Cosmopolitan articles from December 2002

Cosmopolitan archives from December 2002

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December 1, 2002... The Sexiest, Single Studs in America If you missed last month's All About Men issue, don't worry, because we've put our looking-for-love bachelors online for you to drool over. Log on to cosmopolitan.com and feast your eyes on 50 of the...

Red-hot Halle. (The Cosmo Cover Look).(Halle Berry)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... COVER-STAR STATS Name: Halle Berry Age: 35 Hometown: Cleveland Current home: Los Angeles Biggest beauty indulgence: "I'm a huge fan of facials. Every two weeks, I go to Matty European Skin Care in L.A." How she stays...

Cosmo's new guy school. (From The Editor).(Editorial)
December 1, 2002... * Cosmo readers always E-mail to tell me that they consider the magazine to be their bible. And we're thrilled to be just that. Lately, though, I've been amazed at how many men have written to say Cosmo is their bible too. It's a way, they say,...

This month's fun fearless females: the reasons these Cosmo readers live up to the title.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Candice McDonald, 22 Air Force personnel, Biloxi, Mississippi Fearless factor: I was 17 when I joined the military, which took a lot of guts. Basic training was a crazy experience--I've never been screamed at so many times in my life!...

Lifesaving advice. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "Thank you for informing us about human papillomavirus (HPV) and cervical dysplasia in you October issue (`The Test That Can Save You Life'). The Pap results from my last exam revealed abnormalities caused by HPV. It turns out this wasn't my...

Torrid tips. (You Tell us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "I loved '85 Ways to Make Sex Even Sexier' (October). The tips worked. My boyfriend thought I was sexier in bed, but best of all, I felt sexier. It was a boost for both of us!" --Angie Ursitti, Florida

Alone but not lonely. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "I just wanted to thank you for `On My Mind: There's No Shame in Being Single' (October) I recently got out of a three-and-a-half-year relationship. When you are with someone for that long, you start to define yourself as a couple rather than...

Weight debate. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "Your October article `The Incredible Shrinking Stars' was great. These celebrities are so ridiculous thinking that they actually look good as a size 0. Puh-leeez! At least they don't have to dress up for Halloween. They can be walking...

Makeup for everyone. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "I was so happy to see `The Best Advice for African-American Babes' in October. I am an African-American who has subscribed to Cosmo for almost five years and am delighted that you are including more beauty tips that I can actually use. Keep...

Holmes sweet Holmes. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "Thank you so much for putting Katie Holmes on your October cover. She looks absolutely wonderful! I love that she's not a Hollywood girl and tries as hard as she can to remain close to her family and friends. It's refreshing that a...

Web poll. (You Tell Us).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "She Wants to Keep the Baby. What's He Supposed to Do?" profiled men confronted with an unplanned pregnancy. Then we asked you: Is it a man's duty to be a dad no matter what?. said yes 85% said no 15% "If you don't want a kid,...

Guy test-drive: one man mouths off about October's issue of Cosmo. (You Tell Us).(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... "Bravo on `She Wants to Keep the Baby. What's He Supposed to Do?' It's a very sticky situation. To say that men shouldn't have sex if they can't deal with the consequences is really naive. People will always have sex, no matter what. It's what...

Guy without his shirt: check out this month's half-naked hunk.(Ryan Mickelsen)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Name: Ryan Mickelsen Age: 20 years old Height:: 5 feet 11 inches Weight: 150 pounds Sign: Sagittarius Hometown: Melbourne Beach, Florida Favorite thing: "I love to travel and surf. I've been surfing in Costa Rica...

Cosmo confessions: Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets.(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... no, baby, no "I'd been chatting with this guy online and finally decided to meet him in person. We went for coffee and hit it off right away, and the sexual chemistry was overwhelming. After our lattes, we went back to my place and started...

Guy confessions: men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever.(Letter to the Editor)
December 1, 2002... meat head "After going out on a few dates with this girl Mandy, we ended up in bed together at her place. Once we had sex, I went into her kitchen for something to drink. Inside her fridge was a whole steak, just sitting there. I hadn't...

Cosmo's booby prize. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... You logged on to our Web site to vote on whether the cleavage on these busty babes was classy, flashy, or trashy. The results... CLASSY FLASHY TRASHY ELIZABETH HURLEY 76% 20% 4% HEATHER...

