Cosmopolitan articles from March 2006

Cosmopolitan archives from March 2006

Everything cosmo: get in the know .... Here, you'll find the latest scoop on everything really cool going on in Cosmoworld.
March 1, 2006... Drool-Worthy Wallpaper We've found the best reason of all to be gilled to your cell phone: Cosmo's shiftless-guy wallpaper. Just head to cosmomobile.com for instructions. For $1.99 each, you can download hotties like this guy whenever you...

Randy revelations.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I loved 'His Favorite Passion Pose Says...'. It's great to try to understand your guy through what he likes. But I am lucky. My man doesn't just have one favorite position.... He likes them all!"-Cristi, Panama City, Fla.

Awesome Ashlee.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I applaud your decision to put Ashlee Simpson on the cover. I have a lot of respect for her for continuing to do what she loves, despite a lot of people trying to bring her down for one or two mistakes. She is truly fearless and...

Carnal confidence.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "The Kind of Foreplay He Craves' inspired me to try to be less self-conscious in bed, which has been a big hit with my boyfriend. I now realize that having confidence is much sexier than showing your insecurities." --Stephanie, Detroit

Battling body image.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I think it's great that your editor chose to share her battle with anorexia with readers in 'Understanding My Eating Disorder 10 Years Later.' With all these superskinny celebrities, it is important to remind girls of the dangers of eating...

Bonding basics.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I've been with my boyfriend for six years, and sometimes it's hard to think of new ways to keep things interesting and stay connected with him. That's why I loved '50 Fun Ways to Get Closer.' Hearing what works for real-life couples was really...

Gyno discovery.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "After reading 'Signs Not to Ignore' in 'Gyno,' I knew I had to get to a doctor. I had been having really bad cramping, but until I read that article, I hadn't done anything about it. After getting checked out, I learned that I had...

Guy talk translated.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I loved your article 'The Secret Language of Men.' Like most women, I really appreciate any help I can get with what guys are thinking and saying. I even showed the piece to some of my male friends, and they all agreed that it was very...

Jen vs. Angelina.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "I was disappointed with the story 'Are You a Jen or an Angelina?' Both of these actresses have wonderful qualities, and they should be commended for being such strong women. Your article seemed to try and pit them against each other, which...

Split decision.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... RANT "The idea behind 'How to Totally Rule Your World' is great, but I think it's a shame that you used the fictional female president on Commander In Chief when there are so many inspirational real women, like Hillary Rodham Clinton or...

Guy test-drive: one man mouths off about the January issue of Cosmo.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... "'What His Touch Reveals' in 'Guy Spy' was right on the money. If we grab your hand in public, we're serious about you. 'His Favorite Passion Pose Says...' didn't ring as true. Guys don't think about their preferred position, they just do...

What's on your mind?(FROM THE EDITOR)
March 1, 2006... On page 176, SNL cutie Seth Meyers jokes about his chest hair. Here, readers tell us whether they like their men hairy-chested, bare-chested, or somewhere in between. "Personally, I'm not into guys with hair sweaters. I don't want my men...

Meet Cosmo's shirtless olympic hunk.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)
March 1, 2006... Welcome to Cosmo's first-ever Shirtless Guy Issue (you could call it our chest issue every). As you flip through our bonanza of bare-chested babes, check out our interview (page 174) with speed-skating star Apolo Anton Ohno, whom we caught up...

Stud alert! stud alert!.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)
March 1, 2006... It's time to begin our 2006 Bachelor Quest. So if you think you know the most irresistible single guy in your state--nominate him. Just send two color photos (one hat-free head shot and one full-length body shot) along with a letter including...

Things I didn't know till this issue.(Behind the Scenes at Cosmopolitan)
March 1, 2006... Most young couples who have been together three-plus years will put off breaking up for a year, even if the union is doomed (page 48). If you want to mellow out fast, changing your clothes after work creates a natural transition from job...

What's sexy now: Cosmo presents everything that'll make headlines this month.(Cosmo News)
March 1, 2006... SUPERSIZE SPIRALS One of this season's foxiest hairstyles is big, bouncy curls. And we mean all-out, full and flirty, B-I-G. It's just so glamorous. The key to creating them: a 1-inch-barrel curling iron. ARM-BAND JEWELRY Buh-bye,...

