Cosmopolitan articles from June 2006

Cosmopolitan archives from June 2006

Everything Cosmo: get in the know.... Here, you'll find the latest scoop on everything really cool going on in Cosmoworld.
June 1, 2006... WHAT'S HOT ON cosmopolitan.com Who knew surfing the Web could be so damn sexy? (1) Style Secrets Ever been shopping and think something is cute but don't buy it because you have no clue how to wear it? Never again! Check out our...

Heavenly seven.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "Thanks so much for '7 Ways to Make Him Ache for You.' My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, and sometimes it's hard to find new ways to keep him interested in me. This article helped put the spark back in our...

Sweet dreams.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... I had been having an extremely difficult time getting to sleep, so 'Fall Asleep, Finally' was exactly what I needed to read. Thanks to the tips in this article, now when I go to bed, I can actually get a full night's rest." --Liz Langille,...

Lindsay's limelight.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "I thought what Lindsay Lohan said about being a role model for her sister was right on target. Whether or not she ever had an eating disorder is not what's important. What does matter though is that she realized she's creating an image that...

Dangerous liaisons.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "I was really impressed with 'I Was Raped by My Crush.' I felt like I was reading my own diary. Rape is usually portrayed as an attack by a stranger, even though statistics say acquaintance rape is more common. I was afraid to tell anyone I was...

Gut-busting tales.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "The 'Confessions Blowout' was great! These stories were hilarious, and the confessions are always a good laugh. Can't wait for more!" --Emily Ruth, Kentucky

In the clear.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "Your article 'Never Get a Zit Again' was so helpful. I'm constantly wondering why I still get pimples all the time. It drives me totally insane! Now at least I know that stress plays a big role in adult acne. I can't say enough about how much...

Attitude adjustment.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "Your quiz 'How Competitive Are You?' was meant for me. Sometimes I worry about being too competitive and aggressive, and the questions and answers really helped me put things in perspective. I also laughed out loud at the end where there were...

Split decision.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... RANT "I thought 'Pregnant Chicks Who Brag Too Much' put down pregnant women. I'm expecting, and it's been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Some pregnant women take bragging too far, but we can't help talking about our...

Guy test-drive: one man mouths off about the April issue of Cosmo.(YOU TELL US)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "Your guy guru, Jonathan Small ('Ask Him Anything'), was right on the nose about why guys don't call after one-night stands.... We like the chase! 'Sex Goddess Secrets' deserves a 'hell yeah!' The tip about planting the seed of desire in the...

What I've learned at Cosmo.(Editorial)
June 1, 2006... When you have a job like editor-in-chief of Cosmo, you discover that people want to know what you know. I admit, I've learned a ton in the eight years I've been here--about everything from sex to love to office politics. I put my 86 favorite...

Welcome to hottiewood! This summer, a slew of scrumptious male celebs will be on your radar. Check out the six you'll be fantasizing about through fall--and why.(COSMO NEWS)
June 1, 2006... Kanye West ON TOUR THIS SUMMER * Talk about confidence: "It would be such a shame for me to quit making music because I'm just so good," he told one reporter. * He currently dates a girl with a "regular" job. All of womankind has...

Stars in stripes: lately, celebs all over Hollywood have been lining up to get this look.(COSMO NEWS: Style Stakeout)
June 1, 2006... SIENNA MILLER Sienna always manages to walk the fashion line. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] GARCELLE BEAUVAIS-NILON A formfitting wrap style gives stripes a sexy spin. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] KIMBERLY STEWART Three...

The scent of the season: coconut: channel your inner beach babe and go loco for coco. The insanely intoxicating aroma is everywhere at the moment.(COSMO NEWS: Beauty Beat)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... ISLAND ALL-INCLUSIVE Traveling? Save 'case space with a triple-threat treat like Philosophy Sweet Coconut Milk Shampoo, Shower Gel, and Bubble Bath, $16. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] PINA COLADA POUT Swipe on Urban Decay Slick Pot...

The danger of his dude posse: now it's not just another woman who can rupture a relationship. His crew can wreak havoc too.(COSMO NEWS)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... No woman in her right mind expects a guy to ditch his buddies just because he's half a couple. But there's a point where a man's allegiance to his entourage becomes a threat to your relationship. Take Kevin Federline, whose...

