Cosmopolitan articles from December 2001

Cosmopolitan archives from December 2001

To our readers:.
December 1, 2001... WITH THIS DECEMBER ISSUE, WE BEGIN A SEASON OF GRATITUDE AND THANKS. GRATITUDE THAT, DESPITE THE EVENTS OF SEPTEMBER 11, OUR DOORS REMAINED OPEN, OUR PHONES PROCEEDED TO RING AND THE PRESSES CONTINUED TO ROLL. WHILE TRAGEDY TOUCHED SO MANY OF...

Love and sex. (Cosmopolitan.com).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Love Lounge What are your can't-fail pick-up lines? How long should you wait to have sex? Need some postbreakup sympathy? Visit the Love Lounge message boards and chat with Cosmo's candid readers about everything from healing a broken...

Scoop. (Cosmopolitan.com).
December 1, 2001... Pop Quiz Prove how well you've read this issue. Go to Cosmopolitan.com and correctly answer as many questions as you can. The lucky winners will receive a spectacular beauty bonus.

You. (Cosmopolitan.com).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Ask Irma Dealing with a dilemma? Check out Cosmopolitan.com for two years' worth of Irma's expert advice. If you don't see a solution to your problem, E-mail us-your conundrum could be answered in an upcoming Cosmo. Cosmo Quiz ...

Boyfriend gift guide. (Cosmopolitan.com).
December 1, 2001... Buy your beau the perfect present with Cosmopolitan.com's exclusive annual Boyfriend Gift Guide. This feature factors in his personality and the length of your relationship and picks gifts that match your man. Shower CD player by Shaper...

How to get Julia's look. (COSMO COVER INFO).(Julia Stiles' makeup)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Face: For a fresh, festive look like the one makeup artist Marie Josee Lafontaine created for Julia Stiles, try Maybelline cosmetics. First, blend Expert Eyes Eye Shadow in Pretty Grey, a sheer charcoal hue, across your lids, up into creases,...

Genius Julia. (COSMO COVER INFO).(actress Julia Stiles)(Brief Article)(Interview)
December 1, 2001... Not many dormitory-dwelling college students can say they've starred in more than a dozen feature films and been voted one of People Magazine's 50 Most Beautiful People. But this month's cover girl, Julia Stiles, can. A sophomore at Columbia...

Cosmo win it! (COSMO COVER INFO).
December 1, 2001... Mod Makeup Hues and Fun Holiday Loot From Maybelline Five lucky Cosmo readers will win the makeup and hair color mentioned above, plus a rainbow of eight Crystal Glitters Shadow Pencils, a combined value of $75. See page 252 for details....

A day we'll never forget. (FROM THE EDITOR).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... * I know that some of you were directly affected by the terrorist attacks on Tuesday, September 11th, and all of us have been rattled and immensely saddened by the events on that day. On page 186, you'll find "The Day I Thought I Was Going to...

scent-sational advice. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "I read the article 'How to Make Scent Your Secret Weapon' (October), and I kid you not, your advice worked! The article told me to use a lavender aroma to bag the guy I wanted. The next day at work, I passed by him, and he asked 'What is that...

worried sick. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "October's 'I Convinced Myself I Was Dying' brought me to tears. For years, I've thought I had cancer or some other disease. Every bump or lump meant I was near death. Like Melissa, I went to the doctor all the time only to be told I was fine....

different strokes. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "In 'The 5 Secrets of Sexual Touch' (October), you say to use more pressure when touching your man. I just want to point out that all men are different-my guy usually says 'ouch' if I use more than a little pressure. You can't generalize about...

