rather than going there himself...

Nice beaver ... jacket. (Cosmo informer).(Kate Moss on the town)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Can you guess which leggy catwalker got caught in this compromising position as she shimmied out of her car on a recent night on the town? We'll give you some help: It's Kate Moss. Good thing she has great gams to go with that G-string!

Jennifer cops a feel. (Cosmo informer.).(Jennifer Love Hewitt admires stranger's dress)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... At a recent Hollywood awards show, the forever fashionable Jennifer Love Hewitt ambushed a mere mortal to gush about how much she loved the woman's knee-length, black-rhinestone-studded light gray gown. And as if the compliment weren't enough,...

The fast and the fragrant. (Cosmo informer).(Dale Earnhardt Jr. new face for Drakkar Noir Cologne)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Women went wild when NASCAR superstar Dale Earnhardt Jr. doused himself with Gatorade after his recent EAS/GNC Live Well 300 win at Daytona. But the single speedster is going to have to splash on something a tad more sophisticated to attract...

Rodeo drive rendezvous. (Cosmo informer).(Matt Damon runs into ex-girlfriend Penelope Cruz)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... They played onscreen lovers in All the Pretty Horses and reportedly had a real fling off camera, but when Matt Damon and Penelope Cruz bumped into each other recently while shopping at Ralph Lauren on Rodeo Drive, their meeting was strictly...

Austin powers' Randy rumors. (Cosmo informer).(Beyonce Knowles rumored to be very good in film debut)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... A slew of A-list celebrities like Britney Spears, Gwyneth Paltrow, Kevin Spacey, Quincy Jones, and returning "shagadelic" stars Heather Graham and Elizabeth Hurley got in on the cameo action in the new Austin Powers flick. And what about those...

Cosmo readers' poll: TV's best in show.(favorite TV shows and personalities)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... You're bonkers for Buffy, and Joey's your fave Friend. Check out what other top honors you bestowed in this year's small-screen survey. BEST COMEDY 1. Friends 2. The Simpsons 3. Will & Grace 4. Sex and the City 5. That '70s...

Crazy for Kiefer. (Hunk Of The Month).(Kiefer Sutherland)(Brief Article)(Interview)
May 1, 2002... * We lusted after him in the The Lost Boys, got blown away by him in Young Guns, saluted him in A Few Good Men, and now, we're hooked on Kiefer Sutherland 24-7. With his hit show, 24--for which he just won a Golden Globe-this sexy 35-year-old...

Would you consider going to a strip club with your guy? Some say that visiting a risque venue together will add sexual sparks to the relationship. (Dating And Relating Debate).(Brief Article)(Statistical Data Included)
May 1, 2002... * Britney Spears reportedly dropped by a popular strip club in Los Angeles to take in a show with her boyfriend, Justin Timberlake. Sources say that the pop sensation was looking for inspiration for dance moves, but more women seem to be...

When he wants you to pipe up: there are moments when he prays you will shut your trap. These aren't them. (His Point Of View).(when men like women to be assertive)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * Guys are constantly bellyaching about their women trying to wear the pants in the relationship, but there are certain instances when we count on you to lay down the law: either when we're testing you to see what we can get away with or when...

How love can make us loco: ever notice that a new relationship can cause you to lose all reason? Laura Zigman, author of the novel Animal Husbandry, contemplates why. (On My Mind).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * You meet a great guy and fall in love. But there's just one little problem: his ex-girlfriend. Only he's not the one who can't stop thinking about her... you are. In my new novel Her, an otherwise stable woman named Elise becomes so obsessed...

Agony.(relationship advice)(Column)
May 1, 2002... mother tongue My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex. Everything is great except for one thing. While in the throes of passion, he yells out, "Yes, Mommy! Yes, Mommy! "At first I thought it was a joke, but he won't stop, and...

Cosmo fashion.(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... What to Wear Now Bust out in one of the season's hippest hues--turquoise. This color brings to mind sea and sky and flatters absolutely everyone. Silver, turquoise, and coral earrings, Lapis Lois at Pure Accessories, $62 ...

The sexiest new swimsuits. (Bonus Section Beachwear 2002).
May 1, 2002... Summer getaways and pool parties are just around the corner, and Cosmo's on the case with our annual swimsuit extravaganza. We've packed the next 25 pages with the hottest bathing suits and beach accessories under the sun so you can make a...

