Cosmopolitan articles from January 2003

Cosmopolitan archives from January 2003

Cosmopolitan.com: get a fun and fabulous daily dose of Cosmo by clicking on.(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Guy Guidance We already help you decipher baffling boy behavior. Now, Cosine for Your Guy, our first exclusive give-to-your-man column, will help your fella figure out the female point of view. This month, we give men a tutorial in how to...

Mesmerizing Molly. (The Cosmo Cover Look)(Cover Story).(Molly Sims)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... COVER-STAR STATS Name: Molly Sims Age: 27 Number of Cosmo covers: 3 Where she lives: New York City and L.A. Career aspirations: "I still host MTV's House of Style, and I filmed my first sitcom appearance as a preacher's...

Cosmo's cover model search. (From The Editor).(Editorial)
January 1, 2003... * Question--and be honest! Have you ever fantasized about being on the cover of Cosmopolitan? Jennifer Love Hewitt once told me that being a Cosmo cower girl was every girl's fantasy. Though I don't have any statistics to back it up, many women...

This month's fun fearless females: the reasons these Cosmo readers live up to the title.(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... Barbara Kavovit, 32 Construction company owner, New York City Fearless factor: "I am in a field with few women because I want to make a difference. As a contractor, I have the experience to educate women so they'll know if someone is...

Bachelor bonanza. (You Tell Us).
January 1, 2003... "I work and go to school full-time, so I never have a chance to go out and meet guys. I am the only single one out of all of my friends. Seeing the available bachelors in the November issue gives me hope. I love the fact that you made their...

Warning to women. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "I would like to commend you on your November article `Could You Be a Predator's Next Target?' I am the father of the missing Rachel Cooke. I would like to reiterate that Rachel and Elizabeth Smart are still missing. If any readers have...

Delicious dudes. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "The `Naked Chefs' (November) were too yummy to leave in the magazine, so my roommates and I ripped 'am out and pasted them all over our kitchen."--Rachel Ballman, London, Ont.

Standing up for heavy hunks. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "I was disappointed in November's 'Hollywood Hard Bodies.' You featured photos of male actors who had lost a little chisel. If any men's magazine did this about women, we'd go crazy. Just because these stars' bodies changed doesn't give us...

Guy test-drive: one man mouths off about November's issue of Cosmo. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "What's Behind the Biggest Male Myths' was right on about blue balls; they really are bad news. But I, for one, don't think Pamela Anderson is hot. I had a calendar of her before she had implants, and she was sexier then. `Read Your Man's Dirty...

Web poll. (You Tell Us).(cheating in relationships)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... November's "What Could Drive a Girl to Cheat" examined the reasons women stray. Then we asked you: Have you ever two-timed a guy?. 87% have. "It wasn't to hurt him; it was to please myself."--Kallie, Cypress, Calif. 13% haven't....

Men uncovered: the secret behind what he sleeps in: now here's a wake-up call you'll love to hear: the threads your guy wears to bed (or doesn't!) can tip you off to his true character, including his sexual cravings, emotional availability, and more. Dive in to this sexy expose--then use your new insights to keep your man up all night. (Man Manual).
January 1, 2003... IF HE SLEEPS IN... PJ BOTTOMS He wants to appear studly but craves coziness. "Comfort is key to him, so he chooses these loose bottoms and likes the unrestricted feeling of his bare chest," says Nancy Butcher, author of How to Make...

His friendships hold clues to your future. (guy spy).
January 1, 2003... Take a close look at your guy's crew to suss out whether you should get serious or show him the door. The crucial questions you need to ask: * Does he have an eclectic circle of friends? Look for a good mix. If some of his cronies have...

Why guys really dump women: make these mating missteps and you'll end up on his least-wanted list. (his point of view).
January 1, 2003... * Yeah, yeah, we know we're not perfect. Far from it. And we don't expect you to be either. But there are some flaws of female behavior we simply can't see past. So if you've ever been ditched and had absolutely no freakin' idea why, it's...