Keri Russell: "I love guys who have a sense of humor and who are honest about their feelings when they're upset.".(COSMO NEWS: Star of the Hour)(Interview)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Age: 30 Hometown: Mesa, Arizona, and Denver Where you've seen her: Felicity, The Upside of Anger Current gig: Mission: Impossible 3 * For four years, we watched Keri Russell endure everything from heart-wrenching breakups to bad haircuts as...

Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.(CONFESSIONS)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... Groom With a View "The weekend of my best friend's wedding was really busy for me because I was the maid of honor. The day before the wedding, the bridal party went to a spa to get a bunch of relaxing treatments. At the last minute, I...

Catty move of the month: readers rate this shocking tale.(CONFESSIONS)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "A week after breaking up with me, my ex called me, looking for his prized basketball jersey. I told him I had no idea where it was, but I had actually sold it online for a really good price."--Brianne, 24 * "He shouldn't get the jersey...

Men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... On the Rebound "I had recently broken up with my girlfriend and knew a girl I liked would be at my college's basketball game, so I went. As soon as I arrived, I made sure I got a seat in the stands by her group of friends. During the game,...

Hot guy blooper of the month.(GUY CONFESSIONS)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "I was supposed to meet a girl at a mall for a blind date and got there early because I was excited. She never showed, so I got upset and left. On my way home, I called and left her a nasty message about not standing up people. Later, I found...

Is he looking for sex--or love? To tell if a guy is only interested in a one-night stand or something more serious, you have to learn to read the unspoken signs.(MAN MANUAL)
June 1, 2006... HE'S LOOKING FOR SEX... If he half smiles. There's a good chance this guy just wants a no-strings summer fling. "A sneerlike grin is an indication that he's not being sincere with you," points out body-language expert Patti Wood....

Signs he's on the rebound: there's no point in dating a dude who's already spoken for emotionally. Behold the clues that he may be hung up on his ex.(MAN MANUAL: guy spy)
June 1, 2006... * He wants an instant girlfriend. A guy who's still pining for his last partner will often want to couple up--fast. Seems odd, but he's driven to recreate the commitment level of the last relationship because he's seeking comfort and wants to...

"Why can't they ever plan ahead"?(dude brain scan)
June 1, 2006... Truth time: Guys like to keep their options open. "Women find it frustrating when a man won't lock in a date ahead of time, but in his mind, there's no point," says Morley D. Glicken, PhD, author of Ending the Sex Wars: A Woman's Guide to...

Read between his lines.(MAN MANUAL: guy spy)
June 1, 2006... HE SAYS: "I'm not ready for a relationship." HE MEANS: "I am ready but you're not the right person." SOURCE: PAUL L. FAIR, PHD, COAUTHOR OF I'M RIGHT. YOU'RE WRONG. NOW WHAT?

Tell him this sexy stuff: some naughty secrets are meant to be shared with your man.(MAN MANUAL: his point of view)
June 1, 2006... ** Okay, so your guy knows you're not immune to having impure thoughts, but he may not realize how much of a minx you really are. So give him a peek into that dirty mind of yours by confessing the following four things. You Go Commando ...

"She shouldn't tell me" ...(guys speak out)
June 1, 2006... "I had been hooking up with this woman who told me she was really into sucking on guys' toes. After hearing that, it was hard to kiss her." --Dan Slotnik "I really liked this chick I'd just started seeing. That is, until she happened...

Guy without his shirt: check out this month's half-naked hunk.(MAN MANUAL)
June 1, 2006... Name: Domenique Melchior Age: 24 Height: 6 feet Weight: 160 pounds Sign: Sagittarius Hometown: Vienna, Austria Favorite thing: "Soccer. There's nothing like it. The teamwork, the intense rush you get out on the...

What you do to bum her out.(SHOW THIS TO YOUR MAN)
June 1, 2006... * Sometimes you can piss off your girl without even knowing it. To prevent any future "What'd I do?" moments, steer clear of these slightly insensitive (at least to her) moves. Forgetting Stuff We know it's hard to focus when your...

She'd always prefer you to initiate sex.(Myth of the Month)
June 1, 2006... "There are many times when I actually want to be the aggressor. Nothing makes me feel sexier than taking control and showing my man how it's supposed to be done," --Laurie, 23 "My guy's been so stressed these days that if I waited for...