Hilary Duff Hollywood's most wanted: Lizzie McGuire has grown into one hot chick. In this revealing, interview, she talks about her new look, her boyfriend, and her big plans for the future.(interview)(Interview)
March 1, 2006... Dressed in a demure long-sleeve black sweater and jeans, her honey-colored hair pushed back with a peach ribbon that's fashioned to function like a headband, Hilary Duff, 18, looks like the ultimate girl next door. But don't let her wholesome...

Hot hue duo: pink and green.(Beauty Beat)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... This combo works with all skin tones and couldn't be prettier for spring GLAMMED-UP GLOSS The soft, pale pink pearlescence of Nars Orgasm Lip Gloss, $23, is sexy as hell... on everyone. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] SWANKY SHADOW...

Breakup procrastination: dragging out a doomed relationship seems silly, not to mention agonizing, Cosmo looks at why people do it.(COSMO NEWS)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... On November 23, 2005, America's favorite Newlyweds, Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey, announced They were separating after three years of marriage. But according to inside sources, their relationship really ended about a year prior to that....

Celebs buckle up: the secret to great style is a cinch: Simply add a belt.(Style Stakeout)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... JESSICA BIEL Jessica has earned herself a black belt in style. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] KEIRA KNIGHTLEY Keira's trendy belt holds her casual look together, [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] BEYONCE The pop princess belts out...

Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.(CONFESSIONS)(Letter to the editor)
March 1, 2006... Peek-a-Boobie "I decided to stop for a coffee at my favorite cafe, even though I was rushing to work. As soon as I got inside, I saw my manager and we started talking. The whole time, he was giving me funny looks, but I just figured he was...

Men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever.(GUY CONFESSIONS)
March 1, 2006... Beep Beep, Bye-Bye "When I found out my girlfriend had been cheating on me, I immediately broke up with her. A month later, she called me, begging for forgiveness, and wanted to rekindle our romance. We decided to meet for dinner. When we...

Hot guy blooper of the month.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... "There was a cute girl who lived near a freind of mine, so when I went to his house, I'd try to see her too. One day, she asked me to meet her in the woods. Things heated up, and we started getting it on against a tree. Suddenly, I heard her...

The naked truth: guys without their shirts are great. Guys without their shirts and pant--even better. So feast your eyes, plus find out some interesting tidbits about dude in the nude.(MAN MANUAL)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Nude News Even wonder why you can use your guy's naked body like a human heating blanket on chilly nights? It's because men typically have more heat-generating muscle mass than women--making them feel warm even when you're not. ...

Sly moves that hook him.(guy spy)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... FACT: YOU CAN BOOST HIS INFATUATION BY PRESENTING A CHALLENGE Next time you're on a date, employ these sneaky strategies to ensure your new guy is helplessly attracted to you. * Make him wonder. A dude's more likely to get interested if...

"Why do guys often lose track of time?".(dude brain scan)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... This is another one of those annoying behaviors that can be attributed to gender hardwiring. "The male brain is more compartmentalized than the female brain, so men are more likely to concentrate on the current task and think less about their...

Read between his lines.(guy spy)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... HE SAYS: "I think we should start out as friends." HE MEANS: "I'll sleep with you, but we're not going to date" SOURCE: PAUL L. FAIR, PHD, COAUTHOR OF I'M RIGHT, YOU'RE WRONG, NOW WHAT?

Surprising sex-appeal deflators: sometimes you dampen a man's desire ... even realizing it.(his point of view)
March 1, 2006... * No doubt there are countless things you do that turn your man into a lust-fueled fool (see page 116 for 40 prime examples). But on the flip side, there are also subtle behaviors that abate your allure faster than it takes a pair of Hollywood...

"My mojo-killing mistake".(guys speak out)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... "I thought I had a chance with a cute girl in my class... until we got our exams back. She looked at my D compared with her A and lost interest." --Junior Desinor "I decided to cook a romantic chicken dinner for a date. Unfortunately, she...

What women dislike in bed.(cosmo for your guy)
March 1, 2006... If there's one thing you don't want your girl griping about, it's your sexual performance. Find out what she finds annoying in the sack... and how to fix it. Scrimping on Foreplay Sure, you're eager to get to the main event, but the...