Great guy gear you can use too. (Beauty Buzz).(toiletries)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... The next time you're having a sleepover at your sweetie's place, bring him a present you'll both love--one (or all) of these guy-grooming products. He'll dig the nongirlie look of this loot, while you'll appreciate the fab formulas that you can...

Glamour-eyes your p.m. look. (Beauty Buzz).(evening makeup tips)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... The next time you hit the town, try the entrancing bronze eye effect we spotted on model James King. "Bronze hues are ultrahot this season and look stunning on all skin tones," says Jim Crawford, a New York City makeup artist for Revlon. "The...

Get a whiff of this ... (Beauty Buzz).(bath products with unusual aromas)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Wacky-sounding aromas are popping up in bath and body products, but don't let that deter you--they smell fabulous. Here are some of our favorites. * ROGER AND GALLET GARDENER'S LETTUCE SHOWER GEL, $9, contains chlorophyll and vitamins A,...

Rachel reminds you ... (Beauty Buzz).(shave gel and shaving legs)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... To get your gams as silky as possible, don't shave them until the end of your shower. When your hairs become waterlogged, they plump up, which makes it easier to get a close shave. I love the new shaving creams spiked with fruity scents, like...

How to ... get rid of under-eye bags. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Give the heave-ho to under-eye woes by following this advice from Deborah Sarnoff, a New York City cosmetic dermatologist. Combine whole milk (a natural anti-inflammatory) and ice in a bowl, then dab on your eye area with a washcloth for 20...

Trend alert: cheeks go sweet 'n' sassy. (Beauty Buzz).(blush)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Take a cue from screen sirens like Alicia Silverstone and Liv Tyler, who have been sporting bold cheek color. "Everyone looks energized and sexy with this romantic, sweet look," says New York City makeup artist Joe J. Simon. To apply: Smile big...

Cures for common makeup mistakes. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Have you, been making one of these beauty blunders? Rehab your application routine with this advice from New York City makeup artist Laura Geller. MAKEUP WRONG WAY Eyeliner Pushing the pencil down into the lashes or ...

The center part gets sexed up. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... The center part is making a comeback. Tress trendsetters have avoided dividing their coifs down the middle for years, but now, some of Hollywood's hottest heads are hip to it. Why the change of part? The face-framing layers that are popular...

How to ... beat split ends. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Hair looking frayed? You can mend those ragged ends. "Hairs split at the tip because the shafts get too dry and begin to fall apart," says Cheryl Marks, of the Cloutier Agency in Los Angeles. "But if you keep them well-hydrated, the cuticles...

The big bang debate. (Cosmo Hair).(how to decide on hair bangs)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... If you're thinking of snipping fringe, read this first. "Bangs can be flattering, but on the wrong person, they can be a disaster," says Kim Lepine, of Lepine New York Salon in NYC. The scoop on who should try 'em: GET HOT TO CHOP IF......

Mane tips from must-see TV. (Cosmo Hair).(secrets of TV stars' hair)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... We asked the hair pros on hit small-screen shows for the strategies they use to make the stars' strands so enviable. THE BABE WITH BLINDING SHINE: Rose McGowan "To keep Rose's hair shiny, I avoid using heavy sprays, since they give a...

Preppy stripes. (Tress Trend).(hair accessories)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Aside from flip-flops and bikinis, nothing says "summer's here" like tresses dressed up with girlie accessories. This year's hot-weather must-haves: barrettes and pony holders in colorful stripes. These country club-inspired doodads play up...

Salon superstition: full-moon strands. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... For centuries, some have believed that hair grows faster and becomes healthier during the full moon. The reasoning? Since water makes up about 70 percent of the human body and the full moon can increase the height of the tide, then it may also...

Get out of hair hell. (Cosmo Hair).(conditioners for sale)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... The downside of dyeing your hair: It can make your locks look less than luscious--i.e., dry and dull. To prevent such damage, try this advice: "Deep-condition your hair the night before you color it to keep it soft and shiny," says Brad Johns,...

Beauty confessions.(personal beauty)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... cringe-worthy query My hairline and bangs get very oily. I wash my hair every day, but by evening, it's all greasy again. Can you help met First of all, babes with bangs tend to touch their tresses a lot, and that excites oil glands,...

Fab lower abs: banish that stomach pooch with this tummy tightener. (Buff).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... THE MOVE TO MASTER: REVERSE CURL Lie flat on your back with your hands behind your head, elbows out to the sides. Raise your legs so your thighs are upright and calves are extended straight out (1). Tilt your pelvis slightly to flatten...