"How did she win you over?" (guys speak out).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "My girlfriend admitted that she had cheated on me. Though it hurt, I value honesty, and her confession actually improved our relationship."--Damian Quinones "I have a killer sweet tooth. I had mentioned it casually to the girl I was...

Guy without his shirt. (Man manual).(Daren Ramphal)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Check out this month's half-naked hunk. Name: Daren Ramphal Age: 21 years old Height: 6 feet Weight: 160 pounds Sign: Sagittarius Hometown: Sarasota, Florida Favorite thing: "I love to skateboard. I've been doing...

Confession of the month. (Cosmo Confessions).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "My friend Becca was always getting drunk and bad-mouthing the girls in our clique. One night we decided to get revenge. On the way home, we stopped at a gas station so Becca could use the bathroom. While she was inside, we took off!"--Jane, 24...

Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets. (Cosmo Confessions).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... get lucky number "I had been dating my boyfriend Kevin for a few months but hadn't had sex with him yet. One drunken night, my friends and I were talking about how many people we'd slept with, and I realized that if I had sex with Kevin,...

Men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scares ever. (Guy Confessions).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... last call "One weekend when my girlfriend was out of town, I stopped by a neighborhood bar for a drink. The bartender, Sharon, was really hot and always flirted with me when I went them. When it got late, Sharon closed up and we had a few...

Good guy or good-for-nothing? (Guy Confessions).(Letter to the Editor)
January 1, 2003... "I was the best man in a wedding, and the maid of honor was all over me. I found out she was telling everyone I was The One, so before I began my toast, I announced that I would never date her."--Steven, 29 heinous 61% forgivable...

Celeb party animals. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).
January 1, 2003... Stars are always the life of every bash, but some are more hard-core than others. We asked you to log on to our Web site to weigh in on who was having the biggest blast. [TOO MUCH FUN] NICK NOLTE [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] [TONS OF...

Hair-raising Hollywood brows: not since Brooke Shields popularized bushy brows back in the early '80s has the untweezed look run so rampant around Tinseltown. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Salma Hayek's character in Frida, about the Mexican artist Frida Kahlo, sported a decidedly unfeminine unibrow. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] We've heard Colin Farrel is unruly, but we had no idea it was a reference to his brows. ...

Cosmo's cover model search. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).
January 1, 2003... Over the years, Cosmo has propelled the careers of models like James King, Holly Anne, and Vanessa Lorenzo. But now it's your turn to steal the spotlight. If you've always fantasized about the becoming a Cosmo cover model, here's your chance....

Friends in high places. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Not every star hangs with all A-listers. See who's still pals with the ordinary people they knew before they hit it big. KIRSTEN DUNST Down-to-earth Kirsten leaves an L.A. bash with her old fiend, college student Molly Hanrahan. ...

Ben drives women wild. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Ben Affleck)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Ben Affleck has always been a fan of baby of blue convertibles (he used to cart Gwyneth around in an old-school Chevy Malibu). And though he's still in the driver's seat these days, the megabucks Bentley belongs to his new honey, J.Lo. ...

Bottoms up! Match the star with her juicy rear view. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).
January 1, 2003... 1. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 2. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 3. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] 4. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] a. Renee Zellweger b. Carmen Electra c. Goldie Hawn d. Pamela Anderson (1) Goldie Hawn; (2) Renee...

Can a long distance love survive? There can be problems but also big payoffs to dating a dude in a different area code. (Dating And Relating Debate).
January 1, 2003... Recently, California resident Gwen Stefani and Londoner Gavin Rossdale tied the knot, proving that an overseas romance can materialize into something serious. The two met backstage at a Los Angeles concert in December 1995 and went back and...

Don't let women suffer a setback: the law that helped create female champions like Marion Jones is under attack. Here the Olympic gold medalist explains why Title IX is so important. (On My Mind).
January 1, 2003... You probably think of me as a runner, but the truth is, I've actually participated in a lot of different sports in my life. When I was a little girl growing up in Los Angeles, I used to play T-ball with the other kids in the neighborhood. I...