Most women want to be with their guy 24/7.(Myth of the Month)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... "Just because I like being with a guy doesn't mean I want him taking up all of my free time. I have friends, family, and a career that are equally as important to me." --Melissa, 29 "I love my guy, but I start to take him for granted...

6 things I learned about celebs this week: access Hollywood weekend coanchor Shaun Robinson gives Cosmo the inside scoop.(informer)
March 1, 2006... 1 TV star Nicole Richie doesn't watch any television, except for Lost, which is her must-see show. 2 There's one celeb couple who can't get enough of each other. in order to spend more time with hubby Antonio Banderas, Melanie Griffith...

Paging the Love Doctor: answers to your most probing questions about celeb relationships from Beverly Hills psychotherapist Bella Dishell.(informer)
March 1, 2006... Q: How good or bad is it for a couple to work together?. Love Doctor: Understanding each other's work experiences can bring two people closer--it enables partners to be more supportive. But to prevent driving each other nuts, they should...

Perfect matches: the sexiest way to play up your lips these days? Coordinate them with your dress.(informer Beauty)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... PIPER PERABO We give this red-hot look the green light. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] EVA LONGORIA Eva's motto: Grin and wear it. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] CHARLIZE THERON This subdued color combo still makes a bold...

Cosmo's chest test: match the star with his amazing upper body. When in doubt, go with your gut!(informer)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Jesse Metcalfe Ryan Phillippe Jamie Foxx Owen Wilson Taye Diggs Orlando Bloom (A) Abs-olutely scrumptious [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] (B) In the buff... almost [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] (C) These sure...

Sandra Oh: fun fearless female.(informer)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... BABE BIO Age: 34 Hometown: Nepean, Ontario, Canada Current gig: Playing Dr. Cristina Yang on Grey's Anatomy CRISTINA COMPARISON "I'm like Cristina in that I'm determined. I'm honest and forthright, and even if something I...

10 white-hot new styles.(COSMO SHOPPING)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Mari 1 Chic Shades Payless, $10 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 2 Everything Eyelet Ashley B by Bernardo, $99 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 3 Chain-Link Accessories Gerard Yosca, $52 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 4 Crisp Shorts DKNY Jeans...

Spring Fling!(COSMO SHOPPING: RUNWAY REPORT)(Spring fashion)
March 1, 2006... What top trend is tempting you most? Dizzying patterns in hipster hues? Fabulous flamenco? Garden garb? A khaki kaleidoscope? Give in to your urges and wear one... or all of them. BOLD AND BRIGHT Belt, Frank and Kahn, $55 ...

Rocking ruffles.(COSMO SHOPPING: TREND TIP SHEET)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Want his head to turn so fast, he'll get whiplash? Fill your closet with the latest crop of hot-off-the-runway ruffles. They're frilly, flowy, and best of all, super flirty. Skirt, Sara Feinberg, $200, sarafeinberg.com [ILLUSTRATION...

Piercing eyes + sweet cheeks.(CELEB LOOK)(cosmetics)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Hotties Sienna Miller and Naomi Watts recently showed off a slammin' makeup combo of sultry eyes and peachy cheeks. To crib it: First rim your upper and lower lash lines with a sharp black pencil. We like Revlon ColorStay Eyeliner Pencil in...

"Lost's" lock look.(Beauty News)(Bumble and Bumble Surf Spray)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... The gorgeous ladies of the hit show Lost always manage to look both windswept and totally sexy. Their secret? Janice Clark, the show's hair stylist, scrunches Bumble and Bumble Surf Spray, $18, into their manes. The salt-infused styler creates...

Cult cream.(Beauty News)(Creme de la Mer)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Jennifer Lopez and Kimora Lee Simmons have both fessed up to slathering posh face potion Creme de la Mer (it's $125 for 1 ounce!) all over their arms and legs. Now they can save a few bucks, since a body version debuts this month--it's $195 for...

Ace lip loot.(Beauty News)(Serena Williams)(Flirt! Cosmetics)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Beauty accessories are getting even more blinged out. Tennis pro Serena Williams just designed a set of jeweled lip gloss charm necklaces for Flirt! Cosmetics ($12.50 each). Word is, she stayed up all night mixing colors together to come up...