6 things I learned about celebs this week: Access Hollywood weekend coanchor Shaun Robinson gives Cosmo the inside scoop.(informer)
June 1, 2006... [1] George Clooney has a new good-luck charm. He told me that his father sent him his late Uncle George's cuff links, and wearing them to the Academy Awards paid off: He won an Oscar! [2] Jessica Alba just got a ladybug tattoo on the back...

Paging the Love Doctor.(informer)
June 1, 2006... Answers to your most probing questions about celeb relationships from Beverly Hills psychotherapist Bella Dishell (Q:) Orlando and Kate are rumored to be living together. Is moving in before marriage a good idea? Love Doctor: Some...

Celeb breakovers.(informer)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Divorce may be ugly for some people... but not these stars! They've gotten sexier since parting ways with their hubbies. MENA SUVARI Mena uncovers her-smokin' side by replacing bangs and baggy dresses with come-hither blond curls and...

Sweet and low-down.(informer)
June 1, 2006... Leave it to Hollywood... five pairs of dangerously low-slung pants and not a love handle in sight. JARED LETO Well, it's safe to say Jared goes commando. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] JOHNNY DEPP Gotta love this pirate's...

Blushing beauties.(informer Beauty)
June 1, 2006... Bold, rosy cheeks are all the rage on the red carpet these days. REESE WITHERSPOON Everything's been rosy for this Oscar winner lately. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] RACHEL BILSON She's so cute, maybe someone pinched them! ...

Party pix.(informer)
June 1, 2006... Lindsay Lohan looks distracted while chatting with Salma Hayek. Did a hot guy just pass by? [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Aaron Eckhart: "Halle, want to star in my new movie? We can call it Thank You for Looking Smokin'." [ILLUSTRATION...

Fun fearless male: Lang Lang.(informer)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... "Sometimes I'll play some really challenging music to impress a girl. It's only human nature to show off what you're good at!" VITAL STATS Age: 23 Hometown: Shenyang, China Current gig: Traveling around the world as a...

10 sizzling summer brights.(COSMO SHOPPING)(Buyers guide)
June 1, 2006... 1 A Notice-Me Necklace Victoria's Secret Catalogue, $35, victoriassecret.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 2 A Vibrant Top Armani Exchange, $68, armaniexchange.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 3 Spunky Shorts Kenzie Girl, $50...

Hippie chic.(COSMO SHOPPING: TREND TIP SHEET)
June 1, 2006... You'll want to hang loose in this season's all-natural threads. They're neutral and low-key, but they're decked out with dazzling details like shells, tassels, and crochet. Top, Margaret Loves Peter, $140 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ...

Asian fusion.(COSMO SHOPPING: RUNWAY REPORT)
June 1, 2006... You don't have to globe-trot to get a taste of fab Far East fashion. Just snap up these spicy hues, graphic prints, and killer kimonoesque shapes. Shorts, Victoria's Secret Catalogue, 529, victoriassecret.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ...

Looks that flatter everyone.(COSMO SHOPPING: OUTFIT ADVICE)
June 1, 2006... Certain cuts do a great job of enhancing assets and concealing flaws, no matter what your body type. Wrap Dresses Jones New York, $134 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Esprit, $79, esprit.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ella Moss,...

Devilish goodies.(Beauty News)
June 1, 2006... This month's flick The Devil Wears Prada has spawned exclusive Sephora beauty gear, including a tote, Oscar Blandi hair stylers, and--of course--a Prada scent set. Our fave: a Dior makeup trio, $50, modeled after Anne Hathaway's chic look in...

Quick beauty boost.(Beauty News)
June 1, 2006... The posh, UK-based Elemis Spa (a haunt of Naomi Campbell's) is offering 30-minute facials at select Nordstroms across America. It costs just $35--way less than a normal spa metapore-phosis. Can't make it to the mall? Check out Elemis Cellular...

Hilary's hot eyes.(CELEB LOOK)
June 1, 2006... How sexy are Hilary Duff's pewter lids? We know, right? To crib: Load a brush with gray shadow, then swirl it in circles from your lash line to your crease, says Efrat, an NYC makeup artist. The "now" thing is to blend some shadow under your...

A-list lip loot.(Beauty News)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Ever wonder how Lindsay Lohan manages to always look stunning in those late-night party photos? We got the scoop that she loves Liparazzi lip gloss, $25. Not only is the formula supershiny, but the packaging has a mirror and--get this--a tiny...