Lost libido. (Agony).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... My sexual history consisted of one-night stands until 10 months ago, when I fell in love. Although our sex life was amazing in the beginning, recently my libido has vanished. Could I have unintentionally programmed my body to enjoy only...

Mis(ter)-understood. (Agony).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Guy Question I'm a nice, attractive, intelligent guy, but my last three girlfriends have all dumped me after accusing me of cheating on them. I have never betrayed a girlfriend and have always told the women I've dated that I'm faithful....

Bedroom-bound buddies? (Agony).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... A few months ago, I became friends with this great guy. Eventually, we started to make out, and I've developed serious feelings for him. We're together 24-7, but be doesn't want to have sea(because he's afraid of "hurting the friendship." I...

Bitter and bitchy. (Agony).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... After a series of bad breaks in my life, I've become fairly bitter. As a result, I get jealous of my friends. Every time something good happens for someone, I find a way to make them feel bad about it. I've even gone as far as to sabotage their...

Parental control. (Agony).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Guy Question My girlfriend's mother abused her as a child, so I found counseling for her when she confronted her parents. But now her parents blame me. When I proposed, her parents said if she married me, they would cut her off. I don't...

Trend of the moment. (Cosmo Fashion).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... This season's embellished cotton tops are fancy enough for the office or a night out but feel as fab as your favorite old tee shirt. Top with fringe. To the Max!, $48 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ruched tee shirt, Mak, $24, 877-753-0063...

Fashion finds for under $100. (Style Steals).
January 1, 2003... We've put together complete of-the-moment outfits for every area of your life using items that all cost less than a Benjamin. $75 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $28 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $39 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] $59...

Corduroy crush. (Shopping Tip Sheet).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Comfy, cool cords are now a wear-everywhere wardrobe staple, so scoop them up in multiple colors, from creamy pastels to rich earth tones. Stretch-corduroy pants, Banana Republic, $78, bananarepublic.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] ...

Find your best bra. (Lingerie Lowdown).
January 1, 2003... We've tried on piles of underthings to present you with the best bras out there--no matter what your body type. See below, then check out "The Perfect Bra," on page 136, for more of our favorites. Fab for Small Breasts SUPER STRAPLESS...

How to wear ... a shrunken blazer. (Style Secrets).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Bitsy blazers are big right now, both in casual fabrics like corduroy and in suit-like materials such as wool. Above, the know-how you need to make one of these jackets look just right. PROPER-FIT TIP Your blazer should fit snugly...

Cami-layering. (Hip-chick trick).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... One of the things that sets girls with stellar style apart from the pack is that they know how to layer to create unique looks. One great trick to try now: Give a girlie camisole a more low-key (and winter-appropriate) feel by wearing it over a...

Flattering-pants pointer. (Fashion Fix-It).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Low-waisted pants can present a fit problem for curvy girls: side pockets that pop open when they should lie flat. "Low-waisted pants are cut for boyish bodies, so often a gifts hips make the pockets jut out, which ruins the look of the pants,"...

Look-great lesson. (Style Secrets).(Kate Hudson)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Just because you own a bunch of cool necklaces doesn't mean you should wear one every night. Take a cue from actress Kate Hudson and give neck adornments a rest--her dress, with its ruffly trim and gold details, doesn't need much embellishment,...

Protect your pouf from germs. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Even though that busty body buffer in your shower (whether it's a sponge, brush, or synthetic scrubby) looks and smells clean, it may actually be a bacteria-infested mess. If you leave your tub tool in the shower all the time, it never...

How to ... score knockout nude lips. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Sexy celebs like Gwyneth Paltrow love to go nude on the red carpet--when it comes to their lip look, that is. "A barely-there lip color looks sexy, plus it draws focus to your eyes," says makeup artist Scott Barnes. To pull off a pale pout: ...

Thrifty tube trick. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Ever find yourself wrestling with a tube of your favorite pampering product in an attempt to squeeze out every last bit? Here's a sneaky strategy for getting to the bottom of it: Once the tube is almost empty, cut it in half and use your...