Moms from hell. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... My Man's Mom Is a Total Psycho' (October) reminded me of my guy's mom. When we started dating, she called me a slut. (I was a virgin!) It took her two years to accept me. I'm glad because I'm marrying him!" -Jennifer, Baltimore

cosmo saves the day. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "October's article 'First Aid for Nutso Dating Moves' saved me from total mortification. A week after I read it, my new beau caught me sneaking in his drawer, but your advice bailed me out." -Gina Boldeau, Brooklyn

shared sorrow. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "I am writing to express my empathy with Cynthia Brown, who told her heartbreaking story 'My Fiance Died at His Bachelor Party' (October). Two years ago, I lost the man I loved to encephalitis. I am now crazy about a wonderful guy whom I never...

firing fret. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "October's article on who will be fired ('The New Firing Frenzy') really hit close to home. I recently found out my public relations position was expendable when I was told to look for a new job immediately. What a shock! I worked hard, devoted...

Guy test-drive. (YOU TELL US).
December 1, 2001... "All guys could learn from articles such as 'How to Make Sex More Romantic' and 'Teach Him to Please You'. Men try to be so cool about getting what they want(we all know what that is), but when the moment finally arrives, we are sooo excited...

Cosmo readers share their most shocking stories and steamiest secrets. (COSMO CONFESSIONS).
December 1, 2001... baby got back-ne "When my gym crush, Roger, asked me out, I thought I'd totally scored. He was successful and funny and had a killer body. We went out a few times and always ended up smooching in his car. Finally, on date number four,...

men admit to their dirtiest deeds and most shameless scams ever (GUY CONFESSIONS).
December 1, 2001... surprise package "When my live-in girlfriend, Melissa, and I started having problems, I began dating other people on the sly. One night, I told Melissa I would be working late and instead went to a movie with another girl. My date and I...

Is Whitney withering away? (Cosmo Informer).(Whitney Houston)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... A nasty rumor that Whitney Houston died made the rounds of E-mail and radio recently. Her publicist is still perplexed as to where the misinformation came from but assured Cosmo that Whitney is alive. Some say the false statement stemmed from...

Stars' neurotic needs. (Cosmo Informer).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... *P.Diddy has all his backstage food inspected for hair. * Pop diva Mariah Carey reportedly prefers to be photographed on one side of her face. Claudia Schiffer loves Skittles but insists that someone pick out all the purple ones for...

Julia's final blow. (Cosmo Informer).(Julia Roberts )(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Looks like there's little chance that Julia Roberts and ex-beau Benjamin Bratt will reconcile. Besides the fact that Julia has been rumored to be linked to cameraman Daniel Moder, she had a suitcase delivered to Bratt containing every...

Dancing duel. (Cosmo Informer).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Sisqo and Usher seem like nice guys, but their competitiveness is getting pretty ugly. The feud started when Sisqo recently challenged Usher to a song-and-dance contest, claiming that his skills were far superior. When reporters asked Usher...

Drowned out. (Cosmo Informer).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Who had the most celebrity wattage when Madonna's Drowned World Tour hit Los Angeles? Even the Material Mom was upstaged at the Staples Center by Tom Cruise and his new lady, Penelope Cruz. After the lights dimmed, Tom and Penelope popped in to...

Who looked dumb in 2001. (Cosmo Informer).
December 1, 2001... Check out the celeb style choice that gets a gold star...and the slew of others that need serious help. GWYNETH PALTROW Gwyneth's elegant Valentino ensemble deserves a glowing review. KYLIE BAX Even Cher would be far too...

Season's screenings. (Cosmo Informer).
December 1, 2001... You've OD'd on quality family time and can't afford another shopping spree. Our solution: Head to the nearest theater to catch one of these new flicks. VANILLA SKY (12/14) STARS: Tom Cruise, Penelope Cruz, Cameron Diaz PLOT: A...

Owen Wilson stripped bare; hunk of the month. (Cosmo Informer).(Brief Article)(Interview)
December 1, 2001... * Owen Wilson may have played a supermodel with a double-digit IQ in the hilarious hit Zoolander, but in real life, he's a total smarty-pants. The irresistible actor, who appeared in Meet the Parents and Behind Enemy Lines, has also penned...

Can a serial dumper ever settle down? (DATING AND RELATING DEBATE).
December 1, 2001... Some say steer clear of perpetual players. * Benjamin Bratt recently joined Julia Roberts' pack of exes, which also includes Liam Neeson, Jason Patric, and Matthew Perry (among others). Though Julia's ability to commit is questionable (she...