Star guinea pigs.(Beauty News)
June 1, 2006... Believe it or not, top strand stylists often employ their celebrity clientele as testers when creating new hair potions because, well, who's pickier? For example, this past winter, mane master Kevin Mancuso auditioned his just-out mask Kiehl's...

Sultry side bangs.(Cosmo Hair)
June 1, 2006... Take a cue from Charlize Theron and Drew Barrymore and go for peekaboo fringe. To do: Create a deep side part, then mist your roots with hair spray while they are damp--it'll freeze them in place, says Matrix celebrity stylist Enzo Angileri,...

Lasting spiral trick.(Cosmo Hair)
June 1, 2006... If you create curls with an iron, make them last longer by misting each section of hair with an aerosol hair spray before you coil it up. Hint: Let the spray dry first so the barrel doesn't get sticky.

Savvy strand secret.(Cosmo Hair)
June 1, 2006... For an extraglossy mane, squeeze a blob of styling cream into your palms, then "clap" sections of hair between your hands and slide downward. By shellacking the styler on the outer and inner layers, the shine will be concentrated on the locks...

Slash your styling time.(Cosmo Hair)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... A new crop of shampoos can actually shorten your styling sessions. Here's how: "The high-tech ingredients star off the straightening, curling, or volumizing process while you are still in the shower," says Paul Gambutti, stylist at Salon A-K-S...

The new blonds.(Clairol Inc. Health and Beauty Appliances Div.)(Garnier Fructis)(L'Oreal S.A.)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Now is the best time to get a sun-kissed hair hue, which will look hot with your (faux) tan. Here, NYC salon owner Antonio Prieto dishes about the most sizzling new shades and spills a few secrets for how you can cop them yourself at home. ...

Sensual spa treats.(Beauty Loot)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Turn your bathroom into a seaside sanctuary with these pampering products. Beachy Body Scrub The algae oil in AquaTanica Spa Detoxifying Sea Salt Scrub and Soak, $24.50, will soften your bod. PS: The scooper is a cute shell! ...

Sun-day solutions: here are six ingenious ways to overcome common sun-protection conundrums.(Beauty Loot)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... PROBLEM Sunscreen alone may not shield you enough when you're planning on spending the whole day outside--especially during those ray-diant afternoon hours. SOLUTION Sport a superchic broad-brim boater like the Coolibar Seaside...

Beauty Q&A.
June 1, 2006... Every month, we answer a bunch of your burning beauty questions. Q I'm African-American, and my hair is long and very thick and curly. What are the best products for me? A Look for stylers that contain glycerin, suggests stylist James...

20 ways to be hot all summer.(COSMO BEAUTY BOOK)
June 1, 2006... These head-turning beauty tricks will ensure you're the sexiest mama around. 1 Punch Up Your Pucker Vibrant lips are a hit this summer. So what are you waiting for? Go for a sheer gloss version. Our picks: MAC Lustreglass in Budding,...

"He has no game plan for his life.".(SPAT OF THE MONTH)
June 1, 2006... You may be surprised to discover that his apathy isn't necessarily a lack of ambition. "Young men today often want to skip all the entry-level work and go straight to being a huge success," says Michael Kimmel, PhD, author of Manhood in...

How to ... teach him to be more tender: when he was wooing you, your guy was so sweet. These days, not so much. Get back the affection you crave with this advice.(COUPLES)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Customize His Skill Set "Men often don't intuitively know how to make you feel cared for," says Barton Goldsmith, PhD, author of Emotional Fitness for Couples. So tell him you need a neck rub or an empathic ear. Then encourage the behavior...

Admire yourself in front of him.(BLOW-HIS-MIND TIP)
June 1, 2006... Scenario: It's morning, and you're in the bathroom... naked. Then you feel it: His eyes are on you. Rather than flash him a knowing smile, ignore his gaze and check your reflection in the mirror. Then smooth your hands over your torso, or if...

Cosmo's Aqua Kama Sutra: this is a sexy sneak peek at passion positions excerpted from our latest book. To get the pleasure play started, just add water.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * When we introduced our Cosmo Kama Sutra book last year, with 77 illustrations and instructions on the most mind-blowing sex positions imaginable, we knew it would be a big hit, but we didn't know how big. (It made the Wall Street Journal and...