Rachel reminds you ... pause when you pluck. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Never rush through a brow-shaping session. Tweeze one hair at a time, and after every fourth hair, take a step back to examine your arch. You need this pause and perspective to make sure you're not overplucking.

Two lipsticks every girl needs. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... If, like most chicks, you own a handful of lipsticks you never wear because the colors aren't quite right, heed this lesson to transform all those wrong-for-you hues into winners: Add a beige and a blackberry lip color to your arsenal and blend...

The yummiest winter skin treatments. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Pamper yourself on a chilly night indoors with a delectable soak that smells like your favorite dessert. Try this at-home lick-your-lips recipe inspired by the Whipped Cocoa Bath treatment at the Hotel Hershey Spa, in Hershey, Pennsylvania....

Whiten your smile the smart way. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... A bright smile isn't just attractive--it's a true man magnet. White teeth indicate good health and vitality, which is a key trait guys subconsciously zero in on when they're looking to hook up. But if you want to lighten your choppers at home,...

3 bold & beautiful eye looks. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Plum, violet, wine... sultry shades of purple are a hot shadow pick this season. Think they're tricky to wear? Not once you follow our easy how-tos for creating fab eye effects. LOW-KEY Use a thin liner brush or cotton swab to blend...

News flash AHAs can soften strands. (Cosmo Hair).(alpha-hydroxy acid)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... We were psyched to find out that alpha-hydroxy acid (AHA)--the exfoliating ingredient that's dominated beauty news over the past few years because of its ability to leave skin looking fresh and radiant--is now in shampoo. It gently sloughs away...

When an updo dies. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Though it's hard not to come undone when your carefully crafted upswept hairstyle does, there's no need. Try one of these strategies to save your strands: * Embrace the chaos. Slip out a few bobby pins and use them to restyle the updo into...

Get a picture-perfect cut. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... At the risk of sounding like a fortune cookie, sometimes you need to look into your past to find your future. That's the strategy to use when looking for a new hairstyle, says NYC stylist Ouidad. "Go through old photos of yourself and create a...

How to ... blow-dry the back of your hair. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Wish your straightened locks looked as good going as they do coming? Follow this blow-drying tip from NYC Bumble and Bumble stylist Nikki An to get the back of your hail kink-flee and full of body. STEP 1: After applying a straightening...

Winter skin. (Dermatologist Report: Special Advertisement).
January 1, 2003... You've probably noticed that the colder weather can be especially harsh on your skin. As a dermatologist, I want to explain why this phenomenon occurs, and what you can do about it. Your skin depends on moisture to remain hydrated and...

Save your color ... and some cash. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Want to spend less moola by stretching out the time between your hair-coloring appointments? When your tress tint begins to fade or look dull (usually around the third week), try a color-depositing conditioner. When used twice a week, these new...

The sexy new shag. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Hollywood hotties such as Reese Witherspoon and Alyssa Milano are flaunting one of the foxiest hip hairstyles: a flirty shoulder-skimming shag that has wispy face-framing layers in the front. This cut will look cute on most girls, although if...

Find the best brush for you. (Cosmo Hair).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... It's important to use a brush with the right kind of bristles for your type of tresses, says stylist Michael Beltran of New York City's Antonio Prieto Salon. Here, his lockstool lowdown. NATURAL These flexible, gentle bristles...

Blemish-beating strategy: what can I do when I have one of those feel-it-starting zits? Is there any way to prevent it from turning into a huge pimple? (Beauty Q&A).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... That bothersome bump is a blockage of bacteria and oil trapped beneath the top layers of skin that has yet to form a pimple. To battle a blemish-to-be, wash with a cleanser that contains glycolic acid or salicylic acid, which will slough off...

Massage manners: my friends bought me a gift certificate for my first-ever massage. What's the proper etiquette when it comes to wearing underwear? (Beauty Q&A).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... If you want to get the most out of your rubdown, you'll have to strip off those Skivvies. "When you wear panties, it makes it difficult for the massage therapist to tend to spots on your lower back and hips," says Nadine Shelf, spa manager at...