Busted. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Matt Damon)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... A-ha! Matt Damon does have a flaw after all. Lack of willpower. He was seen sporting the patch in October of 2001, but less than a year later, his good intentions appear to have gone up in smoke.

Bomber jackets. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Helena Bonham Carter)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... No one will be riding the coattails of these unstylish stars. Give Helena Bonham Carter an umbrella so her Mary Poppins outfit will fly away. Judging from this getup, Kelly Osbourne needs a straitjacket. Did PETA get angry about...

Cosmo's movie hit list: whether you're looking for a girls'-night-out option or a guy-friendly flick, we have seven cinematic standouts guaranteed to spice up your season. (Cosmo informer: scintillating and surprising scoop on your favorite celebs).(Brief Article)(Bibliography)
December 1, 2002... GANGS OF NEW YORK (12/25) ** STARRING: Leonardo DiCaprio, Cameron Diaz PLOT: Set in 19th century New York City, Irish and anti-immigrant gangsters fight for control of the city's most dangerous streets. WE HEAR: Leo and Cameron's...

Why we're way into Taye. (Hunk Of The Month).(Taye Diggs)(Brief Article)(Interview)
December 1, 2002... * Taye Diggs may have a gorgeous face, but it was his beautiful backside that first put him on women's radar screens thanks to that steamy shower scene in his debut flick, How Stella Got Her Groove Back. And though he's strayed occasionally...

Would you ever get involved with a younger guy? Most readers said they'd have no problem linking up with someone less seasoned. (Dating And Relating Debate).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * In the movie The Good Girl, Jennifer Aniston's character, a 30-year-old discount-store clerk, hooks up with a 22-year-old stock boy played by Jake Gyllenhaal. In real life, many older female celebs are robbing the cradle as well. Current...

The secrets he's already discovered: sorry, ladies, but we're on to you when it comes to the following things. (His Point Of View).
December 1, 2002... * Beware--your feminine mystique is starting to show a few cracks. We guys have been able to unearth these so-called secrets thanks to our keen powers of observation. Consider this an invitation to ditch the charade and be yourself. (After all,...

"The secret I let slip ..." (guys speak out).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "My girlfriend and I cut ties but made up after two months. I told her I slept with four women while we were apart, and she kicked me to the curb." --Chris Spinelli, 23 "I took my date to a nice restaurant, so I guess she assumed I...

Give in to your wanderlust: nothing is more liberating than changing your everyday environment and hitting the road. Here, novelist Danyel Smith explains why. (On My Mind).
December 1, 2002... * In my novel More Like Wrestling, my main character Pinch is a woman in her 20s devoted to her hometown of Oakland. But she also feels an urge to leave the place that both nurtured and bruised her. Pinch wants to find herself. But because...

Mama on a manhunt. (Agony).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... My dad passed away a few years ago, and now my mom's back on the singles scene. She looks amazing for her age, but the downside is, she's been flirting with the guys I date. They end up more interested in her than in me. How do I tell her to...

Climax crisis. (Agony).(oral sex)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... I've been with my fiance for two years now, and even though I'm using two forms of birth control, he refuses to ejaculate inside me. Instead, he pulls out and insists on finishing in my mouth. I think it's the only way he likes to orgasm. Can...

Undercover photo. (Agony).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... When my sister went to Mardi Gras last year, she flashed her boobs to my guy friends. Well, one of them took a picture and E-mailed it to my boyfriend. I told my guy to delete it, but recently, I was snooping through his E-mail and I came...

Pinup passion. (Agony).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... I'm attracted to my boyfriend and enjoy having sex with him, hut I get turned on by looking at the girls in lingerie magazines. I've never been attracted to a flesh-and-blood female or fantasized about being with a woman though. Am I bisexual?...

Coming clean and sober. (Agony).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... After suffering from drug addiction for years, I'm finally sober. While I was doing drugs, I stole some of my mother's jewelry and pawned it, and I can't get any of it back. My parents don't know about my problem, and I don't want to disappoint...

On-film fetish. (Agony).(videotaping sex)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... A little while ago, I had sex with a girl who videotaped us in the act, It was the most unbelievable sex I'd ever had.The next night we did it again, only without the camera, and it wasn't so hot. Now, I only enjoy it if it's being taped. How...