Chick stuff he secretly covets. (HIS POINT OF VIEW).(boyfriends)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Don't be fooled by his macho 'tude. There are girlie things he gets off on. * Your boyfriend may bust your chops about being shamelessly vain when you drop 80 bucks on bath products or say that the cheesy nighttime soap you're hooked...

"the girlie habit that irks me". (guys speak out).(quotables)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... "I hate it when my girlfriend asks me what I'm thinking about. If I wanted to tell her what was on my mind, I would have blurted it out already!" -Doug Cilley "It takes my girlfriend half an hour to order in a restaurant. She sometimes...

The best way to get back on top. (ON MY MIND).(Maria Hanson)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... To overcome a traumatic event, says former model and assault victim Maria Hanson, you must learn to take matters into your own hands. * You've heard the saying "time heals all wounds." But after being viciously assaulted 15 years ago, I...

"My boyfriend confessed that he thinks about having a threesome with me and another guy. Is he secretly gay?" (Agony).(sexuality advice column)(Column)
December 1, 2001... three's a crowd My fiance recently admitted that he has fantasized about having a threesome with me and another man. Although our sex life and relationship seem fine, I have to wonder if this means he is secretly bisexual or gay. Should I...

What to wear now. (COSMO FASHION).(fashion fabrics)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... One of the hottest trends isn't a color or shape, it's texture-the sumptuous, touchable kind. Fashion director Elaine Farley reports on the fabrics and trimmings to get your hands on. 1 Velvet. This ultrasoft, boho-romantic fabric just...

Pretty winter pastels: one trend six ways. (Cosmo fashion).(fashion clothing)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Chilly weather needn't equal drab attire this season, it's chic to wear peachy springtime hues. preppy pale purple Cashmere cable knit sweater, M-A-G, $198, 888-MAG-0494; leather belt, Full Moons at Apropo, $95; stretch-cotton...

Catwalk to red carpet: Hollywoodwear. (COSMO FASHION).(celebrities in chic clothes)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... These fashionistas wear designer duds differently than they were shown on the runways, making sure the looks fit their stellar personal styles. MTV It Girl Molly Sims nabs Richard Tyler's menswear-style suit but adds camera-captivating...

Find your sexy party style; going out guide. (Cosmo Fashion).(fashion clothing, cosmetics, jewelry)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Be the foxiest chick at any after-dark happening in one of these three trendy on-the-town ensembles. Turn the page to find the great clothes, gorgeous makeup, and indispensable advice needed to pull them off. Cosmo's ID'd the three...

Post-party beauty rehab. (BEAUTY BUZZ).(skin care and cosmetics)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... If you've been boozin' a bit too much this holiday season, it's bound to damage your looks. "Alcohol dries out your skin and causes puffy eyes," says Ava Shamban, M.D., assistant clinical professor of dermatology at UCLA. Here's how to save...

Cosmo hair.
December 1, 2001... HOW TO... GLAM UP A PONYTAIL With a couple of tricks, your plain ponytail can go from simple to stunning in seconds. Walter Claudio, a salon owner in Santa Barbara, California, shares his best pro pointers: * Update a classic...

Beauty confessions.(tips)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... no-duh dilemma "How do you conceal a pimple? I went on a date, and a zit on my chin was so big, he couldn't stop staring at it." The first step to camouflaging a complexion pest is to use a concealer that exactly matches your skin tone,...

COSMO BUFF.(exercise tips)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... "What's with the pain in my lower back and leg?" It's probably a "pinched" (injured) nerve, says Richard Bachrach, an orthopedist in New York City. Unlike muscle spasms or cramps, which cause localized soreness, a pinched nerve induces pain...

Pleasures.(managing stress)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Have a ball, baby. SIXTH SENSE SPARK HOLIDAY SPIRIT To ensure that you'll be genuinely jolly all season long, stimulate your senses with these fabulous and festive reminders. SENSE HOW TO SPARK IT SOUND ...