Fast-drying digit tips: how can I speed up the drying time on nail polish? I get restless and wind up smudging them. (Beauty Q&A).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... If you're too impatient to wait for a full-on mani to dry, your best speedy option is to apply just one thin coat of a pale hue--with sheer shades you can get by with one layer. If you're hooked on a richly hued lacquer, hurry its drying time...

Couple conundrum: I like using my boyfriend's beard trimmer on my public hair. Is there a groomer out there made for this purpose so I don't have to use his? (Beauty Q&A).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... The days of whacking away at your down-there hair with your guy's groomer are over! There are indeed trimmers specifically designed for females that are easier to wield since they have differently contoured heads than your man's machine and...

Lower body blaster: tighten up your bottom half in no time with this toning trick. (Buff).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... THE MOVE TO MASTER: SIDE-LYING LEG LIFT Kneel on your left knee with your body facing forward Use your left arm as support on the floor. Keep centered with your rib cage and abdominals pulled in. Put your right hand on your hip and extend...

Caliente! Calorie control: how fiery foods can curb your appetite. (Buff).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Eating spicy food can actually help whittle your waistline. "It's more satisfying and flavorful, so you eat less," says Kathleen Zelman, a registered dietician in Atlanta and a spokesperson for the American Dietician Association. "When your...

Feel snow white & sexy. (Pleasures).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... White, the purest, simplest of shades, does more than just make you look incredible--it can promote serenity. To whiten up: 1 Wrap up in a creamy scarf (a soft, angelic look guys love). 2 Light white tea-light candles in small holders...

The jaw massage that melts tension: try this pampering mouth move right now. (quick lift).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... It's natural to clench your jaw when you're stressed, which can lead to headaches and facial pain--not fun. Loosen up with these tips from Mimi Hill, a licensed massage therapist at Maximus Soho Spa Salon in New York: Press the pads of both...

Up your lust level at home with these sizzling ideas. (Be A Hottie).(turn up the heat)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Ever nonce how hard it is to feel sexy when you're freezing your butt off? "Cold can bigger stress because it sends your body into survival mode," says Bill Crawford, Ph.D., author of All Stressed Up and Nowhere to Go. "By bringing your body...

The latest cancer-foiling foods. (Breast Check).(phytochemicals found in fruits and vegetables)(Brief Article)(Illustration)
January 1, 2003... You probably know that antioxidants help prevent breast cancer, but research shows that phytochemicals (natural plant chemicals found in some fruits and veggies) have their own protective breast benefits. A new study found that women who loaded...

"When is it safe for us to stop using condoms?" (his & hers).(wait at least three months)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Wait until you've been monogamous for at least three months, says Lisa Masterson, a Beverly Hills OB-GYN. "Any infection you or he may have picked up before coupledom can be detected by then," she explains. Then see your gyno and have your guy...

Bubbly lovers beware: why champagne packs such a potent punch. (bad-girl rehab).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Not only is champagne pricier than most other kinds of wine, but it can also make you a lot loopier. In a study done at the University of Surrey in England, volunteers who drank fizzy champagne performed more poorly on mental-alertness tests...

"What are my abortion options?" (Cosmo Gyno).(medical and surgical)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... There are two types of abortions: medical and surgical. There are pros and cons to both. Medical abortions can be performed any time up to the ninth week, says Deborah Oyer, M.D., director of Aurora Medical Services in Seattle. Here's how it...

Ouch! Is sex painful? Surprisingly, your birth control may be to blame. (Cosmo Gyno).(may thin vagina tissue)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Taking the Pill is supposed to make slipping between the sheets less stressful. But recent research found that women who took certain oral contraceptive were almost seven times more likely then those who didn't to develop vulvar vestibulitis--a...

New period products: some progress on the design front will help make that time of the month less of a nuisance. And it's about time! (Cosmo Gyno).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... BETTER-FITTING Ever wonder why tampons don't always TAMPONS stop spotting? The vagina is actually flatter than most women think--its shape is more oval...