Sneaker shelf life: expert advice on when it's time for you to change your treads. (Buff).(buying athletic shoes)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... THE RULE OF THUMB FOR BUYING NEW KICKS is every 500 miles. So figure out how much and how often you run to determine when that mileage is up, says Geoffrey H. Westrich, M.D., an associate professor of orthopedic surgery at Cornell University...

Cool calorie burner. (Buff).(house cleaning)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... SPENDING 30 MINUTES CLEANING UP AFTER THAT "SMALL" PARTY YOU THREW ON FRIDAY NIGHT BURNS 133 CALORIES. CALCULATION IS BASED ON A 130- TO 135-POUND WOMAN.

Feel sexier this summer. (Me Time).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Everything else gets steamier from May to August. Why shouldn't you? Here, hot hints. 1 Wear a barely-there baby-doll sundress out to a bar. Extra points if it's sunshine yellow. 2 Blast festive samba music from your stereo on a...

Shower time treat: a regal ritual that'll get you riled up for a night of naughty fun. (luxe-life tip).(a glass of champagne before going out)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Getting ready to go out for some drinking, dancing, flirting, and who the hell knows what else? Start the night off like a rock star by filling a plastic cup with champagne and sipping the chilled bubbly while hot water cascades over your naked...

One-minute brow massage: do this stress-busting move anytime, anywhere. (quick lift).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Scrunching up your eyebrows is a common reaction to any kind of stress, so soothing them can feel surprisingly relaxing. Here's a quick tension-relieving tip from Massage for Beginners, by Marilyn Aslani: Starting at the inside corners, use the...

Do carbs encourage breast cancer? New research suggests a scary connection. (Breast Check).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Before you munch on your morning bagel, chew on this: After examining the eating habits and breast-cancer rates of more than 5,000 women, researchers from Italy and Canada found that those who ate the most high-glycemic carbohydrates (bagels...

Red wine without the headache: how to avoid paying for your vino penchant. (bad-girl rehab).(caring for hangovers)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Love that cabernet but hate how it causes your head to throb the next day? You're probably reacting to congeners, by-products of fermentation found in many deep-hued wines. Here's how to head off the problem so you can partake pain-free. 1...

Is it safe to have sex in a hot tub? (his & hers).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... The warm, wet environment of a hot tub sounds like the perfect place to get hot and heavy, but San Diego OB-GYN Bruce Bekkar, coauthor of Your Guy's Guide to Gynecology, says doing the deed there may increase your risk of several health...

Below-the-belt checkup: spending three minutes examining your private parts could save your life. (Cosmo Gyno).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... By now, performing a breast self-exam is a monthly ritual, but checking down south is also crucial. Do it every three months to spot problems early on. Any concerns? See your gyno. a IN THE SHOWER, carefully feel for bumps from your pubic...

A new way to prevent PMS: eating fish may fight premenstrual misery. (Cosmo Gyno).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... You already know that seafood is super heart-healthy, but here's another good reason to feast on fish regularly: Research suggests the omega-3 fatty acids found in fish can help fight cramps and other PMS woes. In a Danish study, women who ate...

"Sometimes I pee a little when I have an orgasm! How can I stop?". (Cosmo Gyno).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... As mortifying as it may be to come and go at the same time, it's not unusual. "When the uterus contracts during orgasm, it can stimulate contractions in nearby organs, including the bladder," explains Gunhilde Buchsbaum, a urogynecologist at...

"I discovered workplace dirt": readers blab about the shady, scandalous career crimes they witnessed. (Cosmo Careers).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Readers blab about the shady scandalous career crimes they witnessed. * "While I was answering phones for the attorney I work for, a call came from his probation officer! It turns out, my lawyer boss was busted for drunk driving and was...

"How can I get a clingy coworker to quit asking me to hang out?". (Cosmo Careers).(pleasure and business)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... "You have to be honest and assertive from the start or you'll run out of excuses," says Marjorie Brody, author of Help! Was That a Career Limiting Move? Tell your associate that keeping a clear separation between your work and personal life is...

Love your job: ways to add passion to your current position. (work trick of the month).(climbing the corporate ladder)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Ways to add passion to your current position Get schooled. "Take advantage of learning opportunities your company offers," says Caitlin Williams, Ph.D., author of Successful Woman's Guide to Working Smart. Sign up for training programs,...

Is he psyched you sleep over? (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... A guy loves having you at his place when... * He has something to show you. Whether it's the view from his balcony, his high-tech DVD player, or his whirlpool bathtub, pointing out the A-list attributes of his abode is a sign he wants you...