Killer cleavage key.(Beauty News)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... For a beaming bust, try this pre-awards show trick: Smooth an exfoliating serum on your chest the night before a big evenlt to get rid of dull skin. We like Bliss Sleeping peel, $60.

Star softening secret.(Beauty News)(skin care)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... The new A-lister craze? Beauty loot that protects skin and hair from hard water. Star stylist Jonathan Antin has created Beauty Water Shower Purification System, $95, a shower attachment that filters out impurities like chlorine. And celeb derm...

The wavy blowback.(HOT LOOK)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Celebs loved the sleek blowback last year. Now J.Lo is sporting it, but with soft curls. Her stylist, Oribe, suggests wrapping 2-inch sections of dry hair around large Velcro rollers. At your hairline, roll the sections away from your face....

Frizz-fighting tips.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Rain can wreak havoc on hair. We asked NYC salon owner Ted Gibson for strand-smoothing tips. * Apply a silicone styler to damp locks. "It'll create a barrier between your mane and the moisture." * Blow-dry with a nozzle attachment, aiming...

Revive limp locks.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... If your hair falls flat at the end of the day, here's a simple way to give it a major boost, courtesy of Nick French, Matrix stylist. Flip your head over, shake out your strands, then spritz your roots with hair spray. Remain upside down...

How to fix an at-home hair snafu.(Color Tips)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... If your DIY dye job went awry, try these solutions from George Reus, color designer at Frederic Fekkai in NYC. PROBLEM Your do is waaay too dark. SOLUTION Wash your mane with a clarifying shampoo right away. It will lift some...

Bedtime beautifiers.(Beauty Loot)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... These get-gorgeous goods, best used in the evening, will add a touch of sultriness to your boudoir. Hot Body Dust The Lovely Sarah Jessica Parker Powder Puff, $25, is a perfect addition to your lingerie get-up. Plus, it has notes of...

Everlasting primpers.(Beauty Loot)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... If your prettifying products call it quits way before you do, you'll love these last-all-day finds. PROBLEM Springtime allergies can wreak havoc on you and your eyeliner--in the form of smudging, smearing, and running. SOLUTION...

Beauty q&a: every month, we answer a bunch of your questions.
March 1, 2006... Q Does hair stop growing at a certain length? A "Depending on your genes, your hair will stop growing at a particular length," says David H. Kingsley, PhD, hair and scalp specialist. Some manes might make it past 24 inches, while others...

Sexy hair secrets: there's one lock look that is always in style: a healthy, shiny, magnificent mane. Find out how to get it no matter what you subject your strands to every day.(COSMO BEAUTY BOOK)
March 1, 2006... Glossy hair that begs to be touched is undeniably alluring. But unless you're genetically blessed, getting lush locks can be a catch-22. Chances are, you assault yours with brushes, blow-dryers, flatirons, hot rollers, and dyes or bleaches in...

Redirect your lip service.(BLOW-HIS-MIND TIP)(kissing)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Never underestimate the power of some off-road lip travel. Next time you're feeling frisky, try this unexpected kissing detour: Gently circle your guy's neck with soft pecks and light nibbles, moving from just behind the ear (a supersensitive...

Get him to hang in bed with you.(HOW TO ...)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... These strategies will encourage your man to linger under the covers with you for longer than usual. Prep Him in the PM Ask your man if he has any a.m. obligations, and if his schedule is open, request some snuggle time. "This way, you...

"Sports rule our social life.".(SPAT OF THE MONTH)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... The hard truth: Trying to come between your man and his sports will likely backfire. "Instead, ask him to make up for the couple time you're missing out on," says psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of Calling in "The One." For...

What he's feeling during sex: the trick to maxing out your man's sensations: understanding the four stages of arousal that rock his bod--and his brain--during the deed.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... Question: Wouldn't you love to crawl inside his head and body--to find out exactly what sex feels like from a dude's point of view? Not only would this insight satisfy that gnawing curiosity, but more important, it'd show exactly how to...

40 girlie moves that make guys melt: believe it or not, your man is entranced by the sweet, sexy, and yes, semicrazy chick behavior you display. Allow these dudes to elaborate....(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... There are tons of things you do every day that men love. They're usually the simple, feminine behaviors that come naturally to you, like the way you primp for a night out or call your guy by a cute pet name. But rather than allow them to keep...