Trend of the moment. (Cosmo Fashion).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... When you wear this winter's touchable knits, you may be surprised at who tries to snuggle with you. Cable-knit mittens, Gap, $14.50, gap.com [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Ribbed-knit dress, 525 Made in America [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]...

3 cozy coat styles. (Shopping Tip Sheet).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... To be cool staying warm, get bundled up in one of these fab coats and couple it with chic cold-weather extras. Trench coat, Harve Bernard, $200; felt hat, Liz Claiborne Accessories, $28, 800-555-9838; scarf, Nine West, $45; leather gloves,...

How to wear ... lace. (Style Secrets).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Lace is a big trend this season, but it takes know-how to wear it in a way that looks chic, not cheesy. Follow this advice from Cosmo senior fashion editor Tamara Rappa: * Dress down a lace top or skirt by pairing it with casual pieces....

Hems that hit the floor. (Hip-chick Trick).(pant legs)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Celebs and style mavens are skipping trips to the tailor (but increasing their visits to the dry cleaner) by wearing super-long pants. They pair their lengthy pant legs with pointy shoes to keep their toes from disappearing beneath the hems. To...

Keep a plunging neckline in place. (Style Secrets).(double-sided tape)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... When celebs wear low-cut dresses on the red carpet, they use double-sided tape to keep their twins tucked in. This is a trick we can all use to prevent boobs from popping out and straps from falling, says senior fashion editor Lida Moore Musso,...

The most flattering ... skirt. (Style Secrets).(A-line)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... The cut of skirt that makes most bods look best is A-line, says Jose Parron, who does style consulting as director of the Image Studio at Barneys New York. Other features to look for in a figure-friendly skirt: A wide-yoke waistband hugs...

Look awesome after dark. (The Sexiest Party Clothes).
December 1, 2002... There are two Cosmo-sanctioned styles for you to wear to this season's soirees, and while both are stunning, they work best for different types of evenings. Below we spell out the occasions that call for each, then offer up the fetching options...

The two hot: if the night calls for a romantic sexy effect, choose sweetly velvet, lace, silk, and chiffon. For racy sexy, go with glam. (The Sexiest Party Clothes).(dresses and skirts)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... ROMANTIC SEXY 1 Burnout velvet spaghetti-strap dress with beaded trim, Arden B, $128, 2 Lace halter, Trina Turk, $180. 3 Silk camisole, Maria Bianca Nero, $200. 4 Velvet surplice dress, Newport News, $70, newport-news.com. 5 Embroidered...

Holiday styles: seductive pieces in muted hues and soft fabrics such as metallics, sequins, and eye-catching shine. (The Sexiest Party Clothes).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... RACY SEXY 1 Sequin X-back top, Trio New York, $180. 2 Satin trousers, BCBG Max Azria, $180, 888-636-BCBG. 3 Tieback dress with asymmetrical hem, H&M, $35. 4 Lame miniskirt, Miss Sixty, $80. 5 Sequin bias-cut camisole, Banana Republic,...

Perfect P.M. accessories: 'tis the time to be a head-to-toe heartbreaker, so scoop up the extras that will complete your make-him-stutter effect--including baubles, lingerie, and a mood-setting scent. (The Sexiest Party Clothes).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... ROMANTIC SEXY Necklace, Kiva Kreations, $189 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Bag, Paint the Lily at Pure Accessories, $110 [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] Chiffon and lace camisole, $76, and tap pants, $65, Lola C., lolac.com ...

Foxy and festive nails. (Beauty Buzz).(supershiny nail polish)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... This party season, upgrade your manicure from ho-hum to hubba-hubba with the latest talon trend: supershiny nail polish that produces an intense twinkling 3-D effect. Two coats look multihued and mesmerizing when hit with light. Cool purple...

Expert makeup application advice. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... The order in which you apply your makeup can make all the difference in how the final effect looks, says New York City celebrity makeup artist Trish McEvoy. Here's the step-by-step process she suggests. STEP 1 Since eye makeup can be...

Rachel reminds you: wash your face at a slow pace. (Beauty Buzz).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... It's tempting to rush through your cleansing session, especially late at night. But you should give your cleanser a minute to sink in so it can thoroughly remove the day's grime. To see if you're sudsing sufficiently, swipe a toner-soaked...