Guy talk vs. girl talk: the secret to really understanding each other: bonding with your man means getting your communication styles in sync during everyday moments. We have the tricks you need to click when it counts.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * You know that good communication is the key to a great relationship. You've heard it, okay, on these very pages. But here's something that may surprise you. It's not the big moments when being tuned in is most important; it's the way you...

Blind dates don't have to suck: follow our tips and you will never again find yourself tangled in a setup from hell. Later, losers!(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * A few years ago, Internet dating seemed like a gift from the matchmaking gods. Where else could a single chick gain access to a gazillion eligible bachelors? Fast-forward to 2006: With so many men misrepresenting themselves online ("Oh, did I...

Thrill every inch of him: these mind-blowing moves will electrify your guy's whole bod and leave him begging for you touch.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * You already know that the male body is a hotbed of feel-good zones, many of which extend far beyond his pelvis. But getting a handle on the right way to stroke, lick, and caress these head-to-toe, hiding-in-plain-sight pleasure points can...

Learn to love his annoying behavior: we show you a mind-shift trick that turns irksome boyfriend traits into blessings in disguise.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * Sometimes it can be hard to see the good in your guy when he's getting on your nerves. "No matter how terrific your man is, he'll have a habit that annoys you," says New York clinical psychologist Alon Gratch, PhD. But believe it or not (we...

When you fall for a guy pal: the "just friends" zone is like relationship quicksand, but you can get out with a few strategic maneuvers.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * So you've buddied up with a guy who is cute, smart, and a blast to be with... such a blast that you realize you like-like him. Problem is, he's happy with you as a platonic pal. Here's how to escape the love-ya-like-a-sister friend zone and...

How clothes make sex hotter: usually, nooky time calls for nakedness. But in Cosmoland, even your wardrobe can get in on the lusty action.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * Think the only purpose clothes serve in a sack session is as an obstacle? Don't be too quick to strip--there are naughty things you can do with your threads that'll heat up a hookup. "Staying partially clad builds anticipation and makes...

5 dating lies not to believe: some women talk themselves into being content with so-so relationships. Learn why that's a very bad idea.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * Ever done this: You meet a perfectly cute, great guy whom you know you should be into, but for some reason, you're not quite one hundred percent excited about him. So you tell yourself you're overanalyzing things and keep going out with him,...

Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru, Jonathan Small.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... Q What's the proper etiquette when it comes to paying on dates? My feeling is, the guy should pay for the first three dates, and then I'll pick up the tab on the fourth. Some of my friends think you should take turns. What do you think? A...

Bedroom blog: one woman dishes about her sexy (sometimes dramatic) dating adventures.(LOVE AND LUST)
June 1, 2006... * The story so far: Last month, K. found out what a drag it is to date a workaholic because Suburbs Guy kept blowing her off. To take her mind off things, K.'s best friend, Sarah, invited her out to meet the ridiculously H-O-T star of an indie...

"The weird way I met the one": as these readers can attest, you never know where and when you'll find your dream guy.(LOVE AND LUST: LOVE STORIES)(Letter to the editor)
June 1, 2006... "Believe it or not, I met my current beau in a public bathroom! I was at a restaurant, waiting in line for the ladies' room, but this old lady was taking freakin' forever. I couldn't hold it anymore, so I ducked into the empty men's room. I...

How to spot a really bad guy: men who are manipulative, violent, and otherwise dangerous are adept at hiding those disturbing characteristics. Renowned psychiatrist Keith Ablow explains what kind of behavior gives them away.(REAL-LIFE READS)
June 1, 2006... When Kathy ** met Brian, she was 31 and recovering from a bad breakup. He was 40, and he too knew something about heartbreak: His wife had not only divorced him but had "poisoned" his two young daughters' minds against him to the point where...

Young love, true love: could a teen romance actually be the real thing? For these pairs, the search for a lasting bond led them back to their first crushes.(REAL-LIFE READS)
June 1, 2006... * Most people write off high school relationships as puppy love--and often, that's what they are. But in some cases, the intense feelings young couples have for each other aren't just raging hormones. Take it from these duos, who realized years...

Why we put stars under the microscope: they say you shouldn't sweat the small stuff, but these days, it's stars' subtlest body language and teeniest life details that get scrutinized. Talk about pressure.(WHAT YOU'RE DYING TO KNOW)
June 1, 2006... * Dishing celebrity gossip has always been a beloved national pastime. Lately though, it seems the ante has been upped. The mass craving for star scoop has become so insatiable that your average juicy tidbit doesn't cut it anymore. It's the...