Your body.(dangers of mixing energy drinks and alcoholic beverages; treatment of breast pain)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... BAD-GIRL REHAB KILLER COCKTAIL? Mixing energy drinks and alcohol might wreak havoc on your health. Caffeine-and-booze blends are a growing trend at bars and parties...and a growing concern. Two young, healthy people died after...

Cosmo gyno.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... DOWN-THERE HEALTH SCARE PRODUCT RUMOR REALITY TAMPONS Tampons contains No tampons asbestos to cause contain asbestos, heavy bleeding a mineral that...

Cosmo careers.(women tell of overcoming poor job performaces)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... "HOW I SAVED MY HIDE" Readers share the way they blew it big-time, then bounced back. I developed my company's new brochure and stupidly gave the wrong contact information. I negotiated with the printer to eat half the reprinting...

Guy spy.(understanding male behavior)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Was he a player in a past life? David Copeland, coauthor of How to Succeed With Men, suggests some sly ways to gauge his sexual history. Slow him down. Just when your bond begins to shift from PG to R-rated, tell him you like him but...

Supersweet true tales of first-kiss bliss. (Heart Copy).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Readers reveal the delicious instant when their lips locked with a new lad. "It was a hot, humid day, so a bunch of my friends and I decided to revert back to our childhood and run through the sprinklers at a local park. When we got there,...

Why don't you....(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... ... ask him quirky questions. Guys love curveballs...of every variety. So once in a while, toss your cutie an offbeat question: Who's your favorite animated snack character (Mr. Peanut, Chester Cheetah...)? What were the happiest five...

How to get picked up at a party; from the editors at Maxim.
December 1, 2001... The unofficial experts on guys (i.e. Maxim editors) spill the uncensored, outrageous, and entirely self-serving scoop on what it takes to get a man to make a beeline for you at a bash. * You women have going out down to a science: You have...

What's your sexual style? (SEX LIFE).
December 1, 2001... Believe it or not, you have a bedroom MO that may surprise even you. Our Sexy Test will help you unlock (and unleash) your secret passion personality. Fact: We each possess a unique sexual persona that drives our most intimate desires. And...

4 ways you must mesh with your man. (RELATIONSHIP ROAD MAP).
December 1, 2001... You don't need a crystal ball to know if you and your dude will go the distance. Cosmo uncovered what will make or break your bond. The impulse to spin romantic fantasies about the future you and your new man have in store is practically...

Differences you can deal with. (RELATIONSHIP ROAD MAP).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... There's no need to be your guy's clone. These disparities might cause head-butts...but not breakups. Political Affiliation Opposing political views may cause major tension on voting day, but you'll sure have some fiery conversations...

"My father wanted to be a woman". (True Story).
December 1, 2001... Laurie Cicotello was a teen when she discovered her dad was a transsexual. Here, she describes how she dealt with his dramatic transformation. Until my early teens, I was part of what seemed like a regular suburban family: We had enough...

Far-out family secrets. (True Story).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Readers confess some shocking revelations about their closest relatives. "I recently found out my father was smuggling narcotics through the Russian Mafia. I never had a clue, and the only reason I know now is that he was thrown in jail."...

Stress: what pushes your panic button? (Mental Maintenance).
December 1, 2001... Learn how to target the little factors that make you freak out so you can get a grip, take control, and calm your frenzied soul-today. Toni could kick Wonder Woman's ass, according to her bosses at the law firm where she works. She can...

Would you ever date a forbidden man? (The Cosmo Report).(young women dating married, older men)
December 1, 2001... Monica and Chandra made the headlines, but young women in every town hook up with much older married men. Cosmo looks at the allure of dangerous liaisons. Bill Clinton and Gary Condit made Washington look like a playground for powerful...

Why don't men learn? (The Cosmo Report).(why successful men engage in risky sexual behavior)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... They're rich, powerful, influential-and often married. So why do these men risk losing their jobs, families, and reputations to dabble in taboo trysts? Read on. The biggest motivation The ubiquitous midlife behind middle...