Wake up winter skin. (Beauty Buzz).(skin care products)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Icky weather and dwindling daylight don't have to mean months of pasty skin. Look luminous all winter with these radiance-restoring strategies. Exfoliate daily with a scrub containing gentle microbeads and beta-hydroxy acids to buff away...

Keep your hair looking good all night. (Cosmo Hair).(hair supplies)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... You shouldn't have to worry about a hard-earned hairdo falling apart on you. Consult our stay-put style chart. TO KEEP STRAIGHT HAIR SLEEK: Mist blown-out strands lightly with hair spray, then flatiron them to lock in style. Try Redken...

The basic bob gets sexy. (Cosmo Hair).(hairstyles)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... As one look at these hot honeys reveals, a bob can be every bit as seductive as long tresses. "The key to spicing up a nape-level cut is to get long layers snipped all over, including lengthy bangs. This will create sultry movement," says NYC...

How to ... score vixenish volume. (Cosmo Hair).(Velco rollers, volumizers)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... The best way to give limp styles tons of body is to use big Velcro rollers, says L.A. hair pro Nick Chavez. Here's how: * Spritz dry hair with a volumizer like ThermaSilk Volume and Shine Tonic, $4, then mentally divide your mane into seven...

Don't get suckered at the salon. (Cosmo Hair).(hairstylists need to be aware of what you want)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... We've all been there before--a prisoner in the salon chair, worrying the stylist will get creative with the snippers and ignore what we want our locks to look like. To head off that high-pressure situation: Have a preshampoo consultation....

My roots are starting to show, but I don't want to spend money for a salon fix. Can I touch them up with a DIY color kit? (at-home regrowth rehab).(do-it-yourself)(red lipstick okay with red dress)(bikini wax while you have your period)
December 1, 2002... To freshen up a salon dye job at home, follow these strand-staining suggestions from Sandra Roca, a colorist at Gil Ferrer Salon in New York City: When picking out a hair color at the drugstore, decide on your desired color, then find a tone...

My guy's hands are so rough, they feel scratchy when he touches me. What can he do to make them softer? (couple conundrum).(useful lotions)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Your man may not understand the importance of keeping his mitts soft, so first explain to him that his scratchy hands hurt you. Then get his paws into petting condition with these tips from Fabien Azoulay, manager of Nickel Spa for Men in New...

The best beauty goods to give (and receive). (Editors' Picks).(selection of cosmetics and beauty aids)
December 1, 2002... We've made our list and checked it twice, and we found fab gifts for the naughty and the nice. Whether you're shopping for your friend, your boy, or just for yourself, you'll love this holiday loot. [1] A sexy gift suitable for a...

The ultimate thigh toner: you can say buh-bye to bumpy legs. (Buff).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... THE MOVE TO MASTER: SKIER'S LUNGE Stand 3 feet in front of a chair and place the top of your right foot on the seat, slightly bending the knee. Align your shoulders and hips over the heel of your left leg (1). Inhale, bend your left leg,...

Cool calorie burner. (Buff).(shop to burn calories)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... SPEND THREE HOURS SHOPPING FOR GIFTS: YOU'LL BURN 429 CALORIES AND CROSS EVERYONE OFF YOUR LIST. NOTE: CALCULATION IS BASED ON A 130- TO 135-POUND WOMAN

Guilt-free fast food: these are your best bets for speedy bites. (Buff).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... The Center for Science in the Public Interest recently revealed its choices for the healthiest fast foods: WENDY'S MANDARIN CHICKEN SALAD: This 420-calorie salad (use just half a packet of Oriental Sesame dressing) tastes like a...

The coziest thing to do with a man. (Pleasures).(cuddling)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * Studies show that cuddling with your guy causes a spike of oxytocin--the hormone associated with emotional bonding. Try these snuggle-session suggestions: * Suggest watching a movie in bed to guarantee two hours of full-body contact. ...

Give yourself a gift: this season, pamper numero uno. (quick lift).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "Around the holidays, people--especially women--exhaust themselves trying to make everyone happy," says Jane Adams, Ph.D., a psychologist in Seattle. "But if you please yourself first, you'll end up being a more enthusiastic gift giver because...

How to savor your sexiest memories: recalling the past can help perk you up. (Pleasures).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Remember those exciting God-I-really-like-him butterflies you felt on your first date with your boyfriend? Well, that heady rash you had back then can be revived by keeping key objects from the experience in sight. "Emotions are remembered in...