"How I screwed myself at work": these women botched it majorly. We're sure they'll be more careful next time. (Your Job).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... * "To impress my boss, I mentioned that I knew a famous singer, exaggerating my connection. I forgot about it until my company's CEO called and asked me to invite my celeb pal to perform at a work event! I had to fess up that I didn't have any...

"My coworker is too chatty. How can I shut her up?" (Your Job).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... "Your boss will notice if you appear to be wasting time gossiping with your coworker," says Susan Marshall, author of How to Grow a Backbone. "Telling someone flat out to go away is hard, so start subtly and then escalate." Whenever she pops...

Bad boss solutions: there are three common types of truly nightmarish supervisors. Advice on how to handle each. (work trick of the month).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... The Screamer "Yelling at you in front of other is never acceptable, so tell her that calmly," says Heather Beckel, author of Be a Kickass Assistant. Go to HR if she continues. If your boss only blows up when you goof, let her cool down...

How to ... get him to say the L word. (The Love Page).("I Love you")(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Men aren't big on saying "I love you," but you can cure your guy's allergy to those three little words. Here's how: * Try pillow talk. "Men are more likely to say they love you in bed because physical closeness makes them feel more...

Be his private dancer. (blow his mind tip).(lap dance for him)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... If your guy's been slacking in the sex department, stir him from his carnal coma by giving him a lap dance. Slip into something sexy and turn on some tunes, then try these moves suggested by Heidi Seiz, cardio striptease instructor for Crunch...

"My guy acts annoyingly jealous whenever I talk to my male friends." (spat of the month).(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... The issue of whether guys and girls can be just friends has inspired countless debates. And most guys don't believe it's possible. So even if your man trusts you, he may think your platonic male pals are trying to get in your pants! The...

Our most magical midnight moment: old acquaintances were definitely forgotten when these readers got swept away by their studs on New Year's Eve. (Heart Copy).
January 1, 2003... "My parents dragged me to a New Year's Eve party thrown by a guy from my dad's office. I was dreading it until l walked in and saw that the host was a total bottle. He was busy socializing with other guests most of the night, which bummed me...

... Stand out from the sea of black. (Why Don't You ...).(add color during winter months)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Restricting your clothing color palette to dark hues during the winter months can drive you into hibernation. "Wearing a bold color declares that you're young, fun, and don't care what anyone thinks," says Orla Maguire-Moore, Cosmo sittings...

... Take a me, me, me day. (Why Don't You ...).(mental health day)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Sick days are never much fun considering you're conked out on cold medicine. Take a day off or delegate a weekend afternoon for your mental health. But don't you dare do errands. Loaf in bed, order in takeout fare, and spring for a beauty...

... Boycott the bed. (Why Don't You ...).(liven up your sex life)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... When your sex life starts to resemble a 17-minute choreographed routine, take action. "Following a predictable pattern of passion is boring," says Lana Holstein, M.D., author of How to Have Magnificent Sex. So make the mattress off limits and...

... Smile more. (Why Don't You ...).(mood enhancer)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... No one wants to be a perma-Pollyanna--they're plain scary. But grinning more will put you in a better mood. "Smiling boosts serotonin levels, making you feel good, plus it makes you a approachable," says Karen Salmansohn, author of How to...

... Give him a lucky charm. (Why Don't You ...).(manly gadget or trinket)(Brief Article)
January 1, 2003... Unfortunately you can't put a tracking device on your dude (or you'll risk a restraining order), but you can give him something to carry with him so he's reminded of yo, when he sees it. Think of it as a talisman that wards off all conniving...

Is PMS making you mental? Don't take the bloating, bingeing, and roller-coaster ride of emotions lying down! You can overcome your monthly misery. Here's how. (Cosmo's PMS Survival Guide).(premenstrual syndrome)
January 1, 2003... * Sometimes it's hard to tell what's worse: the killer cramps and bleeding of your period or the premenstrual problems you're plagued with in the days leading up to it. One thing is for sure: Misery has company--the vast majority of women (up...