Why so many celebs are suffering meltdowns. (Star Stories).
December 1, 2001... Mariah Carey spent time in the psych ward, and Ben Affleck checked in to rehab. Cosmo looks at the reasons more and more stars are coming apart at the seams. It's no secret that Tinseltown is a hotbed for hysterics, but why have so many...

How to avoid a stress mess.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Two fast ways to avert boiling over, no matter who you are: Divide and conquer. Pick one problem and then break it up into smaller pieces. "For example, if you screw up at work, you can't get back in your boss's favor instantly, but...

"My mortifying fake-boob blunder!" (Jaw-Droppers).
December 1, 2001... Before you supersize your set with stealth stuffing, read these tit-illating tales from women whose handiwork blew up in their faces-in some cases, literally. In the sometimes unrelenting quest for a head-turning chest, women have taped,...

Are men tickled by nipples?
December 1, 2001... Here's what guys had to say about Body Perks, the silicone nipple enhancers: Hard nipples are definitely sexy, but I would be disappointed to find out they were fake." -Tim,28 "They're a little something extra that makes her breasts...

The facts on falsies.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... METHOD RATING COSMO FASHION DIRECTOR ELAINE FARLEY SAYS... Push-up Good "The extra lift creates great cleavage, bras especially in V-necks. For more oomph, go a ...

Get set for great sex. (Lust Lessons).
December 1, 2001... Performing a preplay ritual before your man even shows up Is the key to earth-shattering romps. So prep for passion with these tricks...satisfaction guaranteed. Most guys' libidos go from zero to 60 in two seconds flat at the slightest...

Secrets of girls who get second dates. (MANHANDLING).
December 1, 2001... You can quit the finger crossing, praying, and call-me-now vibe-ing. We got guys to share the real reasons they decide to dial you for date two. There are a few truly baffling mysteries in the world: what caused the Big Bang, how women...

How to stay STD-free.(sexually transmitted diseases)
December 1, 2001... Though they're highly preventable, sexually transmitted diseases infect millions of young women each year. Our advice: Stop losing sleep over it and instead dig into this guide-it contains everything you need to know to ensure that you don't...

The true story of one woman's quest for love, lust, and adventure. (Dating Diary).
December 1, 2001... The story so far: Maggie embarked on a whirlwind series of dates, but the only guy that showed any real potential, Sebastien (the French hottie), didn't respond to her E-mail. tuesday Finally had the date w/Phillip, the lawyer my...

Jaime Pressly just wants to have fun. (Fun Fearless Female).(actress)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... * Actress Jaime Pressly has a bone to pick: "I've been up for the part of the lead bitch in every teen movie you could imagine," says the 24-year-old Southern sizzler. "Each time, I'd make it to the end, only to lose out to another girl."...

Are you naughty or nice? (Cosmo Quiz).
December 1, 2001... Do you weigh on the side of being angelic, or is wicked a better word to describe you? Test your tendencies with this quiz. 1 At a party, one of your guy's annoying girl "friends" comes over and gets all huggy-kissy with him. You: a....

Cosmo commandments December: 10 demands you should never make on your boyfriend.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... 1 When asking for a holiday gift, don't say "Get me something that you think I'll like." You'll just end up with a Sports illustrated football phone or a trashy teddy that is made of acetate and is two sizes too small. 2...

A couple's manual: go from close to totally connected.
December 1, 2001... Want to get beyond blissful? From patenting your own trademark sex move to learning how to tap his talk trigger, these tricks will help you create a bond that only the luckiest lovers ever achieve. You've seen them: the kinds of couples who...

99 things to do to a naked man.
December 1, 2001... Even if you think your carnal IQ is already off the charts, don't you dare hop into bed until you crib these very randy hints-we're talking specifics that'll turn you into the kind of sexual dynamo he's only dreamed of. * When it comes to...

The day I thought I was going to die; WTC: a Cosmo reader's story.
December 1, 2001... Thousands of stories emerged from the ashes of the World Trade Center on September 11. Cosmo reader Beth LaBarre, 25, recounts her harrowing escape to safety and the tragic coincidence she later discovered. * I grew up in North Smithfield,...