Your celebrity crushes are annoying: the secret he wants to spill. (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Admittedly, anyone who says they don't find famous people attractive is a liar. After all, many celebrities are famous only because they're abnormally good-looking (certainly, talent is not always a prerequisite for fame). The point: If you're...

Male mind reading: does having bad first-time sex doom the relationship? (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... MALE MIND READING Does having bad first-time sex doom the relationship? 46% No way--first- time sex isn't an indicator. 38% No, but I would have some doubts. 16% Yes--the...

How to ... get him to compliment you more. (Cosmo Love Page).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... It wouldn't kill the dude to say that you look hot now and then, but he acts like it might. Here, ways to change all that. * Go fish. Set him up to give you kudos, says Karen Salmansohn, author of I Don't Need to Have Children, I Date Them....

Stay-tight secret. (Cosmo Love Page).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... "I shower with my boyfriend at least once a week. He washes my hair, and I scrub his back. Sometimes we do get busy in there, but it's more about taking the time just to lavish attention on each other." --Mindy, 30 WHY IT WORKS...

"My boyfriend makes, snide cracks about the things I buy, which irks me!" (spat of the month).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Men don't get why you'd drop cash on yet another pair of sandals, says Lorel Lindstrom, Ph.D., coauthor of Red Hot Relationships. To deal: (1) Unload your bags out of his eyeball range, and (2) calmly explain that sexy shoes are as important to...

The sweet thing he did to win me over: most guys give up on a girl who seems too hard to get, but these determined dudes went the extra mile to melt her heart. (Heart Copy).
May 1, 2002... "I met Sean at a bar, but I don't date guys I meet at bars (bad experiences), so I refused to give him my number, despite the heat between us. A few days later, I was sitting at my desk when I got a strange E-mail. Some girl named Molly was...

... Tantalize his tootsies. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... To get your man in that kind of mood, you fondle his... feet? Absolutely, according to reflexology, the art of massaging different areas of the foot to invigorate various organs and systems of the body. Stimulate his main member by pressing...

... Be in a better mood. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... It'll be tough, but don't complain for an entire day--no matter how much something (like a fair-weather friend) pisses you off. To curb the bitch reflex, take deep breaths, says Charles Stuart Platkin, author of Breaking the Pattern. Then...

... Let him miss you. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... When you're not getting showered with the amount of adoring attention that you feel you deserve from your normally doting dude, slyly whip him into shape by making yourself scarce to jump-start his heart. Become super-duper busy... and when...

... Make eye contact. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... You have a lot more respect for someone who looks you in the eye than someone who seems hypnotized by the lint balls on the floor. So prove you have cojones by initiating some eye-to-eye with an intimidating coworker, a cute guy you're chatting...

... Parade lobe panache. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... Give your fellow fashionistas an earful and show'em you're a style maven by sporting a pair of dangling dazzlers. These days, the hottest earrings hang low and are turquoise, feathered, or bohemian-style sweepers (like the ones Cameron is...

Discover your hidden hot spots: your entire bod has erogenous-zone potential. Give your guy these tricks for finding your secret turn-on points and send him on a seek-and-enjoy mission. (Lust Lessons).
May 1, 2002... * If you've ever felt a sudden, sexy tingle between your legs when a guy stroked your back, touched your knee, or grabbed your waist, you already know the surprising way a random body part can become erotic. So why not capitalize on this idea?...

10 single-girl habits to hold on to: even if you're off the market, you can still maintain your preboyfriend moxie. Behold the independent acts to indulge in without an ounce of guilt. (The Cosmo List).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * When you lasso a cowboy you want to camp out with exclusively, there are a few single-chick habits you have to cross off your list (bedding down with other men comes to mind). But some activities can--and should!--be salvaged from your solo...

Are you following bad advice? No sooner do we get with a program than the rules seem to change. Here, Cosmo takes a look at the most recent reversals of conventional wisdom. (News Controversy).(brief notes)
May 1, 2002... * If you haven't heard about the miracles of soy, the only explanation is that you've been living on another planet for the past few years. Believing that this little bean can prevent breast cancer, lower cholesterol, and build bones, women...

Sexy sounds guys love to hear: cosmo explores the naughty noises, wicked words, and guttural groans you make when you're out of your head in bed and why they're music to his ears. (Sexplanations).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * When it comes to bedroom behavior, the adage "different strokes for different folks" applies... literally. But as it turns out, there is one universal element to sex: It's usually accompanied by sound effects. We're talking about stuff that...