Female habits that work their nerves.(GUYS CONFESS)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... * "My girlfriend dresses up in the skimpiest clothes in the dead of winter. The second we get outside, she's freezing and expects me to give her my coat. Why should I have to suffer?"--Doug, 22 * "Girls assume guys know when we've done...

Take sex to a deeper level: indulging in an intensely intimate carnal connection bonds you tighter to your guy ... and boosts your body Here's how to make all that good stuff happen.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... Animalistic sack session belong waaay up on every Cosmo girl's gotta-have-it list. But Slow, soulful encounters shouldn't get second billing just because they don't leave cracks in the bedroom walls. "'This kind of sex is deeper than connecting...

The pleasure map to his chest: you may already know how to get a rise out of your man below the belt, but to make him really ache with desire, you have to aim higher. Our fold-out guide on how to touch, tease, and tantalize his torso will teach you to do just that.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... NECK To fire up your guy's desire, place your lips just below his Adam's apple and gently suck. Your mouth will be stimulating his thyroid gland, which, according to ancient Chinese medicine, closely corresponds to his package. INNER...

Have fun with him for free: when you factor in dinner, drinks, and a movie, the bill for a night out adds up fast. Here, 20 brilliant date ideas that won't cost a dime.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... * Park your car in a secluded place and make out like horny high schoolers. Crank slow jazz, roll back the seats, and fog up those windows, baby! * Pull a TomKat and snuggle up on the sidelines at a peewee sporting event. (Touchy-feely...

Not-so-average-Joes.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... These guys may not be Brad Pitt-perfect, but the women in their lives gushed to Cosmo about why they deserve to be ogled too. "His childhood surgery scars are special. They keep him from having a six-pack, but his five-and-a-half-pack is...

Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru.(LOVE AND LUST)
March 1, 2006... [Q] Is it really true that a guy will like you better if you play hard to get? I kind of feel like if he really likes you, it won't matter if you agree to a last-minute date or if you return his phone call right away. What do you think? ...

Bedroom blog: one woman dishes about her sexy (sometimes dramatic) dating adventures.(LOVE AND LUST)(Fictional work)
March 1, 2006... * The story so far: Last month, Derrick was eager to be forgiven for hooking up with K.'s two least favorite people behind her back and then lying about it. But K., our favorite fictious blogger, wasn't having it. Desperate for distraction, she...

The truth about egg donation: you may think giving some of your eggs to an infertile couple is a simple, selfless thing to do. But the procedure poses risks.(REAL-LIFE READS)
March 1, 2006... Chances are, you've come across egg donation ads online and in the back of some magazines and college newspapers. You know the ones: They feature heart-wrenching headlines about what a "beautiful experience" donation is and how you'll be...

The partying habit that can put you in danger: drinking is part of life for many 20somethings. But beware: There's one boozing practice that makes you vulnerable to all kinds of bad things. Let Cosmo fill you in before you fill 'er up.(WHAT YOU'RE DYING TO KNOW ABOUT)(drinking games)
March 1, 2006... It's no secret that kicking back with friends over a couple rounds of beer pong or quarters can be a blast. Thing is, if you look past the playful competition and fun social scene that these and other drinking games inspire, you'll find some...

The rise in girl-on-girl hookups: Cosmo takes a look at why more and more young, straight women are starting to experiment with bisexuality.(WHAT YOU'RE DYING TO KNOW ABOUT)
March 1, 2006... * Girlfriends have always formed tight bonds with each other. But lately, a growing number of straight chicks are doing their bonding in bed. A recent study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that 14 percent of women in...

Savor being naked.(PLEASURES)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Ditching your duds and chilling au naturel can feel so good. Here, three ways to achieve bliss in the buff. SLIP ON Certain fabrics can feel like pure heaven against bare SOMETHING skin. "Cashmere and silk are made of very...

Jam for joy.(QUICK LIFT)(music and moods)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Okay, admit it: You've been known to chime in with Kelly Clarkson on the radio or belt out your favorite tune in the shower... and you've probably noticed that letting loose a few chords feels pretty damn fantastic. In fact, a University...