Nipple annoyances. (Breast Check).(watch for certain symptoms)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... When to worry and when just to deal SYMPTOM COMMON CAUSE CALL YOUR DOC IF... Sensitivity/pain Fluctuating You feel a lump hormones the week under a painful ...

Battle secondhand smoke: how to minimize the damage. (bad-girl rehab).(eat anitoxidant-rich foods)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Research shows that regular exposure to secondhand smoke can ratchet up your lung-cancer risk by as much as 20 percent. But since saying sayonara to your social life isn't an option, try this protection plan: Munch on antioxidant-rich fruits...

"My boyfriend uses powder on his privates. Can it be harmful to me?" (his & hers).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Probably not. While studies have found a connection between a woman's talc use and ovarian cancer, one of the largest talc studies failed to find any link between its use by a sex partner and a woman's cancer risk. "Most likely that's because...

Attention pill users: hormones in oral contraceptives may compete with vitamins and minerals for absorption. Here are the foods to eat to replenish what's being blocked. (Cosmo Gyno).(folic acid, calcium, B-complex vitamins)(Brief Article)(Illustration)
December 1, 2002... DEPLETED WHY YOU WHAT TO NUTRIENT NEED IT EAT FOLIC ACID It helps your body Citrus fruits and produce red blood juices, green leafy cells and prevents veggies,...

"Can I get pregnant during my period?" (Cosmo Gyno).(risk still present)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... There's a small risk--especially if your cycle tends to be short, meaning you menstruate every 21 to 22 days instead of the average 28, says Lynn Borgatta, M.D., a professor in the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the Boston...

Your guy could have chlamydia: why it's crucial for couples to get tested. (Cosmo Gyno).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... If you're among the 3 million Americans infected with chlamydia each year, you must ask your partner to get checked--even if you think he's disease-free. (If you're not infected, he still needs to be tested in case he is.) About 75 percent of...

"I got nailed for skipping work": these women decided they needed a freebie day off--their bosses didn't agree. (Your Job).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * "My boyfriend talked me into calling in sick to go skiing. I gave my boss a story about having strep throat and headed for the slopes. Obviously, I should have worn SPF 50--my face got totally burned. It was so visible, my boss reprimanded...

"My boss doesn't like me as a person. What can I do?" (Your Job).(subtle tips)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "It's tempting just to stay out of her way, but don't," says Linda Talley, president of Leadership University, an executive-development firm in Houston, Texas. "It is business, but it's naive to discount the importance of personal...

How to survive a day from hell: to get through a grisly 9-to-5 with your sanity intact ... (work trick of the month).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Wave the White Flag "Ask a manager to help you prioritize," suggests Patricia J. Hutchings, author of Managing Workplace Chaos. Knowing when to cry uncle shows maturity and forethought, not laziness. Create Some Space "When you're...

Signs he's not over his ex: your new guy insists he's finished with his former flame, but these signals indicate the spark isn't quite extinguished. (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * He compares you to her. You may want to slam on the brakes if he can't stop sizing you up. A man who's haunted by his ex may constantly say things about how much or how little you remind him of her. * He's in a hurry to get serious. Guys...

The secret he wants to spill: we like when you put us in our place for being dumb. (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Left to our own devices, guys will try to get away with just about anything. We may even act up just to test how far you'll let us go. Don't think that giving us clearance to indulge in this juvenile pastime will score you a Best Girlfriend...

Male mind reading: do you practice what you'll say to a woman before you call her? (Guy Spy).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... 60% "I take the time to give it some thought." 21% "Nope. I improvise all the way." 19% "Down to the last sound bite"

How to ... get him to give better gifts: if the wrapping paper is more exciting than what's inside, you need our help. Try these tips for getting the present you're pining for. (The Love Page).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * Show and tell. Subtlety will get you nowhere. When you and your guy are out shopping or just walking around, point out the objects of your desire. Or make negative comments about items that totally bite--and ensure he gets it by explaining...

"My guy's best friend can talk him into any stupid scheme." (spat of the month).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "Men are susceptible to other men's ideas--no matter how ridiculous they are--because undertaking adventures with the guys makes them feel more masculine," explains Frank Pittman, M.D., author of Grow Up. Your biggest dilemma: The more you try...