The nastiest celeb-couple fights: read on for a ringside seat to the biggest brawls in Hollywood. Warning: When La-La Land lovers duke it out, even Mike Tyson runs for cover. Ding. Ding. (Star Stories).
May 1, 2002... * In Tinseltown, love is a risky business. After all, look at the supposedly rock-solid relationships that hit the skids: Tom and Nicole, Bruce and Demi, Meg and Dennis--the list goes on and on. And while we may hear rumors of the rumblings, no...

Are you dying to be thin? If you'd do anything to slim down, read this. Cosmo examines the weight-loss herb ephedra and its serious--sometimes fatal--side effects. (Warning to Women).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * Three years ago, Dawn Shuster was a healthy 33-year-old who wanted to lose about 25 pounds. So she took an over-the-counter diet pill to speed up the process. Little did she know that this supposedly safe weight-loss aid would bring her to...

Will your guy cheat on you? You don't need lipstick on a collar to know your man is the two-timing type. Here, a simple test that'll reveal his philandering potential. (Reading Men).
May 1, 2002... * You can forgive a guy for some indiscretions, but it's damn near impossible to turn the other cheek if he strays. Well, Cosmo did some investigating to ascertain the traits that may make men more likely to cheat, and some of our findings were...

Ways to say `I love you' without a word: why limit yourself to one little phrase? From secret signals to amorous actions, other small gestures show your dude just how deep your feelings for him run. (Love Life).(body language)(Abstract)
May 1, 2002... * Few statements have the powerful impact that "I love you" does... that is, until it's been said again and again and again. "Over time, the words themselves don't mean as much because they often end up sounding obligatory," explains Roy...

A brief course on condoms: from how to pick them out to the tricky way you put one on, becoming proficient at using prophylactics is your ticket to safe and satisfying sex. (Sex Smarts).(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... * Diamonds are cool, but c'mon ladies, condoms are a gifts best friend. Who else but that little rubber guy is gonna shield you from pregnancy and most sexually transmitted diseases and let you enter hump heaven without worry? (We'd love to say...

How to get new people in your life: is your social pool less Olympic-size and more of the kiddie wading variety? Switch off the cable, throw on some lip gloss, and use our tips to meet millions. (Social-Life Advice).
May 1, 2002... * We all know the type that girl who strolls into an out-of-the-way bar in the middle of Nowhereville and waves to three people, regularly has to buy extra memory for her Palm's address book, and has buds from all walks of life. Well, you can...

Can friends ruin your love life? Many 20somethings have clans of coed pals, but living like the characters on Friends can decrease your odds of finding a mate. Read on to find out why. (Social-Life Advice).
May 1, 2002... * Three years ago, after breaking up with her boyfriend, Meghan Berberet decided that she would use her between-relationships downtime to cultivate some new friends. She started off with Mike and Karin, whom she had first met through her ex....

The true story of one man's quest for love, lust, and adventure. (Dating Diary).
May 1, 2002... * The story so far: Krister survived a run-in with two exes at once and had a great date with Isabella but was having trouble setting up round two.... friday I went out with Isabella tonight and had one of the top five dates of my...

Diane's in the fast lane: one of Hollywood's most stunning stars dishes about getting caught cheating and her naughty new flick. (Fun Fearless Female).(actress Diane Lane)(Interview)
May 1, 2002... * Diane Lane may have burst onto the scene more than 20 years ago, but these days, she's turning more heads than ever. By 18, she had already starred in 12 movies, including The Outsiders and Rumble Fish. And while she had a slump in the '90s,...

Are you a good flirt? Can you chat up a guy in seconds flat? Or does it take you forever just to say "Hello"? Tap into your man-charming skills with this quiz. (Cosmo Quiz).
May 1, 2002... (1) At a pub, you spot this hot guy in a baseball cap, but he won't budge from his stool. You: --a. Sneak up behind him, whip off his hat and put it on, then flash him a lusty smile and say "Mine... come and get it." --b. Get a beer...

10 ways to boot out a one-night stand in the A.M. (Cosmo Commandments).(humour)(Brief Article)
May 1, 2002... 1 Tell him "I'm really looking forward to waking up every day for the next 50 years and seeing your face right next to mine." 2 Start doing step aerobics while watching Friday the 13th Part 3. 3 Close your eyes, clasp your hands, and...