Tranquil breath trick.(PLEASURES)(relaxation)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... To mellow out, have your guy place one hand on top of your head and the other between your shoulder blades. "These points are chakras, energy centers where nerve channels converge," says Kath Robinson, a massage therapist in Washington, D.C....

How to love Your time alone: even the most social chicks occasionally find themselves flying solo. Take full advantage with these party-of-one tips and tricks.
March 1, 2006... Sure, you may have a guy in the picture and/or a ton of friends, but regardless, there are still going to be times when you have no one to hang with but yourself. It could be one of those weekends when everyone's out of town or a random evening...

How to handle any alone moment: there will be times when being a lone ranger feels a wee bit awkward This guide will help you get through some classic solitary situations.
March 1, 2006... At a Restaurant Sit at the counter/bar, where you can watch the chefs or bartenders at work--presto, instant activity. Pius, you don't have to stare at an empty seat across from you. Force yourself not to bring any props, like books or...

Conversation starters: find yourself in a room full of strangers? These hints will help break the ice pronto.(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... USE COMPLIMENTS: It's hard to ignore someone who's stroking your ego, right? You can begin chatting with a stranger by simply praising her on her terrific hair or funky jewelry. Just make sure you're not too gushy. BE AN OBSERVER. Turn to...

Fun stuff to do at home by yourself: Whether it's a slow Saturday night or a rainy Sunday, here's how to max out hanging at your pad.(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... 1 Make a full dinner out of wine and cheese. Beaujolais-Villages and Barbera are light, fruity, and bring out the fromage perfectly. 2 Plan a day or weekend trip online--for instance, white-water rafting with your man, antiquing with your...

Why guys make more money: experts say men often earn the big bucks not because they're male but because they're strategic. Here, five think-like-a-dude tactics.(YOU YOU YOU)
March 1, 2006... There is no doubt that young women are kicking ass in today's business world. "Their abilities to multitask, trust their instincts, and build strong relationships with colleagues make women desirable employees," says Linda Babcock, PhD, author...

5 things to do during an awkward silence.(employee-employer relations)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Look at it differently. If you sit there thinking He's stopped talking because he's pissed, you'll get spooked. But if you tell yourself He's just considering the options, you'll tolerate the silence far better. Concentrate on your...

Do you have a bad-girl side?(COSMO QUIZ)
March 1, 2006... Every Cosmo reader gives in to devilish urges now and then... but do you cave too often? Find out. (1) Ever wind up flirting with your friends' boyfriends? a. Occasionally--but it's all in good fun, and you're careful not to overdo...

Bad-girl hall of shame: these babes are notorious for their wicked antics.(television and movie characters)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... EDIE BRITT (Nicollette Sheridan) from Desperate Housewives: Part trampy, part vampy, she preys on her neighbors' men. JULIE COOPER (Melinda Clarke) from The OC: If awards were given for being a manipulative gold digger, Julie would have a...

What a jerk! Just hope karma takes care of these backstabbers.(YOUR WORK LIFE)
March 1, 2006... * "At happy hour one evening, my coworker Lena and I were talking about how we thought this guy we work with, Matt, was gay. A couple of days later, Matt started acting cold toward me. I found out that Lena told him I was spreading rumors...

4 get-ahead tips.(TRICK OF THE MONTH)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... Have an idol. Ask someone you admire how to excel. "They will want to help you succeed," says Meg Kinney, designer and founder of Meg boutiques. Take risks. "If you only set goals you know you can attain, you'll never exceed them,"...

Dealing with a breakup on the job.(WORK & LOVE)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... SCENARIO You and your guy split up, and you don't want to lose it at work. BOO-HOO You're totally devastated. Here's how to focus. Hang a photo of yourself having fun with pals and state at it if you're about to cry. It'll bring your...

When you're powerless.(STRESS SOS)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... It's aggravating when something important or painful is out of your hands--such as when your ex starts dating again or you miss a flight. "It's natural to fret when you feel helpless," says Virginia P. Williams, PhD, coauthor of In Control,...

"What is a healthy level of stress?".(Q&A)(Brief article)
March 1, 2006... "It varies from person to person. But typically, if you're feeling overwhelmed for more than a few days, your anxiety level is too high," says Jay Winner, MD, author of Stress Management Made Simple. "Life is full of crazy moments--rushing to...