Secretly paw him. (blow-his-mind tip).(seductive caresses)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Next time you're at a party, having dinner with friends, or just sitting at a cafe, levitate your guy's lust with some undercover caressing. Sexy suggestions: Run your fingers down his leg when you retrieve a fork that "accidentally" fell on...

The sweet way he showed he loved me: a man doesn't need words to declare his devotion. Listen in as readers recount how a guy let them know he was a goner. (Heart Copy).
December 1, 2002... "I'd been dating Charles for a few months and was really falling for him. But he plays guitar in a band and women are constantly hitting on him, so I'd always felt a little uneasy about the relationship and had problems trusting him. One night...

... Have a brunchtime tryst. (Why Don't You ...).(testosterone levels higher in the morning)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Researchers have found that testosterone levels in males tend to peak in the morning---making that his lustiest hour. So on your next day off, invite him to nosh with you before noon. Lure him to your place and get busy in the kitchen (and...

... Quirkily compliment him. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Yeah, yeah... his eyes are Mediterranean blue, you're bowled over by his biceps... he's heard it all before. Instead, laud him for his laugh, the way his mind works, his shoes (guys never get style compliments), or some body part you really...

... Fancify your feet. (Why Don't You ...).(focal point of your outfit)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... Shake a leg, you trendsetter. Make your footwear the focal point of your outfit by working with whatever you already have in your closet. Sport a brightly colored pair (think ruby or fuchsia) with an all-black ensemble, dress up denim with...

... Learn to say no. (Why Don't You ...).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... "Sure, I'll baby-sit.... Yes, I can take on another project.... Of course I'll walk and feed Fido while you're away." If your lips are set on perma-agreement, you're spending a lot of precious time, energy, and brain space bending over...

... Make an elegant exit. (Why Don't You ...).(etiquette tip)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... If you must attend a snoozarama shindig or make multiple stops in one night, let your hostess know beforehand that you'd love to come but can't stay long. "That way when you duck out, people won't say `Oh, what a party pooper,'" says Charlotte...

Make him ache for you: the most erotic way to electrify your man is with a slow, subtle seduction. Master these six pulse-pounding moves that no guy can possibly resist. (Lust Lessons).
December 1, 2002... * If you throw him on the bed, touch his crotch, and suck on his earlobe, just about any man with a pulse will go from 0 to 80 on the lust-o-meter in two minutes flat. But when it comes to driving a guy stark raving mad with desire for you,...

Mission accomplished: signs you've gotten your guy so hot, he's gonna blow. (Lust Lessons).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2002... * He walks through the door and his pants are already around his ankles. * He turns off the ball game--and he has money riding on it. * He pulls over and actually uses the old "Oops, we ran out of gas" excuse. * He stops at the...

Relationship games you should play: you've heard you shouldn't toy with men. Forget it. Dating is a sport, and these sexy little tricks and covert love maneuvers are all within the rules. (Manhandling).(related article: Foul play)
December 1, 2002... * Think playing mind games with men smacks of unscrupulous femme fatale--style manipulation? Please. We're here to debunk that silly, silly myth. "Games are the way we keep romance alive," says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of The First Sex....

Never have a bad night's sleep again: if you feel like you're dragging ass every day, it's probably because some sneaky, rest sapper is robbing you of quality zzz's. Find out how to end all that. (Health Report).
December 1, 2002... * The only thing that rivals tossing and turning in bed on the annoyance scale is how unbearably wiped out you feel the next day. And it's not exactly a news flash that work falls by the wayside when you're spent. What you may not know is that...

When your friends have babies: motherhood can morph your pal into an alien creature. Here, Cosmo interprets your sure-to-be-mixed emotions and helps you navigate this trying time. (Coping).
December 1, 2002... * One evening last year, Sarah * 28, met up with her friend Kristen for their bi-monthly chinks date. It was a tradition the old college roommates had kept up through various boyfriends and even after Kristen had gotten married the year before....

"I couldn't perform in bed": more and more young studs are becoming Mr. Softees. Here, one distressed dude resolves to get to the bottom of his alarming bout of impotence. (True Story).(related article: Perk-him-up pointers)
December 1, 2002... * The challenge, as I remember it, is getting women into bed, not what happens once they're there. Erica (not her real name) is here tonight, and we're doing the sweaty grapple. She's older than me, a sex columnist, and besides that, she has...