Cruise control.(QUICK LIFT)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Sure, you may associate your car with traffic or dull highways, but hitting the road actually can be incredibly liberating. The trick: Turn your daily drive into designated "you" time (even if it's 15 minutes) where you can shake off stress,...

Bad-girls moves (that feel sooo good): letting your mischievous side rule can be seriously rewarding. Need proof? Just try these naughty ideas.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... SKIP A CELL Sometimes you flat out don't feel like returning a CALLBACK friend's voice mail. Don't fight it. It's perfectly fine to let it slide and focus on the latest episode of Entourage. When...

Go with the flow.(PLEASURES)
June 1, 2006... Picture this: a stream gushing through the forest, rolling ocean waves, a cascading waterfall. Relaxing, right? "The sound and rhythm of water soothes the autonomic nervous system and releases tension," says Martha Davis, PhD, psychologist at...

The Cosmo girl's guide to milking summer: tank-top-and-margarita season is only three months long, which is why you should juice every moment to the max. And if you have to misbehave a little--so be it.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... Ahhh... summer. The fabulous season when it's perfectly acceptable to ogle shirtless guys like it's a sport, wear your bikini day and night, and play even harder than you work. Problem is, these amazing couple of months seem to come and go...

Call in sick the right way: to avoid getting canned when playing hooky from work, follow our savvy plan.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... Here's a tip: Don't call from the mall. Do It Feigning sickness is much less on a suspicious if, duh, you do it on a day Tuesday other than Friday or Monday. Time It Dial in before the workday starts so...

What your mom's comments mean: sometimes her statements are totally perplexing biting, or flat out irritating. So we decided to clear up a few things for you.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... * There tends to be a communication breakdown between mothers and daughters, says Deborah Tannen, PhD, author of the buzzed-about new book You're Wearing That? Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation. So we had Tannen translate...

When envy eats at a friendship: we tell you how to deal with this ugly emotion before it threatens to come between you and a close pal.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... * We all know what it's like to feel a little envious: Your coworker scores glowing praise from the boss, your roommate gets invited to Tahiti with her boyfriend's family, your sister finds her size on sale--again. But there's a deeper, more...

How trusting are you? Occasionally checking up on your man is smart, but some girls take it to stage-three paranoia. Where do you fall?(YOU YOU YOU: COSMO QUIZ)
June 1, 2006... (1) Your boyfriend is in the shower when his cell rings. The screen reads "Lisa." You: a. Tell him someone named Lisa called and nonchalantly ask who she is. b. Let it go to voice mail.... Whatever. c. Pick it up and demand, "Who...

"My boss is Satan!" These evil supervisors special talent? Terrorizing employees.(YOU YOU YOU: YOUR WORK LIFE)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... * "I used to assist the president of our company. When I'd come in, he'd glance at my outfits and roll his eyes. Once he walked in with a bag of clothes and said, 'Since you don't dress well, here are my wife's old clothes.'"--Marissa, 25 ...

Make Mondays easier.(TRICK OF THE MONTH)(Monday working)(Brief article)
June 1, 2006... Cut down on clutter. On Friday, do simple things like straightening up your desk. "Since your space is organized, coming in won't feel chaotic," says Karen Leland, coauthor of Watercooler Wisdom. Lighten your load. Forget a massive Monday...

Dealing with a jealous boyfriend.(WORK & LOVE)
June 1, 2006... SCENARIO REASON 1 Your guy You have a Work is a huge part of your life, seems envious tendency to so it's natural that you'd want to of your bond talk about share stories with him. To keep him with ...

Why don't you ... give the guy a shot.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... Sticking to your type limits your man-pool, so go out with a new kind of guy, urges Maria Dahvana Headley, author of The Year of Yes, where she chronicles a year of dating anyone who asked her. "You may think you know what you need from a...

Why don't you ... send him a foxy picture.(YOU YOU YOU)
June 1, 2006... Want to make sure you stay on your boyfriend's mind when you're not around? Snatch his camera phone while he's in the shower or out grabbing morning coffee, slip into your favorite sexy outfit-bra-and-underwear set or tank and cute boy...