Cosmo's dictionary of your life.(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... You know those things-hilariously unsexy moments, food crises, weird man breeds, icky body disasters-you and your friends experience every day but don't, um, quite know how to put into words? Well, Cosmo's done it for you. Atkins Attack:...

The hottest chicks in Hollywood.(Julia Stiles, Brittany Murphy, Zhang Ziyi, Ali Larter , Amy Smart, Michelle Rodriguez, Hannon Elizabeth, Erika Christensen)(Interview)
December 1, 2001... Cover girl Julia Stiles-and the eight fresh faces that follow-are taking Tinseltown by storm. With luscious good looks and loads of talent, they command A-list attention. * It's hard to imagine a head-turning superstar like Julia Stiles...

A star is born.(fashion tips)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... The look that'll make you an overnight sensation? A hip mix of hues and styles that spotlight your individuality and let you ooze charisma. Whether you're in front of a camera or confined to a desk, people will know you were meant to be a...

How to look hot in a hurry.
December 1, 2001... During this crazy-busy season, you have zero time for fussing over your appearance, but you still need to look fabulous. To the rescue: Our roundup of timesaving get-gorgeous strategies perfect for the girl on the go. Photographs by Chago...

Love in the tub.
December 1, 2001... Rub-a-dub-dub, have a twosome in your tub! A supersensual bath with your boy will strengthen your bond while getting you both strokably soft. These tantalizing, couples-specific spa treatments are guaranteed to lead to a steamy good time. ...

Cosmo's double-your-pleasure guide.
December 1, 2001... Why you should satisfy your sensual appetite, cater to your most carnal cravings, and relish your right to be lazy...without feeling a pang of guilt. * Be honest: When you jog, do you think more about your latest work challenge or the...

Playing a naughty game of doctor; from the sizzling new book Mercy, by Julie Garwood.(Fiction)
December 1, 2001... When sexy surgeon Michelle Renard falls in lust with her hunky patient Theo Buchanan, her seductive bedside manner leads to a pleasure prescription he'll never forget. * Ever since Theo Buchanan, the studly lawyer from Boston, had started...

Buy It Now!
December 1, 2001... Order a copy of Mercy($25) at 10 percent off the cover price by calling Books Now at (800) 962-6651 ext.1105(be sure to mention Cosmo), or visit www.booksnow.com/cosmo.htm. Whenever you order books seen in Cosmopolitan from Books Now, we will...

Holiday rituals with him. (Cosmo Weekend).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... Smooching, sledding, and other sweet suggestions for merrymaking Catch a classic Curl up on the couch together to watch an old-school holiday movie like A Christmas Story or How the Grinch Stole Christmas. Spike up your spirits with...

Love musts.(Cosmo Weekend).(dating tips)(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... DATING DAZED AND CONFUSED "What holiday gift should I give a guy I've just started dating?" "The length of time you've been dating isn't as big a factor as the intensity of your relationship," says Jeff Wise, author of The American...

Party page.(Cosmo Weekend).
December 1, 2001... Twinkly stars Britney and J. Lo brighten up the audience of the 2001 MTV Video Music Awards in New York City. Eve and October Cosmo cover girl Estella Warren grace P. Diddy's party at Manhattan's Tao Club. Ex-sopranos wise guy Jason...

Throw a perfect cocktail party. (Cosmo Weekend Living).(Brief Article)
December 1, 2001... The impressive(but supereasy) snacks to serve, plus invaluable hostess how-tos that'll ensure your bash is a blast Priceless advice from NYC party planner Siobhan F. Haber of Flaherty Miller Events 1 Place the food and the bar at...

bedside astrologer: December.
December 1, 2001... What the stars have in store for you. SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 22-DEC.20) Party down. Say no to some invites when Jupiter loosens inhibitions too much. Single? Break the ice with an eccentric guy near the 19th. Attached? Don't plan on...